Heart Reflections: Finding Contentment
Linda Dillow in her book Calm My Anxious Heart speaks of a missionary woman that lives in a mud hut in Africa. When she asked the missionary how she was so content this is what she said:
- Never allow yourself to complain about anything (not even the weather).
- Never picture yourself in a different circumstance or someplace else.
- Never compare your lot with the lot of another.
- Never allow yourself to wish this or that had been otherwise.
- Never dwell on tomorrow. Remember it is God’s and not ours.
A few months ago I had the opportunity to travel to India. It was an amazing trip and I had a great time exploring several different areas. I saw things while traveling that just broke my heart…people living on the street or under tarps, children who didn’t have their basic needs met, poverty, and much more. On the flip side while in India I experienced the wonderful hospitality and generosity from the people we encountered (many who didn’t have a lot yet graciously shared).
Traveling to India revealed a lot of things in my heart – one of them being how selfish and discontent I am even though I have been abundantly blessed. I have food, family, clothes, shelter and even more yet some days I still complain. I plan to use this list as a reminder to focus on the many blessings in my life so my heart will rejoice and break the shackles of discontent that sometimes holds my heart captive.
At times it can be difficult to be thankful for the many blessings we have in life. Life doesn’t always go the way we expect. I have a tendency to not only be discontent but to worry about the future or things out of my control.
I could fill my house and heart with all kinds of stuff, worry, fear, or anything else yet by doing this it only grabs hold of my heart and hampers my effectiveness in ministering to the people around me. Besides life here on earth is temporary and I cannot take stuff with me when its my time to go. Let’s take some time today to think, pray, and count our blessings in our lives and find contentment in what really matters.
