Holidays
Living on a Budget: Groceries $40 for 4
It was a busy week which started with traveling from a conference (we went to Nebraska and Kansas with a brief stop in Texas). Here is my weekly update on our Groceries $40 for 4.
Groceries from Ingles and Walgreens
Ingles Groceries:
- $18.02 at Ingles for 2 loaves Laura Lynn Bread, 3 containers Fresh Strawberries (on clearance for $0.99), 1 bag Bananas (on clearance for $1.49), 1 bag mixed Fresh Fruit (5 pounds oranges, red delicious apples, granny smith apples on clearance for $1.49), 2 containers Fresh Raspberries (on clearance for $0.99), 1 half gallon Pomengranate Tea (on clearance for $0.99), 1 bag Fresh Organic Cucumbers (on clearance for $0.99), and 3 bacon wrapped Steak Filets (they are normally over $9 each regularly but got them on clearance for $1.99). (Everything I bought this week at Ingles was on sale, marked down, or on clearance. The fresh fruit, veggies, tea and steaks will come in handy with the upcoming Valentine Holiday. I don’t usually pick up fancy steak even with it on clearance for $1.99 but since Valentines Day is right around the corner and we are going to do a special dinner!)
Walgreens Groceries:
- $7.54 at Walgreens for 2 gallons Milk and 2 two liters Mountain Dew (They had their milk marked down to $2.79 each and their Pepsi products marked down to $0.98. The soda is great for upcoming events).
I think my body was worn out by the time I got home from the conference that it crashed and I ended up getting sick. Thankfully after a couple days of rest, extra fluids, and lower activities I was able to bounce back. I appreciate my husband and kids for stepping up and helping out around the house. Somehow they managed to stay healthy, yay! I didn’t have around to doing a regular grocery shopping run until Friday with all the travel and sickness.
This week I spent $25.56 on groceries. I was under on my budgeted amount for the week because of the busy week with the conference and traveling so thankfully I have a little extra to use towards groceries another week. I was happy to find fresh produce and steak on sale for the upcoming Valentine celebration. I hope that next week is better week, back to normal, and we can come under budget!
It is my goal to give you regular updates on this budget section so you can celebrate the good weeks with me and thump me on the bad weeks! As always you are welcomed to join the journey with me. I would love to hear your story and how you are doing too. The purpose of our family doing this it to watch our grocery spending while allowing us to feed our family, enjoy life, share with others, and yet stay on track with our budget.
Living on a Budget is a series of ways our family uses a budget to help keep us accountable with our finances. Life doesn’t always go as planned. We have used some of the ideas I will be sharing for years while others are ones we are just starting to implement as we continue finding ways to be creative and have fun with what we have been given. Having a plan in place allows us the freedom to be smart with what we have been given, get more creative when it is a tight (week, month, year or a season) and when necessary live a much more simplified life. A budget helps us stay on track so we have more opportunities to enjoy the many blessings we have been given as well as share what we have with others. There is so much more to life than having all the stuff. We may not have the newest or greatest items in our house, we drive used cars, and wear hand-me-down clothing…..however, if our family is taken care of and have love for each other and others we have more than all the riches in the world.
Be My Valentine: Memory Jars, Cookie Surprise, Scrapbook Highlights, Romantic Dinner for Two, & More!
Last year I started the “Be My Valentine” series to help celebrate the upcoming Valentine’s Day Holiday. Here are some fun ideas from last year that our family enjoyed:
Be My Valentine: “I Love You” Memory Jar
A unique Valentine’s gift this year packed full of love and memories! I have created jars (or containers) full of memories for various occasions in the past and they have always been a huge hit with both kids and adults.
Be My Valentine: Cookie Surprise!

Surprise Valentine's Cookie - this one had three different flavors! A fun cookie to make with your kids. It is a sugar cookie with crushed hard candies to make window panes. Fun activity and delicious!
Be My Valentine: Scrapbook Highlights
how your spouse and family you love them on Valentine’s Day by doing a Scrapbook highlighting the big events over the past year. (Photo by shimelle)
Be My Valentine: Romantic Dinner for Two!
You can go out on Valentine’s Days (or any other Date Night) for less when you pack a picnic for two.
Gift Giving: 12 Days of Appreciation
I did this 12 Days of Christmas Appreciation for Jake at Christmas time but it would be a great one to do for Valentine’s Day, your Anniversary, or birthday!
A picture of one of the 12 Days of Appreciation for my husband to help get you started on ideas!
I would love to hear some of your ideas of how you are planning to make Valentine’s Day special with the one(s) you love! Feel free to share you link below in the comments! 🙂
Be My Valentine: “Heart to Heart” Cookies
Heart to Heart Cookies
We made these cookies by using cookie cutters. The girls had fun taking these cookies to school for their lunches.“Heart to Heart” Cookies:- 3/4 cup Butter
- 3/4 cup Brown Sugar
- 1/4 cup Sugar
- 1 package instant White Chocolate Pudding
- 3/4 cup Cake Mix (any flavor)
- 2 Eggs
- 1 teaspoon Vanilla
- 1 teaspoon Baking Soda
- 2 1/4 cups Flour
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
- Sprinkles
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease a baking sheet and cookie cutters. Mix flour, salt and baking soda together and set aside. Cream butter, brown sugar, and sugar together. Stir in the pudding and cake mix until well blended. Mix in the eggs, vanilla, and mix until smooth. Add flour 1/2 cup at a time until mixed well. Stir in the sprinkles. Use an ice cream scoop to place the dough inside the cookie cutters. Bake for 8 to 10 minutes.Cookie dough inside the cookie cutterBe My Valentine: “I Love Everything You Dew” Love Note
I LOVE everything you dew!
A few weeks ago I discovered these cute “pop” love notes from Darling Doodles and have been enjoying adding these love notes to my stash of ones to give to Jake! 🙂 He enjoys drinking Mountain Dew so when it goes on sale I try to get a little for him. This particular love note was a great one to give to my man!
When Jake is coming home after being away with work for several days or if he has had a tough day I try to do something special to cheer him up. I will put the surprises in various visible places throughout the house (his side of the garage, kitchen, his desk, our dresser, on his plate at the table, etc…) where I know he will be. Although, he never knows when I am doing it or where I will put it he always finds it. On this particular day he was stressed with a lot on his plate with work, travel arrangements, family and everything else. I decided it was a good day to put out a special surprise for him to say “I love you”! The Mountain Dew and sweet note sitting on the dresser downstairs in our family room was the first thing he saw walking into the house and it did bring a smile which made it worth it for me!
Sometimes taking just a few minutes out of your day to show your spouse you are thinking about them and that you care can make all the difference. It doesn’t have to take a lot of time, money or effect but the benefits will go a long way. Doing something special for them could mean packing their lunch for work the next day, laying out their clothes the night before, or even leaving a love note on their pillow. Investing time and energy into your marriage is always good for the entire family. How do you cheer your spouse up or make them feel appreciated?
Be My Valentine: “Steal My Heart” Cookies
“Steal My Heart” Valentine Cookies
Last year I picked up this Valentine Heart pan on clearance after Valentine’s Day. The girls were very excited to try it out this year. We made these fun “Steal My Heart” Cookies together. The girls had a blast mixing up the cookie dough and they thought the cookies tasted pretty yummy too. You can use a variety of cookie mixes with this cookie sheet. Below is your basic sugar cookie mix, you can add in a few sprinkles for an extra special touch.
Sugar Cookies
- 1/3 cup Butter or Margarine
- 1/3 cup Shortening
- 3/4 cup Sugar
- 1 teaspoon Baking Powder
- 1 Egg
- 1 teaspoon Vanilla
- 2 cups All Purpose Flour
- Sprinkles (optional)
- Icing (optional)
1. Beat butter and shortening on medium to high speed for 30 seconds. Add sugar, baking powder, and a dash of salt. Beat till combined, scraping the bowl so everything is well blended. Beat in egg and vanilla. Gradually add the flour into the mixture.
2. Cover and chill dough for 1 to 3 hours to make it easier to handle when making cookies or cutouts.
3. Lay down wax paper and lightly flour. Roll the dough to 1/8 inch thickness. Use a variety of cookie cutters to make the shapes you want. Place on lightly greased cookie sheet.
4. Cut out a heart shape in the middle of the cookies. Fill the hole with a crushed hard candy. The candy will melt during baking creating the glass window pane hearts in the middle of the cookies. *We tried using up extra candy canes but they didn’t melt well (they tasted good) but I would stick to the one color hard candies like life savers!
5. Bake at 375° for 7 to 9 minutes or until the edges of the cookies are firm and light brown. Cool until the middle window are set then transfer to a platter.
Heart Shaped Pan
Plate full of Valentine cookies
Heart shaped Valentine cookies
For more fun Valentine’s Day ideas go to Living in La La Land!
Family Recipe: Great Grandma Miller’s Ultimate Cheesecake
Jake’s Mom shared Great Grandma Miller’s Ultimate Cheesecake recipe with me before we were married. I love that this recipe has been in the family for years and it is a great base to many amazing cheesecake recipes. You can top the cheesecake with cherries, chocolate, strawberries or anything that you enjoy with cheesecake.
Great Grandma Miller’s Ultimate Cheesecake:
- 1 cup crushed Graham Crackers or Chocolate Cookies
- 1 tablespoon melted Butter
- 5 (8 oz) packages Cream Cheese
- 1 3/4 cup Sugar
- 3 tablespoons Flour
- 1/4 teaspoon Vanilla
- 5 Eggs
- 2 Egg Yolks
- 1/4 cup Heavy Cream
Mix crushed graham crackers and melted butter then press into a 9 inch springform. Mix cream cheese, sugar, flour and vanilla at high speed. Beat in eggs and yolks one at a time until smooth. Beat in cream. Pour on top of the crust. Bake at 450 for 10 minutes and one hour at 250 degrees. Cool on rack for two hours. Top with your favorite cheesecake topping (strawberries, cherries, chocolate, blueberries, etc…).
Happy New Year 2012 – Start where you are….
Happy New Year!
Thank you for helping make my 2011 an AWESOME year! As I think about the 2012 year getting started I am reminded of the many blessings I have in my life. At the same time I think about the many areas that need major improvement. Starting 2012 means we get a fresh beginning to a new year with a lot of potential for fun, memories, and adventures. Let’s make the most of this time and set new goals for ourselves starting today.
I think the quote above is simple yet direct because as much as I like to think everything will magically change as I start 2012 the reality is that I am very much the same as I was yesterday. The good news is as I continue to implement changes, reach goals, get organized and put my priorities in line I will slowly start seeing those amazing results. When my priorities are in order it gives me clearer picture and more opportunities to make a positive impact on the lives of my family, friends, and others.
Wishing you a FANTASTIC 2012 full of wonderful blessings!
Blessing Lives Everyday with Special Surprises (B.L.E.S.S.): 25 Days of Christmas Blessings (Week 4)
We have finished our fourth and final week of our 25 Days of Christmas B.L.E.S.S. (Blessing Lives Everyday with Special Surprises). It has been a real joy doing these fun events everyday. In some cases we get to see who receives our B.L.E.S.S. gift and in other cases we will never know who is on the receiving end. We pray that whoever receives or finds these gifts will experience joy during this Holiday Season. Each night we take down the B.L.E.S.S. activity for the next day and read the verse and the activity then pray for those who have and will receive our little BLESS’ings.
Here is what we did this week with a couple pictures to share of our adventures:
Candy Cane left for the next person to enjoy at the gas pump.
- Day 19 – Bought and donated canned goods for the Harvest Hope food drive that helps feed families in our local community. The girls were so excited about helping fill up the barrel of food. It reminded me of times that were tight in our lives and the many blessings we have including food to eat.
- Day 20 – Left quarters taped to a local vending machine for the next person to enjoy a snack. The girls had fun “guessing” what they thought the next person might get for their snack.
- Day 21 – Taped a Candy Cane to the gas pump for the next person who fills up with fuel to enjoy. The girls giggle at the thought of the next person pulling up and getting the special treat. As we were pulling out of the gas station they started clapping and cheering as someone drove up to our pump! 🙂
- Day 22 – Wrote a “Thank You” note and left goodies for the Hotel Maids who cleaned our room. The neat part is one of the maids recognized us from an earlier trip this year and was excited to see the girls again. It reminded me of the importance of leaving a positive impact on the lives of others no matter where you go, even when you are on vacation or a work trip (you never know who you may run into or see again). We prayed for each person that was cleaning our hall at the hotel that day.
- Day 23 – Sharing special Christmas treats with a friend. The girls were eating a snack while we were running errands when we ran into a friend and without hesitation they gave away the remaining goodies in their bag to their friend so that she could enjoy them.
- Day 24 – Gave the extra cash we had leftover after paying for our purchase back to the cashier so she could apply it to the person’s purchase behind us in line at the store.
- Day 25 – Spread Christmas cheer to Family and Friends. We did not go out on Christmas Day because we felt that it was important to spend time with our family that day so we decided to take the time to call, text, and talk to family and friends to wish them Merry Christmas and let them know that we love them.
One of our favorite verses this week went along with our Day 21 activity.
Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God. – Hebrews 13:16
Thank you note written from the girls to the hotel staff. “Thank you for cleaning our room!” (with lots of hearts)
I was not able to snap as many pictures as we were doing the activities this week with the traveling and I felt like it was more important to participate in the activities then to get the “perfect” picture. The main purpose of this activity is to teach our family the joy of giving and sharing to those around us.
My favorite day was Day 22 because the girls really did do most of it on their own. I asked if they would like to leave a special treat for the hotel staff and they went to work writing notes and coming up with ways to spread Christmas cheer. It was so amazing to see not only their excitement to do the activity but to hear them praying for the staff that would find the little treats and notes that they had left out for them. Since the items were left on the table as we left the hotel it was the easiest one to capture pictures of as well. I am thankful for the opportunity to do these wonderful activities with the family.
This activity has taught our family a lot this year about the joy of giving to others. It has been fun taking time every day to spread Christmas cheer and to pray for those who have received our goodies. Sometimes it’s the little stuff that can make the most positive impact. This may become a tradition in our family for future years as well because it was such a great way to make ourselves specifically think about, pray for, and do something for others each day during a busy time of year. I would love to hear the ways you spread Christmas cheer this Holiday Season.
Karlie’s “1st Poem” written specifically for the hotel staff (the girls gave them a fish sticker). The note said – “A fun fish for you for fun. I love people.”
To learn more about our 25 Days of Christmas B.L.E.S.S. activity and what we have done far check out the links below:
- 25 Days of Christmas B.L.E.S.S.
- Blessing Lives Everyday with Special Surprises (B.L.E.S.S.): 25 Days of Christmas Blessings (Update)
- Blessing Lives Everyday with Special Surprises (B.L.E.S.S.): 25 Days of Christmas Blessings (Week 2)
- Blessing Lives Everyday with Special Surprises (B.L.E.S.S.): 25 Days of Christmas Blessings (Week 3)
The girls came up with most of this idea, love that they are putting together B.L.E.S.S. activities pretty much on their own.
I have been asked by a number of people for a printable version of the 25 Days of Christmas B.L.E.S.S. activities, verses, and sheets to handout so here they are for your family to enjoy as well:
- 25 Days of Christmas Blessings B.L.E.S.S. – Acts of Service (we came up with more than 25 activities, around 40, then narrowed them down and decided as a family which ones to do together. I decided to give you all the activities we had listed so you can choose which ones work well for your family from the list. Just print these out on colorful paper, cut out, and place into your B.L.E.S.S. activity bags!)
- 25 Days of Christmas B.L.E.S.S handout sheets to leave on an item or to give to the person you are blessing.
Gift Giving: Breakfast in Bed
Occasionally for a birthday or Holiday I create Gift Coupons for the girls (or Jake) for their present. The gift coupons include a variety of fun activities – get out of one chore, breakfast in bed, one big bear hug, and more. The girls will sometimes save their coupons for months before redeeming them. It is so sweet to see them cherish the little things like fun coupons I created just for them. I have learned that when the coupon is redeemed to just stamp the back with the date stamp and let them keep it. Sometimes they will redeem the coupons simultaneously and other times they do it separately. The breakfast in bed coupon is always a huge hit with the girls!
I managed to sneak in a take a picture of them eating breakfast in bed, both of them were chatting away and enjoying their yogurt!
Enjoying breakfast in bed
Intentional Living: Weekly Goals
Our family had a wonderful Christmas together. The girls are out of school this week I want to make sure to spend any “extra” time with them. I am going to try to keep it short again this week for that reason.
Here is the update on last weeks goals:
Family Goals
Spend 1-on-1 time with each child everydayRead a book to the girls everydayDo the 25 Day of Christmas B.L.E.S.S. activities with the girls this weekSpend extra time with my family while the girls are on Christmas Break!
Personal Goals
- Exercise – walk at least 5 days this week – not quite every day
Listen to Dave Ramsey’s Dumping Debt audiobook
Home Management Goals
Get suitcase packed for our business / family tripAll laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one dayWrap all the Christmas Gifts
Business Goals
Pay all bills that come in the mail this weekWork on ideas for upcoming blog posts
Ministry Goals
Email our weekly Community Group update including upcoming events on the calendar, praises, and prayer requests
Financial Goals
Stay within Budget on Groceries $40 for 4- Pay off remaining debt – still working on this one
Here are my goals for the upcoming week:
Family Goals
- Spend 1-on-1 time with each child everyday
- Read a book to the girls everyday
- Spend extra time with my family while the girls are on Christmas Break!
Personal Goals
- Exercise – walk at least 5 days this week
- Listen to The Prodigal Son audiobook from Denise
Home Management Goals
- All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one day
Business Goals
- Pay all bills that come in the mail this week
- Work on ideas for upcoming blog posts
Ministry Goals
- Email our weekly Community Group update including upcoming events on the calendar, praises, and prayer requests
Financial Goals
- Stay within Budget on Groceries $40 for 4
- Pay off remaining debt
I think it is important to share and encourage each other as we seek to improve our lives and the lives of those around us. I want to live intentionally not just hope all my dreams and goals come true. When I focus on small steps of improvement I am able to see results as I get closer to my goals. Some weeks I get closer to the goals I have in my life and other weeks a take a few steps back (life happens, emergencies occur, people get sick). Once the goals are written down and shared it provides a guideline for what I aim to accomplish this week.
Why Share My Goals?
- To keep me accountable
- To share a piece of my life with you as I strive to be a better Child of God, Wife, Mom, Friend, Homemaker, Entrepreneur and the many other roles I have each week
- To have my goals consistently written down so I can gauge progress more accurately
- Create healthy habits in my life
- To encourage you to share your goals with me as you continue to grown and learn
How did you do this week on your goals? Feel free to share or link to your list of weekly goals.
The picture above is one that I created for my own purposes, however, The “SMART” acronym was originally coined 30 years ago by Peter Drucker in his classic work, Management by Results






















