Family

  • Flashback Friday: Celebrating Jake’s Birthday

    Brina and Karlie-Happy Birthday Daddyc

    Brina and Karlie were fascinated by the cool new toy on the floor.

    Today we flashback to Jake’s birthday July 2005 when the girls were five months old.  It was his first time celebrating a birthday with two little munchkins with us.  They made the day quite entertaining.  They enjoyed the new things to explore and see throughout the day from birthday banners to candles to rice krispie treats and more.

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    Jake with his two girls on his birthday.  They were intrigued by the candles, but didn’t touch them.  Pretty sure they didn’t help blow them out either.

    Flashback Friday - Brina and Karlie showing off their sucking skillsc

    This is cool new mat to lay around sucking our fingers on….

    Brina sitting on the stool at the island in our kitchenc

    Brina sitting at the kitchen counter.  So Mom…..I hear their might be some kind of special treat for Dad’s birthday, can I try it first, pretty please!?

    Brina spit up and is proud of it, Karlie is just laying there looking at it thinking how grateful she is that it wasn't her this timec

    Oh no….too much excitement for someone.  Who did it this time!?  Brina is feeling better now and Karlie is thankful it wasn’t her this time around.

    Karlie and Brina having fun togetherc

    Daddy’s giggling girls helping him celebrate his birthday.

    Wiggle, wiggle, wiggle worms, look at them squirm (Brina and Karlie)c

    Our little rolly pollies saying “Happy Birthday Daddy! We LOVE You!”

  • Organized Chaos: Cleaning the Top of Kid’s Dressers

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    Messy dresser top

    There comes a point when certain areas start to accumulate too many random items that they need to be cleaned.  For some reason in our house any available flat surface becomes possible game for these types of items – from the kitchen counter tops, dresser tops, table tops, the floor, and more.  I am hoping this is somewhat normal for most houses and if anyone finds an airtight solution to this problem please let me know.  After awhile the little things piling up on flat surfaces really starts to bother me whether it is in the kitchen, bedroom, or somewhere else in the house.  Honestly, I lose track of how many times a week (or a day) I clean off the kitchen counter tops and other places.

    In the bedrooms the big spot for these types of items to accumulate is on the kids dressers.  I want them to be able to keep their treasures, decorate, or show off special items, but at some point it needs to be cleaned and organized.  Sometimes a lot of the clutter items are just things that are not put away in their proper place.  Instead of putting them away they just lay on the dresser top for awhile.  Other times it is some fun trinkets they got at a party, won, or received.  No matter what it is or why it is there the chore of keeping the dresser tops clean, organized, and dusted pops up quite frequently around our house.

    While the kids room is the one I am talking about today I have to admit our dresser tends to get hit with these items as well.  Jake and I are as guilty as the kids in loading up the dresser top with items that do not belong on it.  Even though this area tends to get messy more quickly if you clean it off regularly it won’t take very long before it is looking good again.

    Cleaning off the dresser is quick, easy, and makes the room look so much cleaner:

    1. Take everything off the dresser
    2. Dust the dresser off
    3. Put away the items that did not belong on the dresser
    4. Straightened up the special treasures you decide to keep or that belong on the top of the dresser

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    Looking good Karlie!  It always makes me smile to see what special items they specifically choose to keep on top of their dressers.

  • Flashback Friday: First & Second Time at the Pool

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    Brina a little unsure about this whole “pool” idea

    Today’s flashback Friday goes back about 10 years when the girls first were introduced to a pool.  The first trip to the pool with the Greenville Mother’s of Multiples Club family party.  We didn’t even have swimming suits for them yet so we took them in onesies and swimmer diapers.  They were not to thrilled about the pool the first time around.  Both were a little surprised and not overly excited about it.  You would never know that now though!

    The second time we went to a pool was about a week later with our friend Mike and Ashley.  We had gotten the girls swimsuits in the meantime and they did a little better the second time around.  Still not thrilled about it, but they tolerated it better.

    Brina's first dipc

    Brina was a little surprised by the pool water.

    Brina getting used to the waterc

    Brina slowly getting used to the water on her feet while sitting in Daddy’s lap.

    Brina standing in the poolc

    Brina standing up in the pool, still not sure about this whole pool thing.

    Brina thinking about sitting downc

    Brina thinking about sitting down, but still disturbed by the pool.

    Brina was very curious at why the other swimmers were having func

    Brina was very curious by all the other kids swimming around her.  Why do they look like they are having so much fun!?

    Karlie doesn't really know about this pool thingc

    Karlie’s first dip into the pool.  She was not happy!

    Karlie encounters the pool for the first timec

    Karlie’s thinking that maybe this isn’t too bad.  Daddy seems to think it’s okay…

    Karlie getting used to the poolc

    Jake sprinkled a little water over her head.  She wasn’t entirely sure if she liked that.

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    Karlie sitting on Daddy’s lap talking with another twin.  He wanted to know why she didn’t like playing in the pool, ha!

    Karlie sitting on the bottom of the poolc

    Karlie getting used to the water and she sits there for a minute.

    Karlie still a little unsure but safe on Daddy's lapc

    Karlie looking at Mommy for help and confirmation that this pool thing was okay.

    Karlie wants to know if we can get rid of the big ball of light in the sky, it is really brightc

    Karlie – “Can someone turn off the bright light overhead!”  She was not a fan of the bright sunny day and if she was directly in the sun would just close her eyes and whimper.  Poor baby girl.

    Relaxing after their first pool experience, Brina and Karliec

    Survived their first “pool swim” or should we say little dip!  They were much more content to be back in the bassinet together.

     Brina and Karlie stripped down and drying off in their bassinetc

    Swimming at the pool was EXHAUSTING!  They were out for a nap within a few minutes of drying off and getting into the bassinet.  (Brina and Karlie)

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    Brina and Karlie got their cool new swimming suits and ready to go again.    They think it’s funny now as they are at home sitting in the chair together….

    Flashback Friday - Aunt Ashley and Brinac

    Brina with Aunt Ashley at the pool.  She is still not convinced that this is a good idea!

    Brina, Mommy, and Karlie swimmingc

    Mommy taking Brina and Karlie out into the pool.  They were very intent on watching the pool water, like its going to get them or something.

    Karlie, Brina and Mommy in the poolc

    Mommy with Karlie and Brina.  They tolerated the pool better this time around with only a few tears.  Thankfully it was a small quiet pool.

    Flashback Friday - Brina getting warm after her swimc

    Brina all snuggled up in her dry towel.  She is now ready for her nap.

    Brina's pruned feet-love itc

    Look at those pruney little tootsie toes!  So cute!

    Daddy warming up Karliec

     Karlie is getting sleepy.  Swimming is hard work Dad!

  • Organized Chaos: Kid’s Bookshelves

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     Kids bookshelf

    Our family loves books!  It has always been something we have done together.  When the girls were little we would read to them everyday.  Now we read more chapter books, library books, and special books together as a family.  We do a rotation on who gets to pick out the next chapter book we will read as a family.  Sometimes if Jake is traveling he may miss a chapter or two otherwise we usually do this activity together.

    When the girls were little we barely had any kids books.  We started collecting them, the kids got some as gifts, and they have also bought some with their spending money.  Over the years these books have accumulated.  For one of their gifts a couple years ago Jake made the girls a bookshelf for their room.  They LOVE it!  For the most part they do keep it pretty neat, but every once in awhile it needs a little cleaning and organizing.

    As you can see from the picture above they have books piled on top of the books on the shelf, books leaning all directions, random items that are not books on the bookshelf, and various books out of place.  Since they keep it in decent order it doesn’t take long to freshen up the book shelf, put books away, dust, and we had it looking better in no time.

    We have their books arranged in specific order.  On the top are the kids classics and chapter book series.  The 2nd shelf down we have more chapter books or series.  On the 3rd shelf from the top we have the Golden Classics and soft cover books.  The 4th shelf from the top contains all the kids reference and educational books.  On the 5th shelf from the top we have hard cover books.  The very bottom shelf contains more hard cover books, including some series.

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     Bookshelf is all dusted and organized!

    The next big bookshelf project I need to do is to go through all the younger kids books.  Our kids have outgrown a lot of the smaller  books so I need to decide which ones to keep, donate, sell, etc….  I have slowly been starting to do this by giving some of the younger kid books to kids who I know enjoy those types of books.  I love looking into the kids rooms and seeing them reading books either on their own or together.  It makes my heart happy.  The learning to read fluently has been a journey for our family.  Part of my hesitation in going through and getting rid of some of their smaller books means I have to admit my little babies are growing up and to a Momma’s heart it kind of makes me sad.  Not sure if I will ever be truly ready, but I will eventually go through the books and eliminate some more kids ones so that it will make more room for their more advanced reading books, just not today…

  • Travel & Vacation: Daniel Island Historical Markers & Bike Path (Daniel Island, SC)

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     Beautiful paved Daniel Island bike and walking path

    We love visiting Daniel Island!  Over the past few years we have been several times and it seems like every time we find something new to explore on this island on the outskirts of Charleston, SC.  On one of our trips we took our bikes with us and found a lot of neat places to ride around town. The kids favorite place to ride their bikes was around the cement and paved path in Smythe Lake Park around a little lake in near the Pirates Cove Playground The last time we brought our bikes we would ride around the lake, play for a little bit at the playground, and ride around the lake again.

    The scenery around the lake is beautiful.  On our first pass around the bike and walking trail we noticed Daniel Island Historical Markers along the way.  It was a lot of fun to stop at each one and read about the history of Daniel Island.  We saw some wildlife on our adventures too from alligators to ducks and more!  We got our exercise and learn more about Daniel Island throughout our excursions that day.

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     Biking around the lake

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     On of the historical signs along the biking and walking path – “A Proprietary Governor

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     “Slave Life on Daniel Island”

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     We had a friend sunning himself along the biking trail.  Needless to say we didn’t stop to see if he wanted to play.  Always best to leave the wildlife alone!

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     “Making Bricks”

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     “Tenants & Truck Farmers”

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     “Harry Frank Guggenheim”

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     Friendly ducks swimming and finding little fish to eat.

     The “Travel and Vacation” series is an insight into our trips together as a family and ways we relax.  Life is short and we were thrilled to have the opportunity to build memories with family and explore of of the most amazing places during our time away.  Explore with a good attitude, look for fun, and it will be an awesome trip jammed packed with positive memories.  It is refreshing having some time away from the regular routine.  Make it a once in a lifetime opportunity to meet new people and learn.  You just might see or try something new that takes your breath away!

  • Flashback Friday: Adding More Foods

    Flashback Friday - Daddy making bottles, down from making 16 bottles a day to 10c

    Jake making the next days bottles!

    Today’s flashback Friday is about 10 years ago when the girls were five months old.  Every night right before Jake and I would go to bed we were make the girls bottles for the following day.  At this point when I took the picture of Jake (above) we were down from making 16 bottles a day to 10 bottles a day.  They no longer had to have any caffeine in their bottles and they were sleeping through the night consistently.  Making the bottles the night before helped us be well prepared for the next day when the babies were hungry and ready to be fed.

    It was this month after a routine Doctors check up with the girls that they suggested we start introducing them to rice cereal in place of a couple bottles a day.  That was an adventure in itself.  The girls were not too excited about it at first and would rub it all over their faces and heads as well as cry, but eventually they got used to it.

    Flashback Friday - Brina ready to go do errandsc

    Brina packed up in her carseat and ready to go to the Dr and on errands this morning.

    Karlie doesn't care too much about errands as long as she does not miss her napsc

     Karlie doesn’t care if we run errands or go to the Dr as long as she can sleep peacefully in her carseat.

    Brina's not enjoying the rice cereal to its fullest tastec

     Brina’s first time trying rice cereal.  She was ready for her bottle and instead got rice cereal.  She NOT happy with me and cried through the whole feeding.

    Karlie-ew, what is this stuffc

     Karlie’s first try with the rice cereal.  She was very upset and cried the entire time I fed her too.  This picture was taken right before she burst into tears.  After a couple minutes she closed her eyes and cried as I fed her the last few bites.  Guess, she preferred getting her bottle over the rice cereal.  Such a disappointed baby.

    Karlie not cooperatingc

     Later Jake attempted the second rice cereal feeding instead of the bottle.  Karlie was not happy with Daddy either about him giving her rice cereal instead of her bottle.  Poor baby….growing up is hard!

    Karlie talking to usc

     After awhile she gave up and began to enjoy it.  In this picture she is babbling away as she gives in and eats the rice cereal for Daddy.  Glad to see her smile starting to come back.

    Brina knows how to make a mess with her foodc

     What a mess Brina!  Sometimes we would let them attempt to feed themselves or if we were feeding them they would smear the food all over their faces with their hands.  It never failed during this stage there was always a mess to clean up at the end of meal time.

    Flashback Friday - Brina's morning bottlec

     Brina enjoying her morning bottle with Mommy.  Loved holding them and talking with them first thing in the morning as they took their bottle.  They were always great snugglers and gave me many sweet smiles.

    Karlie-Mmmm...good stuffc

     Karlie enjoying her morning bottle.  When they first started taking the bottles it would take them over an hour to drink an ounce or two.  At this point they were guzzling down several ounces in a just a few minutes.  How much they have grown.  Loved hearing them drink their morning bottles and sigh with contentment.  It was a great way to get the day started.

  • Organized Chaos: 3 Simple Steps When Cleaning Out the Kids Toy Cabinet

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    White Toy Cabinet

    The white toy cabinet may look clean on the outside…however, that is not the case when you open it up and look inside of it.  It has items placed randomly all around and is in a bit of a disarray.  Today we are going to talk about organizing the toy cabinets.  Our kids love playing, but for some reason the items they play with do not always find the correct homes when it is time for them to be put away.  Despite the fact that most toys have a specific location where they call home.  Whether it is that they are in a hurry, don’t want to take the time, or are not sure where to put it, who knows.  Every once in awhile the white toy cabinet, like everything else in the house, needs a good cleaning.

    Sometimes when you are cleaning out the kids stuff you find little treasures that the kids have kept for a variety of bizarre reasons, a candy wrapper from a friend, a 1 inch scrap of paper they are saving to do a craft, a piece of ribbon, or some other item that they stuffed in the cabinet for later use.  There are times when the cabinet is so full of items and disorganized that it cannot even completely shut.  I often wonder why these instances don’t trigger some thought process that says “Hey time to clean me out, please”!  Maybe it does, but they don’t want to do it at that particular moment in time!  Thankfully, as the kids are getting older I am starting notice more occasions were they will voluntarily notice a mess and clean it  up by themselves.   These precious moments makes my heart happy!

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     It’s a mess, not sure where some of that stuff came from in the toy cabinet

    Here are 3 Simple Steps I use when cleaning out the kids toy cabinet:

    1. If it is broken – throw it away

    2. If they no longer play with it – give it away

    3. If it is out of place – put it away

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    Much better!  Now they can actually find the toys and items they are looking for in the toy cabinet!

    After going through the cabinet and applying the three simple principles as well as wiping down the inside and outside of the cabinet it is pretty much done.  Sometimes there are a handful of items I am not sure about or want the kids to make the choice about what they want to do with them, but otherwise it is done.

    While these steps sound really easy there have been times especially when the kids were younger and watching me clean out the toy cabinet I hesitated on some items.  They may not have played with it this month, but maybe they will again next month.  In those cases I usually held onto the toy for a little bit longer and if they hadn’t played with it by the time I cleaned the toy cabinet out again it was time for it to find another home.

    I am a sentimental person so I like to keep special items.  The problem is no one has a house large enough to keep everything so while I may hang onto things longer than some people eventually I have to admit when it’s time to let it go.

  • Flashback Friday: Sweet Babies

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    Silly sisters 5 months old

     Today’s flashback Friday goes to July 2005 when the girls were 5 months old.  We loved seeing their smiles and hearing their giggles at this age.  They were on the move and starting to get into more stuff.  Thankful for these two blessings.

    Their pinchable cheeks are so cute.  They could make each other laugh or cry.  It was an adventure exploring new toys.  They discovered that they could pull themselves up in the crib and look over the edge at us and the room around them.

    This month the girls were strong enough and growing well we got to take them off the heart & apnea monitors.  It was a blessing having them, but it was sure nice to get rid of all the wires and monitors.  We always had extra stuff to carry anywhere we went whether at home, errands, or anywhere else.  Thankful that they are growing and starting to really take off.

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    Brina is unsure about what to do regarding Karlie’s crying!

    Goodnight Babiesc

    They loved watching their mobile above their crib – Brina and Karlie

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    Brina and Karlie giggles

    Flashback Friday - Brina all smilesc

    Brina relaxing on the couch

    Karlie looking happyc

    Happy Karlie

    Brina talking to Daddyc

    Brina talking with Daddy!

    Flashback Friday - Grandpa Russell, Uncle Lee, Brina and Karlie playingc

    Grandpa Russell swinging Brina as Karlie swings in her swing.

    Karlie chucklingc

    Karlie all smiles!

    Karlie sucks her thumb as Brina laughs awaycHappy Babies

    Karlie sleeping with her feet up on the bassinetc

    Karlie sucking her thumb and napping in the bassinet with her feet up

    Flashback Friday - Brina and Karlie face offc

    Their first bumper cars

    Brina pulling her outfit up and Karlie trying to lean forwardc

    Sweet girls

    Karlie and Brina looking all prettyc

    All dressed up in their silky Sunday dresses!

    Flashback Friday - Brina and Karlie smiling widec

    Laughing – Brina and Karlie

    Brina laughing as she plays with Mr. Octopusc

    Brina laughing and playing with Mr. Octopus

    Karlie-life is goodc

    Karlie having fun!

    Karlie-Hi Mommyc

    Karlie is ready to eat!

    Flashback Friday - Brina thinks it is funny to sit up in the crib, Karlie would just rather sleepc

    We came back in to check on the girls a little while after putting them to bed.  Brina is still wanting to play, but Karlie has crashed.

    Who's got Brina and Karliec

    Having too much fun at bed time.

    Brina hanging loosec

    Brina hanging out on the couch

    Is someone being naughty-Karliec

    Karlie laughing, talking, and giggling when she is suppose to be sleeping

    Karlie and Brina waiting or the monitor peoplec

    The heart apnea monitors are officially going back today!  WooHoo!!!  They are almost 6 months old and no longer need them.  Thankful for the opportunity to have these medical devices home with us for so long as they were growing and getting stronger.  Glad the girls are doing so much better..

    Karlie is all smilesc

    Karlie’s excited and talking away!

    Shhhh....Karlie has a secret to tell Brinac

    Shhh….Karlie has a secret to tell Brina!

    Sit up straight soldier -Brinac

    Sit up straight solider B!

  • Organized Chaos: Kid’s Closets

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     What a mess!

    We live in a home with imperfect people.  Life has a way of getting messy.  Over time the busy messiness of life over spills into other areas such as our closets.  It happens to all of us, including our kids.

    On this particular day when I opened the closet I noticed several things out of place – clothes out of their specific baskets, shoes not lined up, headbands askew, and the hair accessories organizer not even hung up, hang up clothes in the wrong spots, crafts all out of sorts, and more disorganization.

    Thankfully with the system we have in place it usually doesn’t take too long to get everything back in shape and looking good again.  The kids are not always “excited” about cleaning out their closets, but they do enjoy it once it is done.  It does look much better to Momma too!

    Here are some closet organizational systems we already have in place that make the closet clean up easier:

    Once all the items listed above are checked, organized, and put back into their proper places there is only one thing left to do.  Make sure all the hanging clothes are properly on the hangers and put them in their correct places.  For our family we switch out cold and hot weather clothes depending on the season.  In South Carolina we typically have a longer warm season then some other places so we are a little heavier on the short sleeve shirts and tank tops than on the heavier winter long sleeves and sweaters.

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     I used a picture from the colder season (the long sleeves show the different sections better than pictures with tank tops).  As you can see her long sleeves / vests are on the left side of her closet with her short sleeve shirts in the middle and her dresses on the right side.  In the summer her tank tops would be on the left where her long sleeve shirts / vests are located in this picture.  We do pull out the kids winter dresses and replace them with summer dresses as well.

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     Looks so much better with everything put away and organized nicely!

  • Flashback Friday: Happy July 4th

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     Happy Independence Day from Brina and Karlie!!!

    Today we are flashing back to July 4, 2005.  It was the girls first July 4th Independence Day celebration!  My Aunt gave the girls these adorable dresses to wear for the celebration.

    We spent the first part of the day as usual.  Getting everybody up, fed, changed, and some play time.  That evening we went over to a friends house to play games and celebrate.  They were good sports and happy babies the whole evening.

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     Brina, Riley, and Karlie all coordinated for the July 4th Holiday!

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    So many reasons to celebrate this July 4th!