Twins

  • Teaching Our Children: How to Garden

    Family Garden's Growing, it's not perfect but the kids are enjoying helping with the project!

    Kids enjoy participating in activities with their parents.  I love finding opportunities to teach my girls.  Gardening was one of the projects I decided would be fun to teach our children this year.  When I explained we were planting a garden and I would like their help with it they were ready to get started immediately.

    Steps for Teaching Kids How to Garden:

    1. Garden Research – start by reading several plant and garden books, both ones at home as well as books from the library.  Reading books on gardening help build the excitement for the project and prepare them for the whole process.   End this step by making a list of items you need to pick up at a local nursery or store.
    2. Picking Out the Seeds – take the kids to the store and have them pick out a few plants and seeds on their own.  Answer their questions and guide them in picking out the best plants.  This is a great teaching opportunity on many levels from learning about plants, prices, and making decisions.  You may be in the store longer than normal but it can be a wonderful experience for the kids.  Once they have their plants picked out have them take the plants to the cash register and pay for them.
    3. Planting the Seeds – read the directions with your kids and start planting the seedlings.  You can start the seedlings in peat pellets.  The pellets can be fascinating to watch grow and the kids enjoy putting the seeds into each one.
    4. Tilling the Soil – have the kids use their shovels to dig up the garden soil.  After a few days of them digging for ten minutes or so go ahead and rotor till the area (the rotor tilling should be done by an adult). The digging teaches them that it takes a little bit of hard work and persistence to get the garden ready for the plants.  Once the ground is tilled and the plants are ready help them dig the holes and place the plants into the ground.
    5. Maintaining the Plants (Water  & Weeds) –  once the plants are in the soil it is time to teach the kids how take care of the plants so they will continue to grow.  Hook up the hose up so the kids can turn on it on and water the plants.  You can use a timer to help ensure the garden gets plenty of water but not too.  One of the most entertaining pieces of gardening is teaching the kids how to pull the weeds; a weed can look a lot like a small vegetable plant to kids.
    6. Reaping the Rewards – the best part of the whole process is when the kids get to pick the produce from the plants.  They get so excited seeing them bloom and the vegetables growing.  Once the produce is ready to be picked show them how to pick the vegetables without damaging the plant.  After the produce is picked help them wash and put it away.

    We decided to do a vegetable garden but these steps can be used for flower gardens as well.  One of the character building lessons you can teach your children with this project is how to share with others.  Having a garden provides delicious vegetables for your family but can be a huge blessing to extended family, friends, and neighbors.  The girls love picking the fresh vegetables and sharing with people around us.  Teaching our children to be considerate and generous helps build positive character traits that will last.  At least once a week let your kids pick a bag of produce on their own, wash it and choose someone to give it to.

    This year we had the girls help us in the family garden.  I think once they get older if they are still interested we will let them do one completely on their own.  It is a great activity that our whole family enjoys.  The rows may not be straight and a few plants may get stepped on but the overall experience is worth it.  Do your kids help in the garden?  What creative tips do you for gardening with the kids?

  • Family Celebrations: Welcome Home Daddy!

    Jake has been away on a business trip the last few days and all his girls have missed him greatly. He came home to a clean house and a “Welcome Back” balloon tied to a bag of his favorite sunflower seeds that the girls had picked out at the Dollar Tree. Thankfully he had a great trip and made it home safely last night. He brought home a few little treasures for the girls and a Zaxby’s Birthday Cake Milkshake for me, delicious! I am grateful for a family who enjoys spending time together. We are all glad to have him back home!

    Welcome Home Daddy we missed you!!!! XOXOXO

     

    Zaxby's Birthday Cake Milkshake! Amazing - Thanks Babe!
  • Family Recipe: Grandma’s Homemade Ice Cream

    It is the season for Homemade Ice Cream! There is something about spending time with family and friends followed by homemade ice cream.  The fellowship is enjoyable and the food delicious!  I am looking forward to dusting off my ice cream maker, picking up the ingredients and eating the tasty ice cream.  The recipe I am sharing is one that my Grandma Willa has made for years.  We used to make this recipe in the hand cranked ice cream maker, the one you got a work out from before eating the ice cream.  We are spoiled now with electric ice cream makers!

    Homemade Ice Cream Recipe: (makes 1 Gallon)

    • 5 Eggs
    • 1 1/2 Cup Sugar
    • 1 Tablespoon Vanilla
    • (beat together)
    • Add: 2 cans of can milk (or use 2 cups cream and 1 carton 1/2 & 1/2 in place of can milk)
    • Pour mixture in container and fill to the line with whole milk
    • Freeze

    If you want a specific flavor instead of vanilla add it to the cream before freezing.  We have added fresh fruit, crashed up candy bars, cookies, peanut butter, or chocolate syrup to the ice cream (strawberries, peaches, butter finger bars, snickers, oreos and more)!  When you are serving a large crowd I have found it is easier to do vanilla ice cream and offer a variety of toppings – hot fudge, fresh fruit (blueberries, pineapple, strawberries, etc…), crushed candy bars, cookies, caramel, sprinkles and whatever else you want to add.

    Now I just need to find a good “excuse” to make homemade ice cream!  Anyone having a party soon?

    Photo by jeffreyw

  • Free Sample: GoodNites Underwear

    GoodNites is offering a free sample of underwear.  Fill out your name, address, and email to receive a sample of your choice.

    • Girls S/M (38 to 65 Pounds)
    • Boys S/M (38 to 65 Pounds)
    • Girls L/XL (60 to 125 Pounds)
    • Boys L/XL (60 to 125 Pounds)

    These are great for keeping in the car in case of a spill or accident!

  • Fresh & Healthy: Our Garden – Fresh Lettuce, Spinach, Dill, Broccoli, Radishes….Oh MY!

    We are enjoying our garden!

    Here are some of the fresh veggies we were able to eat and share this week:

    Fresh Leafy Garden Lettuce and Spinach, first pick of the week!

     

    Fresh Garden Dill

     

    Fresh Garden Broccoli and Radishes

     

    Another day of picking fresh veggies in the garden. Sink full of fresh garden Veggies - Lettuce, Spinach, Radishes, Broccoli!

     

    Another batch of Fresh Vegetables from our Garden! Love eating fresh salads!

     

    And MORE Coming Soon…..

    3 Baby Summer Squash Growing on one of the plants in the Garden!

     

    Beautiful Flowers Blooming on the Beans! We will miss the pretty flowers but are looking forward to the yummy beans!

     

    Two Big Tomatoes begging for the sun to shine this week so they can ripen!

    Hopefully next week you’ll see the ripened version of some of the produce.

    Looking forward to seeing what we’ll be picking from the garden in the next few days to eat and share!

  • Twice As Nice: Proud of My Girls

    I love those moments when your heart bursts with joy at seeing your kids demonstrate wonderful positive characteristics that make them stand out among the crowd.  As a parent it is essential that I continue to teach my children about life.   I catch them (and yes I am bias) showing these positive characteristics as they continue to mature but sometimes I wonder if anyone else sees these precious moments in their lives as well.

    Throughout the school year Brina and Karlie get random “rewards” for being a good example.  One of my favorite ones to see come home in their book bags is the one that gets awarded when a student shows positive characteristics when the other students are disobeying the rules.  It is nice to know that they can be polite and respectful even when their sister (in many cases) and friends are not.  The coupon is for a Free Chick-fil-A Kid’s Meal and is awarded when a student shows on of the following Core Essentials:

    • Respect
    • Initiative
    • Uniqueness
    • Joy
    • Determination
    • Kindness
    • Courage
    • Humility
    • Forgiveness

    There is no such thing as a perfect parent (or a perfect person for that matter) so when I catch my girls doing right, it truly makes me proud.  Nothing I do will force them to be good, kind, or considerate, however, the words I speak (and more importantly) my actions are showing the girls what is expected.  I cannot count the number of times, even in the last week, how they can innocently ask me a question that really makes me think about my actions and in many cases the questions can be quite convicting.

    For example, not long ago I was driving with the girls in the van when another car cut in front of us nearly side swiping our van which resulted in a honk from me……from the back seat I hear Brina say “Be careful little eyes what you see, be careful little ears what you hear for the Father Up Above is Looking Down…….”  Wow, even though in my mind I was “justified” by making the car aware of our presence through the honk, but having her say those words made me really think about how I was reacting in a tense situation.  There is a great responsibility when you children daily watching your words and actions.  I know I cannot do it in my own strength which makes me even more grateful for a heavenly Father who helps guide and direct not only my steps but my kids as well.  They know I am not perfect, but thankfully they do know someone who is and He is much better example of how we should live.

    Twice as Fun is a series on raising Twins and all the joy that comes with it.  We have been richly blessed to have twin daughters in our lives and want to share with you our thoughts, challenges, wisdom and love for raising multiples.  Our girls have different interests and hobbies but they both know how to add excitement to our lives and make us chuckle.

  • Fresh & Healthy: Our Garden – Fresh Lettuce, Spinach, Radishes, & Broccoli

    Directly from the garden to the table! Fresh Spinach, Broccoli, and Radishes . Love Garden Veggies!

    I have been enjoying our Vegetable Garden this year. Many thanks to my amazing husband for putting in the time and energy to help get it started for me.  The girls are thrilled to help me pick veggies.  The vegetables are fresh, delicious and they can be taken directly in to eat at dinner.  This week we picked A LOT of lettuce (a variety of leafy lettuce), some spinach, a few radishes, and a couple small broccoli heads.  My broccoli doesn’t get as big as the ones in the grocery store but they taste good!  I even made homemade White Pie Pizza topped with fresh spinach from the garden, black olives (from the box sale), and mushrooms.  All the neighbors and some of their family members have received lettuce from our garden already this year.  It is amazing how having a garden will encourage your neighbors to come over and visit for a few minutes every week.  The girls helped me deliver lettuce to those who haven’t had the chance to stop by the house this week.  I am thankful that we have been blessed with a garden this year, I LOVE being able to eat fresh veggies and share with others.  It has been a wonderful adventure and has already been a great venue for teaching the girls about giving to others and how to cook what we grow.

     

    Fresh Garden Vegetables we picked this week! We were able to take lettuce around to the neighbors this week, we had a great time catching up with everyone!

     

    Fresh Garden Radishes, the girls comment on their taste was "SPICY"!

     

    Fresh Homemade White Pie Pizza with Fresh Spinach from the Garden, Olives and Mushrooms!
  • Teaching Our Children: One Word A Day

    We have recently begun teaching our girls “One Word A Day”.  The words we pick are ones that we believe will help them expand their vocabulary and provide a foundation for building healthy characteristics.  At dinner time we announce the new word for the upcoming day and discuss the words that we have been learning throughout the week.  We talk about the words meanings plus allow everyone to give examples of how we effectively used or demonstrated the meaning of that word. Even though this is a recent activity we have begun consistently with the girls it has always been our desire to broaden our children’s vocabulary while teaching them healthy qualities that are practical for the rest of their lives.

    Here are a few of the recent words we have been teaching and discussing in our family:

    • Initiative
    • Responsibility
    • Moderation
    • Efficiency
    • Focus
    • Generosity
    • Compassion
    • Hospitality

    You can do this starting with a toddler up to teenager (or older).  Make sure to pick words that expand their vocabulary and understanding, however, ones that they can pronounce.  Encourage them to use those words or demonstrate by their actions throughout the day and week. We strive to chose words that continue to develop positive characteristics in our children.  As a parent we need to be good examples of the characteristics we are teaching our children, we have all heard the phrase “actions speak louder than words”.

    Photo by ToolStop

  • Family Celebrations: Happy Mother’s Day

    Relaxing in the Hammock with my girls!

    Jake got me a hammock for Mother’s Day.  The girls and I enjoyed some time relaxing, laughing, talking and reading stories together in the hammock on Sunday.

    Karlie told me “Mom, I think you’ll have a lot of fun relaxing in your hammock, you can read a book or read the Bible and talk to God outside now!”

    Brina caught a couple little ladybugs to take on the hammock with us “They like to relax and swing too Mom!”

    I am blessed with two beautiful thoughtful girls and a sweet husband.  This year the girls planned Mothers Day from Breakfast in Bed to the gifts and activities.  It was a fun, memorable and relaxing day with the family. My cup truly runeth over….there was a time in my life when I wondered if I would ever have kids and a family of my own.  Thankful that God chose to bless me with these two wonderful daughters.  Being a Mom brings so many precious rewards, fun, and laughter.

    • Breakfast in Bed – Brina and Karlie brought me Cinnamon Raisin Toast, Fresh Fruit (Strawberries, Pineapple, Cantelope, Honeydew, Mango, & Grapes) and a Strawberry Lemonade Fruit Slushy, delicious!  (sorry no pictures of the breakfast in bed)

     

    Sweet Mother's Day Cards the girls made at school!

    The girls had fun “surprising” me with their goodies!  Their cards were so cute!

    Mother's Day Picture Frames Brina and Karlie made in Sunday School!

    The girls were so excited to make these special picture frames in Sunday School.

    Brina and Karlie having fun relaxing on the wooden swing Jake made me several years ago! Thanks Handsome!

    After church we came home and spent time relaxing together.  We enjoyed the beautiful day outside in the yard!

    Freshly picked bouquet of dandelions "lions" and clover compliments of Karlie!

    After lunch Karlie went outside to get a special Mother’s Day surprise for me.  She came back in with a handful of freshly picked dandelions and clover.

    Mother's Day gift from the girls!

    It is the gifts from the heart – the hug, kind word, and thoughtfulness that mean the world to me!  At the same time as I celebrate this amazing day with my family my heart and prayers go out to those who have lost their Moms or who are unable to have children.  Every life is a gift and every day is a treasure from above.   I am thankful for the many blessings (both family and friends) in my life.