• Intentional Living: Weekly Goals

    Now that I am back into a more normal schedule this week I realized how much catching up I have to do with all the travel and family visiting over the past couple of months.  It is amazing how much stuff gets put on hold during the really busy days but I am thankful for the wonderful opportunities and memories that our family has been able to create over the past few months.  The 2012 year is going by quickly and I have a lot that I want to accomplish in the remaining months so hopefully I get some items tackled this week.

    Here is the update on last weeks goals

    Family Goals

    1. Connect with each family member at least once a day
    2. Spend quality time with our Guests
    3. Spend quality time with Jake
    4. Date Night with Jake – didn’t happen but hope to get it on the calendar soon
    5. Participate in a fun kid activity (go to the park, play, or explore)
    6. Do a creative craft with the kids

    Personal Goals

    1. Exercise – walk at least 5 days this week – didn’t get to this but re-started some of my regular routine
    2. Finish reading  How We Love Our Kids by Milan & Kay Yerkovich – somehow in all my travels I lost this book (maybe on the plane from India) because I have searched everywhere and cannot find this one….hmmmmm….

    Home Management Goals

    1. All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one daywe had a lot of laundry from all the house guests, bedding, and from not doing laundry for over a week so it took me 2 days to get it tackled and I still need to remake the guest bed
    2. Weekly Dinner Menu & Schedule planned out for the week
    3. Spend 30 minutes every day picking up / cleaning the house – probably spent more then 30 each day and still have some work that needs to be done

    Business Goals

    1. Work on ideas for upcoming blog posts
    2. Keep up with the day to day items that need my attention
    3. 1o minutes a day Cleaning / Organizing my desk

    Ministry Goals

    1. Meet a friend or family member for Breakfast or Lunch
    2. Take time to talk, listen, and encourage the people I encounter this week
    3. Be a blessing to a total stranger this weeklet someone go ahead of me in line

    Financial Goals

    1. Stay on track with budgeted amount for the week

    Here are my goals for the upcoming week:

    Family Goals

    1. Connect with each family member at least once a day
    2. Schedule a Date Night with Jake
    3. Prep for upcoming Family Trip
    4. Schedule a Family Game & Fun Night
    5. Read at least one book to the girls every day
    6. Listen to the girls read at least one book to me or Jake every day
    7. Family Yard Sale

    Personal Goals

    1. Exercise – walk at least 5 days this week
    2. Review my upcoming goals
    3. Finish reading  How We Love Our Kids by Milan & Kay Yerkovich (if I cannot find this book after I finish cleaning I will start on my next one)

    Home Management Goals

    1. All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one day
    2. Work on Spring / Deep Cleaning the House
    3. Weekly Dinner Menu & Schedule planned out for the week
    4. Spend 30 minutes every day picking up / cleaning the house
    5. Prepare for our upcoming Yard Sale

    Business Goals

    1. Work on ideas for upcoming blog posts
    2. Keep up with the day to day items that need my attention
    3. 1o minutes a day Cleaning / Organizing my desk
    4. Work on upcoming speaking engagement

    Ministry Goals

    1. Meet a friend or family member for Breakfast or Lunch
    2. Be a blessing to a total stranger this week
    3. Email the updated praises, prayer requests, and schedule to our Community Group

    Financial Goals

    1. Stay within Budget on Groceries $40 for 4
    2. Emergency Fund – save 3 months worth of living expenses
    3. Put money aside for upcoming trips
    4. Put cash aside for 1 year of Jake’s College Classes

    I think it is important to share and encourage each other as we seek to improve our lives and the lives of those around us.  I want to live intentionally not just hope all my dreams and goals come true.  When I focus on small steps of improvement I am able to see results as I get closer to my goals.  Some weeks I get closer to the goals I have in my life and other weeks a take a few steps back (life happens, emergencies occur, people get sick).  Once the goals are written down and shared it provides a guideline for what I aim to accomplish this week.

    Why Share My Goals?

    • To keep me accountable
    • To share a piece of my life with you as I strive to be a better Child of God, Wife, Mom, Friend, Homemaker, Entrepreneur and the many other roles I have each week
    • To have my goals consistently written down so I can gauge progress more accurately
    • Create healthy habits in my life
    • To encourage you to share your goals with me as you continue to grown and learn

    How did you do this week on your goals?  Feel free to share or link to your list of weekly goals.

    The picture above is one that I created for my own purposes, however, The “SMART” acronym was originally coined 30 years ago by Peter Drucker in his classic work, Management by Results

  • Book & Pony Set: “Misty of Chincoteague” by Marguerite Henry

    Book Misty of Chincoteague (couldn’t find a picture of “Misty” and “Phantom” that came with the girls set)

    Book & Pony Set – Misty of Chincoteague  (with “Misty” and “Stormy” similar to the one we got, but couldn’t find a picture of the first book with the ponies)

    My girls are very different in many ways, even though they are twins, but they do have two things in common that they both love…….books and horses / ponies.  While I was in India my Mom came to stay with the girls and she brought their birthday gifts.  She gave the girls the book and “Misty” & “Phantom” ponies.  They were so excited when I got home to show me their book and ponies that went with it.  After we finished reading the current book they were going through they both agreed that the next book should be Misty of Chincoteague by Marguerite Henry.  Every time I would read the book the girls would get out the ponies and each of them hold one while I read.  They loved this story about a little boy and girl who worked hard to buy and raise these ponies.  It was a cute story that our family enjoyed.

    All the incidents in this story are real.  They did not happen in just the order they are recorded, but they all happened at one time or another on the little island of Chincoteague.  All the characters in the book Misty of Chincoteague really lived on Chincoteague Island.  – Marguerite Henry

    The part that was really neat about the story is it was based off a real family and event “Pony Penning Day”.   After getting into the book you quickly grow to love the Beebe family.  The grandparents dialogue is a little choppy to read but otherwise it was a wonderful story to share with your kids especially if they love horses or ponies!

  • Recipe: Strawberry Chocolate Surprise Cupcakes

    Strawberry cupcake with a dark chocolate center

    The fun part about having kids is they inspire you to experiment.  The girls and I were busy doing something in the kitchen and had to make a dessert for an upcoming event so I told them to pick out a box cake mix out of the pantry.  They picked out a Strawberry Cake mix and as we were talking about all the different strawberries recipes we love it lead into can we make something super special with the strawberry cupcakes……..something that would be a surprise for those eating the cupcakes???  That’s when we came up with the Strawberry Chocolate Surprise Cupcakes!

    It is super easy to make too.  Take your favorite cake mix, make it according to directions, pour into cupcake liners, and bake for 5 minutes.  After 5 minutes add a piece of chocolate to the center of each cupcake.  The chocolate will sink to the middle of the cupcake and melt.  We used dark chocolate eggs left over from our Easter candy stash.  The girls were so happy to bring their strawberry cupcakes with a chocolate surprise to their friends.  We did have chocolate frosting and half vanilla frosting (sorry I didn’t get a picture of a cupcake frosted).

    You can see the dark chocolate pieces sinking down into the cupcakes in the picture.  Can you tell which rows the girls put the chocolate into first?!  🙂  This is a great recipe to try with your kids.  They love being able to help unwrap and put the chocolate pieces into the cupcakes, plus they are super excited to share the treat with family and friends.

  • Travel & Vacation: Exploring Hyderabad, India

    Young boy putting sugar cane stocks into a juicer

    Juice from the sugar cane

    You could buy a drink from multiple street vendors who were making sugar cane juice.  Jake and I decided that since there was only one cup and we were not sure about the process it was better to pass on this one although it was fascinating to watch.

    Watering a herd of goats on the side of the road

    It was not uncommon to see a small herd of goats, cows, or chickens on the side of the road.  Sometimes they would be laying under vehicles, on the sidewalk or on hard clay dirt.  There were not a lot of grassy areas in the parts of Hyderabad that we went so the animals would be fed or have to find food various ways (we even saw a few eating out of dumpsters or trash piles).

    Make shift homes on the side of the road

    It was pretty common to see make shift homes like the ones above near the road.  Basically the people didn’t have the means to build or buy a home so they would collect items they found on the side of the road or trash to build a shelter for their family.  Many of these homes were so small and open you could see right through them.

    I did not see a lot of horses in Hyderabad but was able to find this one on a side street

    Brina and Karlie wanted to know if I saw or rode any horses while in Hyderabad.  At least in the city of Hyderabad I only saw a handful of horses.  This one was on a side street and was beautiful so I took a picture of it for the girls.

    Local Bakery in Hyderabad

    Most of the stores and people selling goods to the locals or tourists would set up shop on the side of the road in these little stalls.  Anyone could come to the “market” and shop at the stores along the road.  According to our driver the stores did not open until late morning but would stay open late at night.  Many of the shops would bring everything they could to sell every day and at night they would pack everything up to take it home.  The “stalls” were not rented it was first come first serve so if you wanted to get a good location you would arrive early to set up your store for that day.

    Hyderabad “general store” on the side of the road

    As you can see from part of the sign this is a General Store which sells anything from balls to play dough to toys to chips and more.  The family would set up shop and sit until someone came to shop.  When you came into the store they would try to sell you almost anything while trying to convince you it is a great deal.  Bartering is very common in this area too, although foreigners tend to a pay a premium price.

    Notice the balconies and rooftop

    This building is a combination store set up and apartments for residents.  If you look closely at the picture you will notice that all the balconies (even the top ones) have bars covering the entire opening.  Why?  Because people are desperate enough that they will climb up the building, over the balcony, and break into the apartment to steal.  One of the major problems with these bars covering the balcony is when they have a fire, there is no place to exit other than through the stairwells inside the building which can be dangerous.  Now look at the roof, see the barbed wire at the top.  Why?  If people could climb or get to the top of the roof then they can climb down into the apartments below so they place barb wire at the tops of buildings to help keep the residents and their apartments safe.

    Do you see the spiked object on the front of this car?

    I noticed that on the front of some cars there was a “spiked” object.  After seeing them in a couple different spots where Jake & I were sightseeing I asked about them and found out that these were on the vehicles of government officials.  It really isn’t a spike but an India flag rolled up and on special occasions they will unroll the flag.

    Bicycle loaded down with goods

    The streets were very busy in Hyderabad.  You would see cars, trucks, rigshaws, auto-rigshaws, bicycles, people walking, animals and more.  It was pretty common to see someone pushing a bicycle or cart full of goods down the street.  It looks like this guy is planning to work on plumbing or sell plumbing hardware.

    Roadside market

    They love brightly colored items.  These are two more stores on the side of the road.  You can barely see the divider between them.  One store is selling kids clothing, peacock feathers, and knickknacks and the other store N.K. Store was selling “All Marriage Items and Meena Herbal Powder” according to the sign.

    Hospital in Hyderabad, India

    We wanted to walk through some of the street markets so we parked in the hospitals parking lot.  Next door was a walk-in free health clinic.  Made me very thankful for the health care and hospital we have only minutes from our home in South Carolina.  You will often see people walking with a limp from an earlier injury that they never got medical care for or when they got care it wasn’t set right.

    I saw and experienced so many things during my brief stay in Hyderabad, India.  The people I met and interacted with the regularly were extremely kind, hospitable and generous.  Several times while driving down the street you would have an old man with a missing limb or someone begging you for money.  At one spot as we were walking one lady came up to me, knelt down, held out her hand and said “Sister….Sister…..please help”.  It broke my heart to see so many people pleading for help.  While I couldn’t help everyone it was nice to share what little we had with those around us.

    The “Travel and Vacation” series is an insight into our trips together as a family and ways we relax.  Life is short and we were thrilled to have the opportunity to build memories with family and explore of of the most amazing places during our time away.  Explore with a good attitude, look for fun, and it will be an awesome trip jammed packed with positive memories.  It is refreshing having some time away from the regular routine.  Make it a once in a lifetime opportunity to meet new people and learn.  You just might see or try something new that takes your breath away!

  • Sweet Sisters

    Brina picking up a duck out of the river so she can toss it back into the water.

    Now that’s one big bubble!

    Sweet sister

  • Teaching Our Children: The Value of Learning

    Jake reading to the girls

    Jake and I have made it a priority to read to our girls because it is such a important skill to help them continue to learn.  It is our desire to read to them or with them every day.    When life gets really busy it doesn’t always happen but it is an activity all of us enjoy.  Many times in the evening Jake will read to them after dinner.  The girls love picking out a book to read, listening to us read, and looking at any pictures that are in the book.

    On this particular day the girls picked out a book about raising and caring for goats for Daddy to read to them (yes there is more to the reason behind them picking out this particular book, I will give more information on this topic soon).  It is so sweet watching Jake read to the girls and hearing all their questions.  Thankful for those opportunities to slow down, sit down, and relax reading with the kids.  Whether it is to spend quality time with your child or you get excited when your child asks the meaning of a new word or you want your child to develop her academic skills the time you spend reading with your child is valuable.

    Here are a few benefits that I have discovered while reading to my kids:

    • Develops a love for reading and a story
    • Improved confidence in school
    • Increased language development
    • Demonstrates a variety communication skills and styles
    • Opens up many new worlds and adventures for them
    • Quality time with you
    • Stimulates their imagination and creativity

    There are many reasons why it is important to read to your children.  As summer vacation quickly approaches I am reminded of the importance of reading with the girls.  When the girls and I are reading a “chapter book” as they call it together they are always asking me to read the next chapter because they are so excited to hear what happens next.  I think the most chapters they convinced me to read in one sitting was seven, I was having a blast following the story too!  I want to encourage you to find ways to incorporate reading into your schedule everyday even over the summer break.  How do you stimulate a healthy and fun reading environment for your kids over summer vacation?

    Daddy reading about “goats” to the girls

    I love Karlie’s intent look and Brina’s crazy listening position.  They make me laugh but also reminds me of the many blessings in my life too!

  • Save A Lot: Deals for the week of May 9 – 15, 2012

    The Save A Lot weekly ad deals are listed below for your convenience.  It is a great time to stock up on some Save A Lot deals.  Sign up for the Smart Shopper Club, by doing so you will get a $5.00 off of $25.00 coupon!

    Meats and Seafood

    Skinless Boneless Chicken Breasts – $1.99 lb

    T-Bone Steaks – $6.99 lb

    Sugardale Super Dogs (5 pounds) – $4.99

    Holten Quarter Pound Beef Patties (2 pounds) – $4.49

    Pork Country Style Ribs – $1.99 lb

    Cooked Cocktail Shrimp (40 to 60 count) – $4.99

    Boston Butt Roast – $1.69 lb

    Family Pack Chicken Drumsticks or Thighs – $0.99

    Portside Wild Caught Salmon Fillets (16 oz) – $4.99

    Pick 5 for $19.99 promo on going! Pick any 5 specially marked packages of your favorite cuts or types of meats, vegetables and more.  Here are a few of the specials they have going on with the Pick 5 for $19.99 this week (each item approximately $3.99):

    Fridge and Freezer

    Kraft American Singles (12 oz) – $1.88
    Use $1.00/2 coupon from Kraft “Make It Delicious Book” (Expires 5/31/12)
    Use $0.75/2 coupon from Kraft “Make It Delicious Book” (Expires 11/30/12)
    As low as $1.58 each after coupon

    Banquet Pot Pies or Fruit Pies – $0.65

    Michelina Pizza Snack Rolls (45 count) – $4.99

    Stouffer’s Lasagna with Meat Sauce (90 oz) – $9.99
    Use $0.75/1 printable coupon from Nestle
    $9.24 each after coupon

    Tombstone Brick Oven Pizza (16 to 18 oz) – $2.50

    Eggo Waffles (10 count) – $1.99

    Save A Lot Today Low Fat Ice Cream Sandwiches (12.8 oz) – $1.00

    Fairgrounds Premium Sliced Lunchmeats (14 oz) – $2.99

    Fairgrounds Corn Dogs (8 count) – $2.99

    Arby’s Curly Fries (22 oz) – $2.59

    Produce

    Strawberries (1 pound) – $1.50

    Seedless Whole Watermelon – $4.99

    Fresh Corn on the Cob – 3 for $1.00

    Roma Tomatoes – $0.99 lb

    Parker’s Baking Potatoes (10 pounds) – $3.99

    Yellow Onions (3 pounds) – $1.29

    Household

    Royal Oak Charcoal (8.3 pounds) – $2.47

    Wrightware Foam Plates (100 count) – $2.49

    Bounty Basic Big Roll Paper Towels (6 count) – $5.99

    Charmin Large Roll Bath Tissue (9 roll) – $4.79

    Grocery

    Oreos, assorted varieties – $2.88
    Use $1.00/1 coupon from tearpad found in some stores
    $1.88 each after coupon

    Kraft BBQ Sauce (17.5 oz) – $0.77
    Use $1.00/2 coupon from insert 5/6 Smart Source (Expires 6/6/12)
    $0.27 each after coupon

    Cowboy Billy’s Baked Beans (28 oz) – $1.29

    Jif Creamy Peanut Butter (18 oz) – $2.79

    Betty Crocker Potato Buds Mashed Potatoes (28 oz) – $2.99

    Tampico Punch (32 oz) – $0.88

    Old El Paso Taco Dinner Kits (8 to 11 oz) – $1.99

    Palmer Milk Chocolate Singles for Smore’s (5.85 oz) – $1.99

    Granny Ella’s Honey Grahams (14.4 oz) – $1.89

    Ginger Evans Marshmallows (10 oz) – $0.99

    On the Border Tortilla Chips (12 oz) – $1.99

    Senora Verde Fajita Seasoning Mix – $0.49

    Planters Dry Roasted Peanuts (16 oz) – $2.99

    Betty Crocker Bowl Appetite (2 to 3 oz) – $1.00

    Harvest Classic Juice Drinks (32 oz) – $1.00

    Portmann’s Salad Dressing (16 oz) – $1.49

    Kurtz Mustard (14 oz) – $0.69

    Kurtz Worchester Sauce (10 oz) – $0.99

    Kurtz Sweet Relish (16 oz) – $1.69

    Kurtz Kosher Dill Spears (24 oz) – $1.99

    Crystal Drinking Water (24 pack) – $2.99

    Remember you can use the $5/$25 printable coupon to sweeten these deals!  Plus you can earn up to 5 additional $5 off $25 coupons for sharing the coupon with your friends.  For more information about Save A Lot’s coupon policies go here.  If you find additional deals or savings please let me know and I will add them to the list.

  • Teaching Our Children: Spring Into Reading

    Our filled reading tree

    Last year I started a reading tree for the girls in the Spring and we continued to fill it with leaves through the Summer.  I wanted to find a way to encourage the girls to read.  They had blast adding  leaves to the reading tree.  It was a great visual way for them to see how much they were reading.  Each member of the family had a different color leaf to hang up when a book was read.  The girls also did a summer reading program through our local library and one online as well.

    Spring into reading tree full of leaves!

    As the school year ends in a  few weeks and as summer vacation is getting closer it is now time for me to come up with another fun reading activity for the kids.  I have a couple ideas for this summers reading adventure and will be sharing it with you soon.  What ways do you encourage your children to read throughout the summer vacation?

  • What’s for Dinner: Our Weekly Menu Plan

    With the last few weeks of traveling, family staying with us, and everything going on it has been difficult getting the menu posted.  This past month we had over two weeks when our household went from four people to nine.  There were even days when we had 18 to 26 people over for a meal.  This is the first week in several months that resemble “normal” and I am trying to get caught back up again.   This weeks meals are simple, based off the items we have in the kitchen, and using up the leftovers from having guests.  Here is our menu plan for the upcoming week:

    Our Weekly Menu Plan

    • Monday (Beef Entree): Cube Steak Sandwiches, Watermelon
    • Tuesday (Seafood or Pork Entree):  Ham, Green Beans, Fresh Leafy Salad
    • Wednesday (Chicken Entree):  Chicken & Broccoli Stir Fry, Jasmine Rice
    • Thursday (Pasta or Vegetarian Entree):  Pancakes, Fresh Fruit
    • Friday, Saturday, & Sunday:  Leftovers, Family Preference, and Hosting

    I have a general pattern I try to follow for my weekly Menu Plan (for example Monday we have a beef entree, Tuesday a seafood or pork entree and so forth).  It is my goal, at least in the beginning, to have at least the main dish and one side planned.  I will put together the remaining side dishes (veggies / fruits) based on the food items that need to be used up first and compliment the main entree.

    Setting a weekly menu plan helps me utilize my time better, thus freeing up extra time to spend with my family.  On the days that I am working longer hours I can prep the meal in advance so it will be easier to pull together once I am home.  As I go through the menu planning process I will try to share some of our favorite family recipes.  If there is a specific recipe you would like please let me know and I will do my best to accommodate (some recipes are a toss together meal and I do not use any set measurements).

    As a family of four our life can get busy.  What’s for Dinner is our weekly menu planning series and one of the ways to help keep us organized, on schedule, and within budget.  Our family typically eats 6 to 7  dinner meals at home a week.  We do try to go out to eat at least once a month as a special treat.  Breakfasts are eaten at home before work and school, lunches are eaten at work, school, or home, so dinner is our main meal together as a family.  Dinner is our time to reconnect, share, and enjoy being together after a busy day.  Our weekly menu plan covers Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday only because the weekend (Friday, Saturday, and Sunday) is our time to spend with family and friends.  The weekends tend to be more spontaneous and my husband (who is the better cook) likes pitching in therefore we keep the menu open for variety.  We use up the leftovers throughout the week for our lunches and on the nights that we are busy or can’t cook.

    Photo by Liz