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Travel & Vacation: Charminar – Hyderabad, India
Jake & I in front of the Charminar – Hyderabad, India
We are actually standing on a small divider between two streets, thankfully it wasn’t during rush hour! Charminar is known as the Emerald City in Hyderabad. The Charminar was a beautiful building made of granite and marble.
Charminar – Hyderabad, India
Charminar was built in 1591 during the rule of Sulltan Muhammad Quli Autb Shah. It was built to celebrate the elimination of a plague from the city. Historians say that he prayed at this very spot for the plague to come to an end and promised to build a “masjid” mosque to remember this prayer. While building the Charminar Quli prayed “Oh Allah, bestow unto this city peace and prosperity. Let millions of men of all castes, creeds and religions make it their abode, like fish in the water.” *
View from one side of Charminar
Looking out from Charminar towards a large temple in the center of Hyderabad, India
Looking down to the sidewalk below from the top of Charminar
Standing at the top of Charminar and looking across at the people on the other side. The various designs and architecture were pretty amazing!
The older part of Hyderabad that you can see from the top of Charminar
Jake and I at the top of Charminar.
It is quite funny the unintentional scene we make walking through the streets, markets, and historical places because many people had never met anyone from “The United States of America!” and they were intent on watching what we did and the really brave ones talked with us. I had to laugh looking at this picture afterward and seeing all the people standing behind us “posing” for the picture too! It was a neat experience meeting and talking with so many people on our journeys.
Our Driver was a great tour guide through this part of our trip.
This was the only location he would not let us go into alone. He came with us and we were very grateful! They people at the ticket counter would not allow us to pay for his ticket because it was not “appropriate”. He was an awesome driver, cheerful, knowledgeable, and it was neat to get to know him. We got to see the village where he lived and found out that he and his wife had their first kid, a little girl, this past November 2011.
One of the locals wanted us to put together our hands like we are holding the carving on the wall. Always an adventure!
It was so neat looking out over the city of Hyderabad
Looking at Charminar from the street
According to the local historians it has been said that one of the Charminar towers (or marinets) fell after being struck by lightening. It was repaired immediately and since then no major reconstruction has been done on the Charminar.
Charminar – Hyderabad, India
Charminar is built on four corners of the square with a tower (also called “minarets) in each of the four corners. Each side of Charminar opens to the plaza and you can see local vendors selling goods, food, and many items on the street. Every tower (minaret) is four stories high with approximate total height of 159 feet.
The “Travel and Vacation” series is an insight into our trips together as a family and ways we relax. Life is short and we were thrilled to have the opportunity to build memories with family and explore of of the most amazing places during our time away. Explore with a good attitude, look for fun, and it will be an awesome trip jammed packed with positive memories. It is refreshing having some time away from the regular routine. Make it a once in a lifetime opportunity to meet new people and learn. You just might see or try something new that takes your breath away!
Travel & Vacation: Chowmahalla Palace – Hyderabad, India (part 2)
This was a really neat room, it had the various weapons that had been used on display
I am continuing my pictures from our trip to the Chowmahalla Palace in Hyderabad, India. Jake and I packed in several amazing events, learned a lot of great history, and toured the city of Hyderabad. This one one of the neat places we were able to see that day. In the picture above you can see a wall of weapons. It was pretty fascinating to see the various weapons on display. Many of them were made by hand and were used by royalty or famous people in India. They had two huge rooms from floor to ceiling with displays.
More weapons….ouch!
Jake had to explain to me what these seat / basket looking items were
I cannot remember the official name for these….yes there is one, but these are the chairs royalty would set on when riding on an elephant.
Garments and hats worn by royalty
It’s hard to tell from this picture but the royalty wore a lot of gold in their clothing. They would weave threads of gold throughout the pieces making them sparkle in the sun. I have noticed that the people in this area really do like brightly colored and gold items, they wear a lot of “bling-bling”.
Nizam’s Rolls Royce Silver Ghost Throne Car
It was a beautiful canary yellow car (only driven 356 miles)!
Story behind the Rolls Royce Silver Ghost Car
Pretty cool car. They had someone in the display hand washing it when we were there. It is a fun and cheerful colorful, it would be cool to go for a spin in it!
Royal stables with a bunch of old carriages
Pretty flowers in the courtyard at the palace
Bright and beautiful flower at the Chowmahalla Palace, one of my favorites in India!
I had a blast touring the Chowmahalla Palace in Hyderabad, India. It was filled with amazing glimpses into the history of India and it’s royalty. One piece of advice for anyone traveling to this area from USA or overseas, you will probably get stopped a lot, asked questions, pictures taken, and hands shaken.
The “Travel and Vacation” series is an insight into our trips together as a family and ways we relax. Life is short and we were thrilled to have the opportunity to build memories with family and explore of of the most amazing places during our time away. Explore with a good attitude, look for fun, and it will be an awesome trip jammed packed with positive memories. It is refreshing having some time away from the regular routine. Make it a once in a lifetime opportunity to meet new people and learn. You just might see or try something new that takes your breath away!
Travel & Vacation: Chowmahalla Palace – Hyderabad, India
Looking from one side of the palace across the middle fountains to the other side
It was a beautiful palace with a lot of history. Like many of the historical or tourists places to visit in Hyderabad the local price and the tourist price was different. Jake and I had to pay more because we were tourists but we our lines were much faster. Also, another thing that I didn’t realize until after going into various places was that it cost extra to bring in your camera and take pictures.
Chowmalla Palace in Hyderabad, India
The Chowmalla Palace was a place for royalty. The royalty would entertain guests in this beautiful palace in the heart of Hyderabad. This was the first of the Asaf Jahi Palaces. Construction began on the Chowmahalla Palace in 1750 which resided on 45 acres of land, it was a replica of Shah of Iran’s Palace. When the Nizam dynasty took over they expanded and added even more palaces to the Chowmahalla complex. The heart of the palace is the Khilwat Mubarak which has a grand ballroom and throne made of marble. Noblemen and officials were invited to come to the palace for a variety of celebrations with the royal family.
Map of the Chowmahalla Palace – Hyderabad, India
HEH Mukarram Jah Bahadur Asaf Jah VIII and Princess Esra decided to restore the palace with the help of experts. In 2005 the palace for the first time opened its gates to visitors and guests from around the world. The palace was given the Award of Merit 2010 by the UNESCO which was the first of time in Hyderabad’s history. Chowmahalla Palace won the INTACH Heritage Awards in 2002 and 2005 for best maintenance.
In the Chowmahalla Palace courtyards we saw a couple cannons, this one is near the gardens and water fountain.
The cannon had a dragon-lizard like animal on the top and the India royalty crest. I am not sure how much they actually used the cannon since it was inside the courtyard and more decorative. It may have been just stored there as a piece of history, but it was cool to look at and much different then other cannons we have seen.
This is where the royalty would host plays, dances in their huge ballroom and had a throne were the king would sit.
This was a beautiful part of the palace full of history. I really wanted to go up onto the top balconies and look out over the entire palace. It would be really neat to see what it looked like back when it was active with the royal family and guests.
The Chowmahalla Palace had many buildings and courtyards to explore.
The English Bracket Clock
We walked into the ballroom just a few moments before noon. There was a room next to the front door and we noticed a large crowd of people sitting on the floor and looking at the clock. Of course we were curious too! We soon discovered that the people sitting on the floor were waiting to see what would happen when the clock struck noon, so we waited since it was only a minute away. When the clock struck noon a little drummer boy came out and tapped a drum 12 times.
Chowmahalla Palace’s ballroom
Beautiful ballroom with high ceilings, marble floors and columns and crystal chandeliers. It was a pretty impressive room.
Pieces of original stationary from royalty that lived in the Chowmahalla Palace
This shows some of the names and royal crests from the families that lived in the Palace.
Jake & I in one of the royal cloat rooms that displayed garments, furniture, utensils and items from the royality who lived in Chowmahalla Palace
The royal throne in Chowmahalla Palace
The king lounged in his throne in the middle of the ballroom.
Cool chair in the palace
There were rooms in the palace where we could take pictures and other areas where we were not allowed to take pictures. It was really neat looking at all the furniture, paintings, and cool pieces of history.
Window facing one of the courtyards
In the stairwells they had windows that they could open up which provided a nice breeze through the palace and many had beautiful views overlooking the courtyard. This is on one of the stairwells that had an open window overlooking a courtyard. I love how the tree has grown to perfectly match the shape of the window! A few more pictures of the Chowmahalla Palace will be coming soon.
The “Travel and Vacation” series is an insight into our trips together as a family and ways we relax. Life is short and we were thrilled to have the opportunity to build memories with family and explore of of the most amazing places during our time away. Explore with a good attitude, look for fun, and it will be an awesome trip jammed packed with positive memories. It is refreshing having some time away from the regular routine. Make it a once in a lifetime opportunity to meet new people and learn. You just might see or try something new that takes your breath away!
Intentional Living: Weekly Goals
Now that I am back into a more normal schedule this week I realized how much catching up I have to do with all the travel and family visiting over the past couple of months. It is amazing how much stuff gets put on hold during the really busy days but I am thankful for the wonderful opportunities and memories that our family has been able to create over the past few months. The 2012 year is going by quickly and I have a lot that I want to accomplish in the remaining months so hopefully I get some items tackled this week.
Here is the update on last weeks goals
Family Goals
Connect with each family member at least once a daySpend quality time with our GuestsSpend quality time with Jake- Date Night with Jake – didn’t happen but hope to get it on the calendar soon
Participate in a fun kid activity (go to the park, play, or explore)Do a creative craft with the kids
Personal Goals
- Exercise – walk at least 5 days this week – didn’t get to this but re-started some of my regular routine
- Finish reading How We Love Our Kids by Milan & Kay Yerkovich – somehow in all my travels I lost this book (maybe on the plane from India) because I have searched everywhere and cannot find this one….hmmmmm….
Home Management Goals
- All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one day – we had a lot of laundry from all the house guests, bedding, and from not doing laundry for over a week so it took me 2 days to get it tackled and I still need to remake the guest bed
Weekly Dinner Menu & Schedule planned out for the weekSpend 30 minutes every day picking up / cleaning the house –probably spent more then 30 each day and still have some work that needs to be done
Business Goals
Work on ideas for upcoming blog postsKeep up with the day to day items that need my attention1o minutes a day Cleaning / Organizing my desk
Ministry Goals
Meet a friend or family member for Breakfast or LunchTake time to talk, listen, and encourage the people I encounter this weekBe a blessing to a total stranger this week– let someone go ahead of me in line
Financial Goals
Stay on track with budgeted amount for the week
Here are my goals for the upcoming week:
Family Goals
- Connect with each family member at least once a day
- Schedule a Date Night with Jake
- Prep for upcoming Family Trip
- Schedule a Family Game & Fun Night
- Read at least one book to the girls every day
- Listen to the girls read at least one book to me or Jake every day
- Family Yard Sale
Personal Goals
- Exercise – walk at least 5 days this week
- Review my upcoming goals
- Finish reading How We Love Our Kids by Milan & Kay Yerkovich (if I cannot find this book after I finish cleaning I will start on my next one)
Home Management Goals
- All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one day
- Work on Spring / Deep Cleaning the House
- Weekly Dinner Menu & Schedule planned out for the week
- Spend 30 minutes every day picking up / cleaning the house
- Prepare for our upcoming Yard Sale
Business Goals
- Work on ideas for upcoming blog posts
- Keep up with the day to day items that need my attention
- 1o minutes a day Cleaning / Organizing my desk
- Work on upcoming speaking engagement
Ministry Goals
- Meet a friend or family member for Breakfast or Lunch
- Be a blessing to a total stranger this week
- Email the updated praises, prayer requests, and schedule to our Community Group
Financial Goals
- Stay within Budget on Groceries $40 for 4
- Emergency Fund – save 3 months worth of living expenses
- Put money aside for upcoming trips
- Put cash aside for 1 year of Jake’s College Classes
I think it is important to share and encourage each other as we seek to improve our lives and the lives of those around us. I want to live intentionally not just hope all my dreams and goals come true. When I focus on small steps of improvement I am able to see results as I get closer to my goals. Some weeks I get closer to the goals I have in my life and other weeks a take a few steps back (life happens, emergencies occur, people get sick). Once the goals are written down and shared it provides a guideline for what I aim to accomplish this week.
Why Share My Goals?
- To keep me accountable
- To share a piece of my life with you as I strive to be a better Child of God, Wife, Mom, Friend, Homemaker, Entrepreneur and the many other roles I have each week
- To have my goals consistently written down so I can gauge progress more accurately
- Create healthy habits in my life
- To encourage you to share your goals with me as you continue to grown and learn
How did you do this week on your goals? Feel free to share or link to your list of weekly goals.
The picture above is one that I created for my own purposes, however, The “SMART” acronym was originally coined 30 years ago by Peter Drucker in his classic work, Management by Results
I Love You a Bushel & a Peck……
Found a great quote for this Mother’s Day weekend. This song was originally written by Frank Loesser and was introduced in the Broadway musical Guys and Dolls.
Book & Pony Set: “Misty of Chincoteague” by Marguerite Henry
Book Misty of Chincoteague (couldn’t find a picture of “Misty” and “Phantom” that came with the girls set)
Book & Pony Set – Misty of Chincoteague (with “Misty” and “Stormy” similar to the one we got, but couldn’t find a picture of the first book with the ponies)
My girls are very different in many ways, even though they are twins, but they do have two things in common that they both love…….books and horses / ponies. While I was in India my Mom came to stay with the girls and she brought their birthday gifts. She gave the girls the book and “Misty” & “Phantom” ponies. They were so excited when I got home to show me their book and ponies that went with it. After we finished reading the current book they were going through they both agreed that the next book should be Misty of Chincoteague by Marguerite Henry. Every time I would read the book the girls would get out the ponies and each of them hold one while I read. They loved this story about a little boy and girl who worked hard to buy and raise these ponies. It was a cute story that our family enjoyed.
All the incidents in this story are real. They did not happen in just the order they are recorded, but they all happened at one time or another on the little island of Chincoteague. All the characters in the book Misty of Chincoteague really lived on Chincoteague Island. – Marguerite Henry
The part that was really neat about the story is it was based off a real family and event “Pony Penning Day”. After getting into the book you quickly grow to love the Beebe family. The grandparents dialogue is a little choppy to read but otherwise it was a wonderful story to share with your kids especially if they love horses or ponies!
Recipe: Strawberry Chocolate Surprise Cupcakes
Strawberry cupcake with a dark chocolate center
The fun part about having kids is they inspire you to experiment. The girls and I were busy doing something in the kitchen and had to make a dessert for an upcoming event so I told them to pick out a box cake mix out of the pantry. They picked out a Strawberry Cake mix and as we were talking about all the different strawberries recipes we love it lead into can we make something super special with the strawberry cupcakes……..something that would be a surprise for those eating the cupcakes??? That’s when we came up with the Strawberry Chocolate Surprise Cupcakes!
It is super easy to make too. Take your favorite cake mix, make it according to directions, pour into cupcake liners, and bake for 5 minutes. After 5 minutes add a piece of chocolate to the center of each cupcake. The chocolate will sink to the middle of the cupcake and melt. We used dark chocolate eggs left over from our Easter candy stash. The girls were so happy to bring their strawberry cupcakes with a chocolate surprise to their friends. We did have chocolate frosting and half vanilla frosting (sorry I didn’t get a picture of a cupcake frosted).
You can see the dark chocolate pieces sinking down into the cupcakes in the picture. Can you tell which rows the girls put the chocolate into first?! 🙂 This is a great recipe to try with your kids. They love being able to help unwrap and put the chocolate pieces into the cupcakes, plus they are super excited to share the treat with family and friends.
Travel & Vacation: Exploring Hyderabad, India
Young boy putting sugar cane stocks into a juicer
Juice from the sugar cane
You could buy a drink from multiple street vendors who were making sugar cane juice. Jake and I decided that since there was only one cup and we were not sure about the process it was better to pass on this one although it was fascinating to watch.
Watering a herd of goats on the side of the road
It was not uncommon to see a small herd of goats, cows, or chickens on the side of the road. Sometimes they would be laying under vehicles, on the sidewalk or on hard clay dirt. There were not a lot of grassy areas in the parts of Hyderabad that we went so the animals would be fed or have to find food various ways (we even saw a few eating out of dumpsters or trash piles).
Make shift homes on the side of the road
It was pretty common to see make shift homes like the ones above near the road. Basically the people didn’t have the means to build or buy a home so they would collect items they found on the side of the road or trash to build a shelter for their family. Many of these homes were so small and open you could see right through them.
I did not see a lot of horses in Hyderabad but was able to find this one on a side street
Brina and Karlie wanted to know if I saw or rode any horses while in Hyderabad. At least in the city of Hyderabad I only saw a handful of horses. This one was on a side street and was beautiful so I took a picture of it for the girls.
Local Bakery in Hyderabad
Most of the stores and people selling goods to the locals or tourists would set up shop on the side of the road in these little stalls. Anyone could come to the “market” and shop at the stores along the road. According to our driver the stores did not open until late morning but would stay open late at night. Many of the shops would bring everything they could to sell every day and at night they would pack everything up to take it home. The “stalls” were not rented it was first come first serve so if you wanted to get a good location you would arrive early to set up your store for that day.
Hyderabad “general store” on the side of the road
As you can see from part of the sign this is a General Store which sells anything from balls to play dough to toys to chips and more. The family would set up shop and sit until someone came to shop. When you came into the store they would try to sell you almost anything while trying to convince you it is a great deal. Bartering is very common in this area too, although foreigners tend to a pay a premium price.
Notice the balconies and rooftop
This building is a combination store set up and apartments for residents. If you look closely at the picture you will notice that all the balconies (even the top ones) have bars covering the entire opening. Why? Because people are desperate enough that they will climb up the building, over the balcony, and break into the apartment to steal. One of the major problems with these bars covering the balcony is when they have a fire, there is no place to exit other than through the stairwells inside the building which can be dangerous. Now look at the roof, see the barbed wire at the top. Why? If people could climb or get to the top of the roof then they can climb down into the apartments below so they place barb wire at the tops of buildings to help keep the residents and their apartments safe.
Do you see the spiked object on the front of this car?
I noticed that on the front of some cars there was a “spiked” object. After seeing them in a couple different spots where Jake & I were sightseeing I asked about them and found out that these were on the vehicles of government officials. It really isn’t a spike but an India flag rolled up and on special occasions they will unroll the flag.
Bicycle loaded down with goods
The streets were very busy in Hyderabad. You would see cars, trucks, rigshaws, auto-rigshaws, bicycles, people walking, animals and more. It was pretty common to see someone pushing a bicycle or cart full of goods down the street. It looks like this guy is planning to work on plumbing or sell plumbing hardware.
Roadside market
They love brightly colored items. These are two more stores on the side of the road. You can barely see the divider between them. One store is selling kids clothing, peacock feathers, and knickknacks and the other store N.K. Store was selling “All Marriage Items and Meena Herbal Powder” according to the sign.
Hospital in Hyderabad, India
We wanted to walk through some of the street markets so we parked in the hospitals parking lot. Next door was a walk-in free health clinic. Made me very thankful for the health care and hospital we have only minutes from our home in South Carolina. You will often see people walking with a limp from an earlier injury that they never got medical care for or when they got care it wasn’t set right.
I saw and experienced so many things during my brief stay in Hyderabad, India. The people I met and interacted with the regularly were extremely kind, hospitable and generous. Several times while driving down the street you would have an old man with a missing limb or someone begging you for money. At one spot as we were walking one lady came up to me, knelt down, held out her hand and said “Sister….Sister…..please help”. It broke my heart to see so many people pleading for help. While I couldn’t help everyone it was nice to share what little we had with those around us.
The “Travel and Vacation” series is an insight into our trips together as a family and ways we relax. Life is short and we were thrilled to have the opportunity to build memories with family and explore of of the most amazing places during our time away. Explore with a good attitude, look for fun, and it will be an awesome trip jammed packed with positive memories. It is refreshing having some time away from the regular routine. Make it a once in a lifetime opportunity to meet new people and learn. You just might see or try something new that takes your breath away!
Sweet Sisters
Teaching Our Children: The Value of Learning
Jake reading to the girls
Jake and I have made it a priority to read to our girls because it is such a important skill to help them continue to learn. It is our desire to read to them or with them every day. When life gets really busy it doesn’t always happen but it is an activity all of us enjoy. Many times in the evening Jake will read to them after dinner. The girls love picking out a book to read, listening to us read, and looking at any pictures that are in the book.
On this particular day the girls picked out a book about raising and caring for goats for Daddy to read to them (yes there is more to the reason behind them picking out this particular book, I will give more information on this topic soon). It is so sweet watching Jake read to the girls and hearing all their questions. Thankful for those opportunities to slow down, sit down, and relax reading with the kids. Whether it is to spend quality time with your child or you get excited when your child asks the meaning of a new word or you want your child to develop her academic skills the time you spend reading with your child is valuable.
Here are a few benefits that I have discovered while reading to my kids:
- Develops a love for reading and a story
- Improved confidence in school
- Increased language development
- Demonstrates a variety communication skills and styles
- Opens up many new worlds and adventures for them
- Quality time with you
- Stimulates their imagination and creativity
There are many reasons why it is important to read to your children. As summer vacation quickly approaches I am reminded of the importance of reading with the girls. When the girls and I are reading a “chapter book” as they call it together they are always asking me to read the next chapter because they are so excited to hear what happens next. I think the most chapters they convinced me to read in one sitting was seven, I was having a blast following the story too! I want to encourage you to find ways to incorporate reading into your schedule everyday even over the summer break. How do you stimulate a healthy and fun reading environment for your kids over summer vacation?
Daddy reading about “goats” to the girls
I love Karlie’s intent look and Brina’s crazy listening position. They make me laugh but also reminds me of the many blessings in my life too!

























































