Family
Song: “I Love You More Than You Ever Know” by Michael Ruff
I was looking for a good song about “love” when I came across this one. Even though we have the opportunity to celebrate with the one on Valentine’s Day every year it is important to show appreciate and love towards our spouses throughout the year. Yes, some days are easier to express appreciation than others but if you intentionally do something thoughtful for your spouse everyday it will be a blessing not only to them but your marriage and family. Try doing something thoughtful specifically for your spouse every day for a week, month, or more and let me know how it goes for you!
Intentional Living: Weekly Goals
It was a fun week pack full of extra activities but I was able to make some headway on some of the goals I set for myself. I am hoping to make a lot of positive progress forward this week!
Here is the update on last weeks goals:
Family Goals
Spend 1-on-1 time with each child everyday- Read a book to the girls everyday – I didn’t read a book to the girls the night Jake & I went out for our Date
Have each girl read 1 book to myself or Jake 5 days this weekGo on our Date Night with JakeSpend time together as a family
Personal Goals
- Exercise – walk at least 5 days this week – in the whirlwind of events this didn’t get done
- Go to bed by 10:30 pm or earlier Monday to Thursday – too many late nights
- Finish reading When Work and Family Collide by Andy Stanley – barely had time to pick this one up
Read and listen to the next section of Desiring God: Finding Complete Satisfaction and Joy in God by John Piper (our church Community Group is going through this book together).Travel “To Do” List
Home Management Goals
All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one dayWeekly Dinner Menu planned and written by MondaySpend 30 minutes every day picking up / cleaning the house- Spend 30 hour a day de-cluttering the house – I picked up and maintained but didn’t de-clutter every day
Business Goals
Pay all bills that come in the mail this weekWork on ideas for upcoming blog postsSpend 10 minutes a day cleaning and organizing my desk- Finish 2011 Business Taxes – waiting on the accountant
Ministry Goals
Email our weekly Community Group update including upcoming events on the calendar, praises, and prayer requestsMeet a friend or family member for Breakfast or Lunch
Financial Goals
Stay within Budget on Groceries $40 for 4- Emergency Fund – save 3 months worth of living expenses – working on it
- Complete our personal 2011 taxes – waiting on business taxes to be complete
- Put money aside for upcoming trips – some set aside
- Put cash aside for 1 year of Jake’s College Classes – part of the way through the first year
Here are my goals for the upcoming week:
Family Goals
- Spend 1-on-1 time with each child everyday
- Read a book to the girls everyday
- Have each girl read 1 book to myself or Jake 5 days this week
- Connect with each family member at least once a day
Personal Goals
- Exercise – walk at least 5 days this week
- Go to bed by 10:30 pm or earlier Monday to Thursday
- Finish reading When Work and Family Collide by Andy Stanley
- Read and listen to the next section of Desiring God: Finding Complete Satisfaction and Joy in God by John Piper (our church Community Group is going through this book together).
Home Management Goals
- All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one day
- Weekly Dinner Menu planned and written by Monday
- Spend 30 minutes every day picking up / cleaning the house
- Spend 1 hour a day de-cluttering and organizing the house
Business Goals
- Pay all bills that come in the mail this week
- Work on ideas for upcoming blog posts
- Spend 10 minutes a day cleaning and organizing my desk
- Finish 2011 Business Taxes
Ministry Goals
- Email our weekly Community Group update including upcoming events on the calendar, praises, and prayer requests
- Meet a friend or family member for Breakfast or Lunch
- Email Alms & Legs Ministry Team & Complete Meeting Agenda
Financial Goals
- Stay within Budget on Groceries $40 for 4
- Emergency Fund – save 3 months worth of living expenses
- Complete our personal 2011 taxes
- Put money aside for upcoming trips
- Put cash aside for 1 year of Jake’s College Classes
I think it is important to share and encourage each other as we seek to improve our lives and the lives of those around us. I want to live intentionally not just hope all my dreams and goals come true. When I focus on small steps of improvement I am able to see results as I get closer to my goals. Some weeks I get closer to the goals I have in my life and other weeks a take a few steps back (life happens, emergencies occur, people get sick). Once the goals are written down and shared it provides a guideline for what I aim to accomplish this week.
Why Share My Goals?
- To keep me accountable
- To share a piece of my life with you as I strive to be a better Child of God, Wife, Mom, Friend, Homemaker, Entrepreneur and the many other roles I have each week
- To have my goals consistently written down so I can gauge progress more accurately
- Create healthy habits in my life
- To encourage you to share your goals with me as you continue to grown and learn
How did you do this week on your goals? Feel free to share or link to your list of weekly goals.
The picture above is one that I created for my own purposes, however, The “SMART” acronym was originally coined 30 years ago by Peter Drucker in his classic work, Management by Results
May this home be firmly built upon….
Game: “Wits & Wagers Family” by North Star Games
Are you looking for a great family game? Awhile ago our family received the game Wits & Wages as a birthday gift, since then we had played the game MANY times. So much that several our family and friends have purchased the game as well for their families. We were over….the…top….excited to receive Wits & Wagers Family by North Star Games to play!
Our family has enjoyed playing the Wits & Wagers Family game together. It is a wonderful family friendly trivia game that is fun for the entire family. The four of us played several rounds over the last month with each game being about 30 minutes long. The recommended ages for the game is 8 and up but our girls (who are 7) had a blast playing it too.
We have the original Wits & Wagers game and felt like the Wits & Wagers Family was geared more to a younger audience. The questions were easy enough for the kids to answer, but were not so easy that the adults knew all the answers. The topics were about items that appealed to kids as well. For example, a couple of the questions were along the lines of “How many colors of Fruit Loop cereal are there?” or “In feet how wide is the pitchers mound?”
The game is lighthearted and full of fun facts. You don’t need to know all the right answers in order to score some points. In Wits & Wagers Family you can only gain positive points with your “Meoples” and for having the closest answer without going over which makes it easier for the younger kids who are playing the game. I love that the game encourages you to learn some interesting facts which makes it educational for the whole family. The game is fairly quick, enjoyable, and almost anyone can play it.
The only thing that I was surprised about with this game is the amount of questions. The original Wits & Wagers has 7 questions and answers per card (which we went through fairly quickly because we played the game often) with Wits & Wagers Family there are only 2 questions and answers per card so you go through the deck much faster. I think offering an expansion pack with more questions would provide additional value to this game.
This game has provided a lot of great entertainment for our family. It has been wonderful being able to sit down after dinner and play a round of Wits & Wagers Family together. The time spent playing this game with our family has allowed us to create memories while while helping us unwind, laugh, and relax after our busy days.
If you are looking for a game that the whole family will enjoy you should check out Wits & Wagers Family or better yet come on over and play a round with us. The rounds go pretty fast and you may be surprised at how much you’ll learn. Who knows…..you may even find yourself having a little fun along the way! 🙂
You can purchase this game at major retailers like Books-A-Million, Target, or local game stores found on North Star Games retailer locator. To learn more about the game and those who created it you can visit North Star Games website. You can get the most update to date information on North Star Games by following them Facebook and Twitter.
Disclosure: A special thanks to North Star Games, specifically Dominic Crapuchettes and Luke Warren, for the providing this game for review purposes. The opinions I have expressed are my own.
Living on a Budget: Groceries $40 for 4
The phrase “it’s a wild….wild….week” (kind of a spin off the phrase it’s a mad mad world) kept going through my head this week. I don’t see life slowing down for the next….well few months at least. Here is my weekly update on our Groceries $40 for 4.
Groceries from Save A Lot | RiteAid
Save A Lot | RiteAid Groceries:
- $11.03 at Save A Lot | RiteAid for 1 gallon Milk, 1 bag Cinnamon Raisin Bagels (on clearance), 2 trays Cube Steak (on clearance), 2 packs Sliced Cheese, and 1 bag fresh Carrots.
Groceries from Ingles
Ingles Groceries:
- $20.20 at Ingles for 2 bags Apples (clearance), 1 bag shredded Mozzarella Cheese (32 oz), 1 bag shredded Mexican Cheese (32 oz), 1 container Butter spread, 1 large container fresh Spinach (clearance), and 1 container fresh Mushrooms (clearance). (All the items were on sale or clearance.)
We were able to stock up on a couple great items this week. It was a busy week so I didn’t get a chance to shop around much, it was a maintenance week for us. I hope fill you in soon on some of the exciting stuff going on in our family! 🙂 Thanks for hanging in there with me while life is spinning around me!
This week I spent $31.23 on groceries. I was under on my budgeted amount for the week, yay! I was happy to find fresh produce and meat on sale that we can use for several meals. I hope that next week is better week, back to normal, and we can come under budget!
It is my goal to give you regular updates on this budget section so you can celebrate the good weeks with me and thump me on the bad weeks! As always you are welcomed to join the journey with me. I would love to hear your story and how you are doing too. The purpose of our family doing this it to watch our grocery spending while allowing us to feed our family, enjoy life, share with others, and yet stay on track with our budget.
Living on a Budget is a series of ways our family uses a budget to help keep us accountable with our finances. Life doesn’t always go as planned. We have used some of the ideas I will be sharing for years while others are ones we are just starting to implement as we continue finding ways to be creative and have fun with what we have been given. Having a plan in place allows us the freedom to be smart with what we have been given, get more creative when it is a tight (week, month, year or a season) and when necessary live a much more simplified life. A budget helps us stay on track so we have more opportunities to enjoy the many blessings we have been given as well as share what we have with others. There is so much more to life than having all the stuff. We may not have the newest or greatest items in our house, we drive used cars, and wear hand-me-down clothing…..however, if our family is taken care of and have love for each other and others we have more than all the riches in the world.
Recipe: Beach Bucket Cake
Beach Bucket Cake (with cake crumbs for the “sand”)
I made this recipe a few months ago for my Community Group and it was a big hit. As we get closer to the Spring / Summer season I wanted to share this one with you. It was easy to put together and has a fun presentation for get togethers with family and friends.
Beach Pail Cake:
- 1 Yellow Cake Mix
- 1 (8 oz) Cool Whip
- 1 (3 oz) Instant White Chocolate Pudding
- 1 cup Milk
- 2 cups Strawberries
- 2 cups Blueberries
- Clean beach pail, shovel and shells
Made the yellow cake mix according to directions. Cool and cut up into cubes (see picture below) and set aside. Mix together the instant White Chocolate Pudding and one cup of milk. Add the container of Cool Whip to the pudding and mix well.
Put 1/3 of the cubed yellow cake in the bottom of your clean beach pail. Next put half of the pudding and cool whip mixture over the cake layer. Add half of the strawberries and blueberries for the next layer. Then repeat saving 1/3 of the cake but using the remaining cool whip and fruit mixtures. Crumble the remaining cake cubes and sprinkle over the top. Add your shovel to serve the desert and favorite seashells for decorations.
1. Yellow cake cubed and put in the bottom of the beach pail
2. Layer cool whip and pudding mixture over cake layer
3. A layer of strawberries and blueberries comes next
4. Second layer cubed yellow cake
5. Second layer cool whip mixture
6. Second layer of strawberries and blueberries
7. Cake crumbs on top to make it look like “sand”
8. Decorate the top with seashells or beach items. Add the beach shovel and enjoy!
There are a lot of great variations to this cake. I used what I had on hand in our pantry but you could do it with a pound cake instead of a yellow cake or substitute vanilla pudding instead of White Chocolate or add in different seasonal fruits!
Organized Chaos: Wrapping Paper Organizer
Wrapping Paper Organizer
There are oh so many reasons why I love my husband….here is just one of them. About 10 years ago when we moved into this house I had all my wrapping paper organized in a box. Yes, it was all in one spot but since it was all crammed together it would often get torn or the roll I wanted would be pushed behind several other wrapping papers so I couldn’t find it or I would find the paper but had no tape.
One day I came home and my husband had put together this awesome wall mounted wrapping paper organizer for me. I may have even squealed with delight upon seeing it I was so excited! I LOVE that each wrapping paper has its own individual holder so I can easily grab the one I need. As you can see I try to stock universal wrapping paper that can be used for multiple occasions. Also a pair of scissors and tape remain hung up on the wrapping paper organizer so when I need to wrap a gift or better yet when my husband is wrapping a surprise gift for me everything is ready and accessible. The wrapping paper organizer is hung in a storage closet over our deep freezer. Everything I need is in one place – the wrapping paper, scissors, tape, flat surface (the deep freezer) with the bows and pens stored nearby.
Organized Gift Wrap with Scissors and Tape
Each wrapping paper roll is hung individually and can be taken down as needed. Every once and awhile I will have more than 11 rolls of wrapping paper if I hit a good sale (or stock up for the year after Christmas or other Holidays). If I have more than 11 I keep the new ones in their original packages, store them either in a container under the bed with my bags and tissue paper or another place out of the way until I am ready to put another roll onto my wrapping paper organizer. This system keeps me from having a lot of open wrapping paper sitting around with 1 chunk cut out of it, helps prevent tearing or wrinkling, it’s easier to find the one I want, and overall increases my efficiency when it comes to wrapping gifts for family and friends.
Scissors and Tape hanging on the gift wrap organizer
I hang a pair of scissors and a roll of tape on the wrapping organizer to make them easily accessible. When the tape gets used up I put it on my shopping list and hang the new one up so it is there for the next time. Whether I have an upcoming birthday party, baby shower, wedding, graduation, Holiday or another special event I know exactly where to go to wrap my gifts. Having the wrapping paper organized helps make the process of gift giving not only more efficient but more enjoyable!
Ghirardelli Milk & Truffle Chocolate Squares
Delicious Milk & Truffle Chocolate Squares from Ghirardelli
An extra special package came in the mail recently from Ghirardelli and SheSpeaks! The box contained a bag of Ghirardelli Milk & Truffle Chocolate Squares. I made sure to wait until my husband was home to open them because just looking at them made my mouth start watering. If they were anything like the other chocolates I have had from Ghirardelli I knew we were in for a special treat! Oh my…..they were DELICIOUS….melt in your mouth goodness!
The perfect mix of flavor and texture…any chocolate lovers dream!
Ghirardelli has taken their chocolate to a whole new level with these Milk & Truffle Squares! The Milk & Truffle Squares have a rich slow melting outer layer of milk chocolate with a luscious truffle filling on the inside. The flavor and texture is heavenly!
Individually wrapped Ghirardelli Chocolate Milk & Truffle Squares that melt in your mouth
After receiving these and enjoying them so much my husband and I decided to stretch them out for as long as possible. Each night after the kids were in bed (shhhh….don’t tell the girls…..hehehehe) we would sit down for our quiet time together and each have a Ghirardelli Chocolate Milk & Truffle Square. One square was the perfect amount for an extra special treat in the evenings after a busy day!
Ghirardelli bag full of Milk & Truffle Chocolate Squares
If you enjoy any of the Ghirardelli Chocolates or gourmet chocolate these Milk & Truffle Squares are perfect. They would be a wonderful for a Birthday gift, Valentine’s Day, Anniversary, Mother’s Day, your next Date Night or a special surprise for anyone that likes chocolate or truffles in your family. You can find the Ghirardelli Milk & Truffle Chocolate Squares at most major stores (Target, Walmart, Walgreens, and more).
Goodies from Ghirardelli and SheSpeaks – Bag of Ghirardelli Milk & Truffle Squares and Coupons
Thank you Ghirardelli and SheSpeaks for giving us the opportunity to try these wonderful Milk & Truffle Squares! We LOVED them! I already have the coupons in my purse for the next time I go to the store so we can pick up some more. They are amazing! Thank You! Maybe the next bag of Milk & Truffle Chocolate Squares we’ll share with the kids too! 🙂
As a member of the SheSpeaks, I was given samples of this product to write an informed review. The opinions expressed in this post are my own. I was not paid to write this post. A special thanks to SheSpeaks and Ghirardelli for providing the samples to review and the coupons to use on more products!
Fresh & Healthy: Lunch Box Meals
Lunch Box Goodies
School lunch box goodies for the kiddos! Today the girls picked out some delicious items for their lunch. After they went to bed I made them a homemade chicken salad sandwich and put it in a pretty princess bag for them. Here’s what they packed:
- Homemade Chicken Salad Sandwich
- Fresh Banana
- Fresh Cauliflower
- BBQ Chips
- Yogurt
- Shared a Honey-bun
- Juice Bag
Always something fun to eat in the lunch box.
Intentional Living: Weekly Goals
Last week we celebrated the girls 7th birthday (a wonderful highlight to our week)! The upcoming week it full of extra activities, but hoping to make a lot of progress with my goals as well.
Here is the update on last weeks goals:
Family Goals
Spend 1-on-1 time with each child everyday- Read a book to the girls everyday
Have each girl read 1 book to myself or Jake 5 days this weekGo on our Date Night with JakeCelebrate Valentine’s DayCelebrate Brina & Karlie’s BirthdaySpend time together as a family
Personal Goals
Exercise – walk at least 5 days this week- Go to bed by 10:30 pm or earlier Monday to Thursday – with the extra activities this didn’t get done
- Finish reading When Work and Family Collide by Andy Stanley – haven’t even started it yet….
Read and listen to the next section of Desiring God: Finding Complete Satisfaction and Joy in God by John Piper (our church Community Group is going through this book together).- Packing “To Do” List – working on it
Home Management Goals
All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one dayWeekly Dinner Menu planned and written by MondaySpend 30 minutes every day picking up / cleaning the house- Dinner ready by 5:30 PM (Monday through Thursday) – had a couple later nights with appointments
- Spend time re-organizing and de-cluttering the downstairs Bookshelves / Desk / Dressers – started but not finished
Business Goals
Pay all bills that come in the mail this weekWork on ideas for upcoming blog postsSpend 10 minutes a day cleaning and organizing my deskWrite a Guest Blog Post- Finish 2011 Business Taxes – items at Accountant so waiting for them to wrap up their piece
Ministry Goals
- Email our weekly Community Group update including upcoming events on the calendar, praises, and prayer requests – didn’t get this done with all the other activities this week
Meet a friend or family member for Breakfast or Lunch
Financial Goals
Stay within Budget on Groceries $40 for 4- Emergency Fund – save 3 months worth of living expenses – working on it
- Complete our personal 2011 taxes – almost done, waiting for our business taxes to be completed before finishing
- Put money aside for upcoming trips – was able to do some
- Put cash aside for 1 year of Jake’s College Classes – put some aside
Here are my goals for the upcoming week:
Family Goals
- Spend 1-on-1 time with each child everyday
- Read a book to the girls everyday
- Have each girl read 1 book to myself or Jake 5 days this week
- Go on our Date Night with Jake
- Spend time together as a family
Personal Goals
- Exercise – walk at least 5 days this week
- Go to bed by 10:30 pm or earlier Monday to Thursday
- Finish reading When Work and Family Collide by Andy Stanley
- Read and listen to the next section of Desiring God: Finding Complete Satisfaction and Joy in God by John Piper (our church Community Group is going through this book together).
- Travel “To Do” List
Home Management Goals
- All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one day
- Weekly Dinner Menu planned and written by Monday
- Spend 30 minutes every day picking up / cleaning the house
- Spend 30 hour a day de-cluttering the house
Business Goals
- Pay all bills that come in the mail this week
- Work on ideas for upcoming blog posts
- Spend 10 minutes a day cleaning and organizing my desk
- Finish 2011 Business Taxes
Ministry Goals
- Email our weekly Community Group update including upcoming events on the calendar, praises, and prayer requests
- Meet a friend or family member for Breakfast or Lunch
Financial Goals
- Stay within Budget on Groceries $40 for 4
- Emergency Fund – save 3 months worth of living expenses
- Complete our personal 2011 taxes
- Put money aside for upcoming trips
- Put cash aside for 1 year of Jake’s College Classes
I think it is important to share and encourage each other as we seek to improve our lives and the lives of those around us. I want to live intentionally not just hope all my dreams and goals come true. When I focus on small steps of improvement I am able to see results as I get closer to my goals. Some weeks I get closer to the goals I have in my life and other weeks a take a few steps back (life happens, emergencies occur, people get sick). Once the goals are written down and shared it provides a guideline for what I aim to accomplish this week.
Why Share My Goals?
- To keep me accountable
- To share a piece of my life with you as I strive to be a better Child of God, Wife, Mom, Friend, Homemaker, Entrepreneur and the many other roles I have each week
- To have my goals consistently written down so I can gauge progress more accurately
- Create healthy habits in my life
- To encourage you to share your goals with me as you continue to grown and learn
How did you do this week on your goals? Feel free to share or link to your list of weekly goals.
The picture above is one that I created for my own purposes, however, The “SMART” acronym was originally coined 30 years ago by Peter Drucker in his classic work, Management by Results
