Relationships: Traits of a Good Friend

• A friend is a person you can trust,
• Who won’t turn away from you;
• A friend will be there
• When you really need someone,
• And will come to you when they need help.
• A friend will listen to you even
• When they don’t understand
• Or agree with your feelings;
• A friend will never try to change you,
• But appreciates you for who you are.
• A friend doesn’t expect too much
• Or give too little;
• A friend is someone you can share
• Dreams, hopes, and feelings with.
• A friend is a person you can think of
• And suddenly smile;
• A friend doesn’t have to be told
• That they are special,
• Because you both feel that way
• A friend will accept your attitudes,
• Ideas, and emotions
• Even when their own are different,
• And will hold your hand when you’re scared
• A friend will be honest with you
• Even when it might hurt, and will forgive you
• For the mistakes you make.
• A friend can never disappoint you,
• And will support you and share in your glory.
• A friend shares responsibility
• When you have doubts.
• A friend always remembers
• The little things you’ve done,
• The times you’ve shared, and the talks you’ve had.
• A friend will bend over backwards
• To help you pick up the pieces
• When your world falls apart.
• A friend is one of life’s most beautiful gifts.

– Luann Auciello

Wow, some powerful words and wonderful reminders of the characteristic traits to look for in a friend as well as how we can be to be a real friend to others.  We will never be perfect all or even most of the time, but if we have a supportive friends we  an still enjoy the journey through life.