• What Are You Missing?

    crowds in subway Do you have days that get filled with so many activities and projects that you feel as if you are rushing from one item to the next?  Maybe it is just our schedule…… although I think we all need reminded occasionally of the important things in our lives. It is rather easy to fill your day with appointments, projects, and errands that need to be done both in our personal and professional lives.  Then there are days that unexpected emergencies pop up and demand our attention as well…..finishing an extra project at work with a co-worker that has a deadline, taking a sick child to the Doctor, visiting a friend that needs encouragement, a flat tire on the vehicle you are driving, and so many more.

    During these busy days I want to encourage you to remember those things that you are truly passionate about and the people in your life who are important to you.  We miss out on so many blessings in our lives because we do not pause long enough to notice and appreciate them.  I am blessed beyond measure with a loving husband, two beautiful daughters, amazing friends, a great business that helps others, comfortable home, food to eat, clothes to wear, and so much more.  However, on those rushed days it is harder to relax and be content even with the many blessings in my life because the little issues seem bigger and more stressful.  On those days it is even more critical that I focus any extra energy I have on that which is truly valuable.  It is amazing how quickly a thankful heart can lift your spirits.

    My heart goes out to so many who are going through a tough season in their lives right now.  May you be encouraged and know that no matter what your current circumstance may be we all have something to be thankful for in our lives.  As we go into the weekend think about what you are thankful for and pause for a moment to focus on that instead of all the inconveniences of life.  Relax and enjoy an incredible weekend focusing on your passions and the people in your life.  What are your passions?  Who are you thankful in your life?

  • Merry Christmas!

    Christmas TreeWishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas!  May it be a time full of great memories, delicious food, laughter and meaningful fellowship.  It is an ideal time to catch up with family, friends and neighbors.   Have fun catching the excitement with your kids and the people who will be sharing the Holiday with your family.

    We are fortunate to live in an area where there are a lot of wonderful activities.  It has been neat visiting the Festival of Trees at the Hyatt, Christmas parades, driving through various neighborhoods to see all the lights and decorations, and many more fun activities.   Hot chocolate, Christmas stories by the tree, and fun family activities are great traditions to start or continue.  Take time to create memories with those you love whether it is doing community events or spending fun times at home.

    Share a tradition or Christmas memory with us.  It is awesome learning what others do to make their Holiday Season memorable.  Merry Christmas!!!

  • “Amazing People”

    Amazing PeopleAll of us have people in our lives that are fascinating and motivating to be around.   It has been a privilege to have these people in my life both personally and professionally.  What makes a person “Amazing”?

    As I reflect on the people in my life I began to notice some common attributes:

    • Respectful – they are polite and show consideration for others.   Whether your a parent teaching your children manners or a professional working in the business community respect for others goes a long way in building positive relationships.
    • Exciting – they know how to motivate others to action with a high level of energy that is contagious.  A lot of passion is put into their activities and projects which makes others want to be a part of it.
    • Integrity – they uphold a code of ethical principles and sound character.  They are consistent and do what they say they will do both personally and in business.
    • Trustworthy – they are a confidant and person you trust to be honest to the people in their lives.  They know how to speak the truth because it is their desire to improve the lives of their family, friends, and business partners.

    First, think about what it takes to be an amazing person and strive to be one yourself.   Each day enrich the lives of those around you through respectfulness, excitement, integrity, and trust.  Surround yourself with amazing people both personally and professionally.  Together as a business community or as a group of family and friends you can make a positive impact in the lives of others.   Do you have “Amazing People” in your life and if so what are some of their attributes?

  • “Flip the Coin”

    “Heads” orFlip the Coin “Tails”?!  Then….pause….with a moment of excitement before finding out if you are the winner of the toss.  We do not like to admit it, but there are  times when the coin lands in what appears to be our disadvantage.  Unfortunately, our first thoughts in these situations are not always encouraging or positive.

    A few weeks ago on a clear sunny day my husband was in a car accident.  The person that hit his car failed to stop in a timely manner.  My first reaction was of concern for him quickly followed by thoughts of  “we do not have time for this extra inconvenience right now.”   After several days I began trying to figure out ways to “Flip the Coin” and look at the positive side of the situation.

    • Thankfulness – Although the car is totaled my husband is still with us.  The car is much easier to replace!
    • Together Time – More time in the car together for communicating during the busy days.
    • Creativeness – You can creatively coordinate and balance an entire family’s schedule even when you only have one vehicle.
    • Appreciation – For Jake because he is a great Husband, Daddy, Friend and contributes to the family in so many ways.  Also, an appreciation for family and friends who encourage during the challenges of life.

    Find ways to “Flip the Coin” and make even the difficult circumstances a positive experience.  It will not always be easy to change your mindset but by being proactive and taking the time to think of ways to see the good will benefit you both personally and professionally.  We will still face obstacles along the path of life and situations out of our control so let’s remember to encourage one another especially during the tough times.  Do you have an example of how you were able to “Flip the Coin”?