Twins

  • A Treat for My Errand Buddies

    Karlie's QT Treat

    I LOVED having my girls home for the Christmas Holiday.  My only complaint is the time went by way too fast.  We had several days when we had to run errands.  On our last day of appointments and errands we ended with a special treat from QT.  The girls each got to pick out what they wanted from QuikTrip.  Karlie picked out a peppermint donut.  Brina picked out a hot peppermint vanilla cupcake drink.  They were very pleased with their special treats.

    It has been so much fun running my errands with the girls.  We had a blast giggling, exploring, playing, random silly games, and activities throughout our adventures.  It won’t be nearly as exciting running around without my little buddies!

    Brina's QT Treat

  • Planet & Star Gazing

    Our Little Karlie Fox Checking Out Jupiter and its MoonOur Little Karlie Fox Checking Out Jupiter and its Moons

    The best evening the entire Christmas break to look at the stars was when it was 20 degrees outside!  All of us went out on the back deck to check out the beautiful night lights in our big sky.  We were able to see Jupiter and its moons!  So BEAUTIFUL!!!  It’s amazing that you can use a telescope to see so very far away.

    Karlie was so excited to see the moon, clusters of stars as well as Jupiter and its moons.  Brina looked for awhile but got chilly so went inside and wrapped in a blanket next to the fire.  Thankful for a chance to gaze at the stars with the family even if it was very chilly outside.

    Star GazingPlanet & star gazing on the back porch

  • Welcome New Year 2014!

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    We had a fun time bringing in the New Year!  It started a little later than we expected because Jake was on call with work, but we were able to pack in a lot of games, snacks, a play, and more exciting activities into the evening.  The girls stayed up until midnight again this year to watch the ball drop and bring in the 2014 New Year!  They were super excited to start the New Year with confetti!

    We talked about all the amazing memories we had in 2013.  All of us agreed that 2013 was an awesome year and we packed in a lot of great memories together as a family.  Several fun trips – a cruise, Vermont, Charleston, Kansas, Atlanta, North Carolina, and more!  We are truly blessed and have so much to be grateful for in our lives.

    We discussed goals and what we are looking forward to in 2014.  The girls decided they wanted to think of at least one goal for 2014.  They took a whole 2 seconds to come up with at least one of their goals.

    Brina’s first goal – “Spend more time outside!  I love playing and being outside!”

    Karlie’s first goal – “Read more books with 400 or more pages!”

    The girls make me smile because in many ways they couldn’t be more different!  One of the themes for 2014 Brina suggested was “Anything Can Happen!”  Thankful for our girls and the opportunity to bring in the New Year with them.  I am looking forward to seeing what God has for our family this upcoming year.

    Happy New Year!

    The confetti was a lot of fun and I am sure it will spread itself through the house even though we tried to sweep it up.

  • Lunch Box Surprises: A Banana with a Name

    Karlie & Brina’s bananas for lunch

    When I make school lunches for the girls I try to put in something fun or interesting into their lunch boxes. Usually they don’t see what surprise I have added until they open their lunch box at school.  I use a variety of different notes, treats, and special items for their lunches.  One of the treats I have been doing this year is tattooing their bananas before sticking them into their lunches.  They have gotten a real kick out of seeing tattooed bananas appear in their lunch boxes!

    I love discovering new and easy ways to add a little spark to their meal!  Both girls enjoy bananas and will take them in their lunches plus we typically have a variety of tattoos from random places around to put to use.  These tattoos were from the girls last visit to the eye doctor.

    One day as I was tattooing their bananas Jake suggested adding their names to the bananas too.  I took a butter knife and lightly scratched their names into the bananas and drew a heart around their tattoos.  As the scratched parts became exposed to the air the lettering began to darken and this is what it looked like a short while later.  Our family usually packs lunches the night before so these went in the lunch boxes and fridge at night; the next morning when I added the ice packs the bananas looked the same as pictured above.  The girls thought these were awesome!

  • A Room of Their Own – Brina & Karlie’s New Rooms

    Brina’s new room after paint and carpet

    Jake and I decided a few months ago that it was time the girls had their own rooms.   As twins they have always shared their room (8 years).  Even though the girls were born on the same day they couldn’t be more different.  At first when we mentioned the possibility of them getting their own rooms one was excited while the other one was reluctant at the idea of getting her own room.  One of the problems we were encountering, other than the normal messy room and no one admitting who made the mess, was that one of the girls needed more sleep, but couldn’t go to sleep at night because her sister who didn’t need as much sleep wouldn’t stop talking.

    Karlie’s new room after paint and carpet

    Since making the decision and starting the process of re-doing their rooms both girls started to get really excited about having  their own space.  They each picked out their own paint colors.  Jake and I went through the colors with them and had to “approve” the chosen colors.  We let them chose three different colors for their room.  Jake and I are not professional painters and I am allergic to latex (which didn’t prove to be fun with all the latex in the paint), but we got through all the painting and re-carpeting in one piece.  Both girls were super excited about their “new” rooms.  We moved Brina into what used to be the “office” so we did her room first.  After we moved Brina into her new room in the middle of August we started on Karlie’s room.  The paint and carpet are done, but the rest of the room is still a work in progress.

    Brina’s Colors

    Main Color – Dazzling Daffodil

    Outer Stripes – Aurora Orange

    Inner Stripe – Orchid Rose

    Brina’s yellow is a bright and cheerful color.  As soon as we started painting on the walls she began giggling because she loved it so much.  Her favorite colors are pink and orange which made good accents on the bright yellow walls.  Karlie told Brina that whenever it is a rainy day the whole family is going to hang out in Brina’s room because it is looked so sunny in her room.

    Karlie’s Colors

    Main Color – Spring Green

    Outer Stripes – Watermelon Smoothie

    Inner Stripe – Cool Colbalt

    Karlie was very patient as we worked on Brina’s room first.  We got her room painted Labor Day weekend, but the carpet kept getting delayed.  She never complained even though she was getting tired of sleeping in the living room.  Karlie surprised me a little more with her colors; originally she was thinking of a red, white, and blue theme, but once we were at the store she choose a bright green color with a fun pink and blue accent.  The best way I can think to describe the main color is it reminds me of  “Key Lime Pie”.  She was super excited to move into her new room and loves both her colors as well as her soft carpet.

    Both girls picked out their three colors and helped pick out their carpet as well.  We ended up agreeing on doing a Thatched Roof color of carpet for both of the girls rooms.  They had a lot of fun picking out the colors, helping, watching, and now finally settling into their new rooms.

    Jake came up with the idea of “posting a note” in each room.  Once all the carpet and padding was removed we had the girls each write a note in both rooms on the floor so someday (hopefully many years from now) when we or someone else goes to replace the carpet in the house they will get to read about the little girls who once lived in the rooms.

    Brina’s note in her room

    It reads:  8-19-13 Hello, my name is Brina.  I am 8.  I have 2 goats, 2 turtles, 5 fish, and 1 dog.  I am getting a new room.  I have never had my own room before.  The colors are dazzling daffodil, pink, and orange.  My favorite colors are pink and orange.

    Karlie’s note in Brina’s new room

    The note says:  Hi, my name is Karlie.  I am Brina’s sister.  I am 8 years old.  I have 1 dog, 2 goats, 2 turtles, and 5 fish.  I hope you like the room like Brina.  I like the colors.  Brina’s favorite colors are pink and orange.  August 2013 – 8/18/13 at 6:14 pm

    Karlie’s note on her floor

    It reads:  Hi, my name is Karlie.  I am going to have my very own room.  I have shared this room with my sister, Brina, for the first eight years of my life.  My room colors are:  Main Color – Spring Green, Outer Stripe – Watermelon Smoothie, and Inner Stripe – Cool Colbalt.  I think I am going to like having my own room.  I hope you like this room just as much as I do.  Love, Karlie * 9/8/13

    Brina’s note in Karlie’s room

    The note reads:  My name is Brina. I am 8 years old.  I have 1 dog named Skipper, 2 goats named Oreo and Snowball, 2 turtles names Shipwreck and Overboard, and 5 fish. Love, Brina 9-8-13

    For those of you who know me well you know this project truly was a “labor of love” because I am not a fancy painter or decorator and I am allergic to latex (any paint drops on my skin or from washing brushes made me react).  I am forever grateful for my husband and all his help as well as support throughout this whole process.  The girls are thrilled and love their rooms.  It is neat to see their personalities really start to pop and develop even more.  I am thankful that we had the opportunity to do this special project as a family.  Now if anyone has any “decorating” advice….let me know!

  • Life on the Farm: Pigs, Cows, & Planting Tomatoes….Oh My!

    The girls had to go check out the pigs.  Thankfully they were really tame because they were pretty big!

    Our girls love animals and always enjoy spending time with ANY animal they come in contact with…yup including the pigs, ha!  During our recent trip to the Midwest to see family the girls spent some extra time on the farm.  The guys happened to be working cattle so they got to watch some of that process as well as hand feed the pigs.  The girls quickly discovered that there was only one barn cat (out of the 15) that would even let them get close enough to pet it!

    My cousin Renelle was in town from Colorado so in between hand feeding the farm animals and exploring with the kids we planted tomatoes for Grandpa Verlyn and Grandma Doris to enjoy later this Summer.  I am thankful that the girls got an opportunity to spend time on the farm as well as some time getting to know their grandparents and great grandparents a little better.  We have a lot of great memories of our time in Kansas!

    To Brina hand feeding the pigs and petting at the same time.

    This pig’s got it made….lounging in the shade being hand fed grass from Karlie!  What a life!

    Hand feeding the pigs

    Giving the cows a special snack!

    They couldn’t feed the cattle fast enough as soon as they brought a handful the cows pulled it through and were munching away on it.

  • Travel & Vacation: Spending Time with Family in Kansas

    The plane was delayed due to rain, but now we are ready to go.  Two little chickies all buckled in….one snacking and the other one with her nose already in a book.  Thankful that the girls travel well.

    The girls and I recently flew out to Kansas to spend some time with my family. We stayed at my parents house, but thankfully we were able to catch up with quite a few people while we were out there visiting. While we were in Kansas Jake was traveling with work so he was managing to stay busy too.

    The girls even got in on the last part of my parents church’s VBS, which included getting wet with water balloons.  I think the highest temperature I saw during out week and half in Kansas was 113 while it was hot the wind helped make it more tolerable.

    A cooler full of mammoth water balloons for VBS game time the next day!

    Lots of little water balloons too!  I think by the end the count was somewhere around 300 water balloons.  The kids loved it!

    Karlie picked a variety of flowers from Grandma Penny’s gardens and displayed the flowers in a pie dish.  They actually lasted almost the entire time we were out there!

    Brina made a blue cat while Brandon is working on some blueberry cookies!

    Karlie is busy socializing and creating play dough goodies too!  Grandma Penny made some homemade play dough for the kids.  They loved it (and were asking me to make some a couple days ago)!

    Beautiful purple flower along the road in Harlan, Kansas

    Some of my Great Grandma Viola’s rose bushes were blooming near the Kelly’s Store and the Post Office in Harlan, Kansas where she used work.  She planted the roses many years ago and yet they continue to bloom every year! Grandma Vi had an amazing green thumb (something I did not inherit, by the way)! She loved flowers and I thought it would be appropriate to stop to snap a quick picture of one of her pretty roses while I was in the area!

     

    Brina and Brandon hanging out in their giant tent they built downstairs in Grandpa Russell and Grandma Penny’s basement!

    Three silly kiddos hanging out in their fort tent while chomping on some “spicy” candy Aunt Renelle brought for them to try!

     

    One of the girls favorite places to visit when in Kansas!  A view of my parents house from the top of Windy Point.

  • Celebrating Father’s Day

    Happy Father’s Day! We love you! XOXOXO

    Happy Father’s Day to my Dad and my Grandpa’s for being there for me throughout my life and for continuing to make a positive impact in the lives of our kids. Happy Father’s Day to my amazing husband Jake Hayes who is a loving husband and a kind, caring, generous, considerate, and awesome Dad to our girls! Thanks for everything you do for us, all your hard work, the laughter, and fun memories you bring into our lives. I love you bunches and am grateful that God has allowed me to share this incredible journey with you! XOXO Happy Fathers Day!

    Sending a Happy Father’s Day message!

    The girls and I were able to spend the week before Father’s Day with my parents and extended family in Kansas.  It was great getting to spend some time with my Dad right before Father’s Day since I don’t get to do that very often anymore with us being so far away.  Thankful that my parents let us invade their house for about 10 days and the great memories we made while in Kansas.

    We were not able to be with Jake for Father’s Day so the girls and I decided to send him a Father’s Day picture.   They helped orchestrate and plan this “chalk message surprise” for Jake.   They were bubbling over with so much excitement that I was afraid they would bust out with the secret before we got it done since we talked to him earlier in the day….they didn’t  though.

    He enjoyed his Father’s Day message from the kids (and the one furry critter that had to be in the picture too).  While Father’s Day is a specific time to “thank” our Dads we are grateful that we can celebrate any time of the year. I am also, thankful that my brother and sister-in-law invited us hang out with them for a few hours on Father’s Day and for the delicious Low Country Broil they made for lunch!

  • Intentional Living: Weekly Goals

    Last week was better even if I am running a couple days late with my weekly goal updates.  The girls and I traveled a little last week so we could spend time with extended family.  It has been nice catching up with Great Grandparents, Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Nieces, Nephews, Cousins and more!  This week I have a lot I want to do, but the schedule will be a little different from the normal routine.

    Last week’s goals

    Family Goals

    1. Read Imagination Station: Problems in Plymouthby Marianne Hering and Paul McCusker (Book 6) – we’ve been busy and a little off schedule with the traveling last week
    2. Plan one special Activity with the Family
    3. Play a board game
    4. Prepare for Upcoming Summer Events
    5. Celebrate the Girls Last Day of School
    6. Spend time with extended family

    Personal Goals

    1. Exercise at least 5 days this week – didn’t get any official exercise done, but I was really active
    2. Drink 8 glasses of water each day – on the day the girls & I traveled I did not stay up on my water
    3. Continue my YouVersion plan(s)
    4. Finish reading Overcoming Dyslexia by M.D. Sally Shaywitz – finished and returned it, now need to type out all my notes!

    Home (Yard & Pets) Management Goals

    1. All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one day
    2. Weekly Dinner Menu planned out for the week – traveled part of the week so didn’t plan out those days
    3. Pay all upcoming bills

    Business Goals

    1. Work on ideas for upcoming blog posts
    2. Keep up with the day to day items that need my attention
    3. Work completed for clients

    Ministry Goals

    1. Meet a friend or family member for Breakfast or Lunch

    Financial Goals

    1. Payoff the Vehicles – made another payment
    2. Pay medical bills in full – making payments

    My goals for the upcoming week

    Family Goals

    1. Read Imagination Station: Problems in Plymouthby Marianne Hering and Paul McCusker (Book 6)
    2. Plan one special Activity with the Family
    3. Play a board game
    4. Prepare for Upcoming Summer Events
    5. Spend some time Monday – Friday having the girls read & do workbooks
    6. Spend time with extended family
    7. Go to nephews baseball game

    Personal Goals

    1. Drink 8 glasses of water each day
    2. Continue my YouVersion plan(s)
    3. Finish reading One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp

    Home (Yard & Pets) Management Goals

    1. All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one day
    2. Pay all upcoming bills

    Business Goals

    1. Work on ideas for upcoming blog posts
    2. Keep up with the day to day items that need my attention
    3. Work completed for clients

    Ministry Goals

    1. Meet a friend or family member for Breakfast or Lunch

    Financial Goals

    1. Payoff the Vehicles
    2. Pay medical bills in full

    I think it is important to share and encourage each other as we seek to improve our lives and the lives of those around us.  I want to live intentionally not just hope all my dreams and goals come true.  When I focus on small steps of improvement I am able to see results as I get closer to my goals.  Some weeks I get closer to the goals I have in my life and other weeks a take a few steps back (life happens, emergencies occur, people get sick).  Once the goals are written down and shared it provides a guideline for what I aim to accomplish this week.

    Why Share My Goals?

    • To keep me accountable
    • To share a piece of my life with you as I strive to be a better Child of God, Wife, Mom, Friend, Homemaker, Entrepreneur and the many other roles I have each week
    • To have my goals consistently written down so I can gauge progress more accurately
    • Create healthy habits in my life
    • To encourage you to share your goals with me as you continue to grown and learn

    How did you do this week on your goals?  Feel free to share or link to your list of weekly goals.

    The picture above is one that I created for my own purposes, however, The “SMART” acronym was originally coined 30 years ago by Peter Drucker in his classic work, Management by Results.