• Book: “No One to Call Me Home” by James Close

    As I was going through a stack a books we had in the house and trying to decide which ones to keep, sale, giveaway, or donate I came across this book.  I cannot remember where it came from and hadn’t read it before but it captivated my attention so I decided to read it.  The book is called No One To Call Me Home by Reverend James J. Close and it is about Reverend Close’s ministry at the Mercy Boys Home in Chicago.  His ministry provides a home, meals, clothing, and a loving environment for homeless teenage boys.  The boys typically range between 14 to 18 years old (sometimes they take in younger siblings).  There is also a Mercy Girls Home but Reverend Close lived and worked at the Boys Home so the majority of the book discussed not only the lives of the kids he impacted but some of their struggles as well as successes.

    Some of the stories he told brought tears to my eyes…..stories of some of the obstacles small children and teenagers had to face such as starvation, stealing, crime, abuse, drugs, alcohol, neglect and so much more.  None of these children asked to grow up in these families.   The Mercy Home has reached out to many of these hurt teenagers and provided them a safe and healthy environment in hopes that they will be able to encourage the kids to heal and become successful adults.

    As a parent this book made me not only appreciate the stable (although not perfect) home environment I was raised in and motivates me to pray for wisdom as I raise my kids as well as find ways to make a positive impact on the lives of other children.  The book is short and a quick read but touches on many areas of the heart.  Although I don’t have all the same religious beliefs as Reverend Close I think he is on the right track with providing a safe, stable environment for these teenagers.  Not every story he has is successful but it is encouraging to know that through their ministry they are making a wonderful impact on many individuals and families.  It really makes you think about the ways you can make a positive impact on the lives of others.

    A few quotes that made an impact on me:

    The Mercy kids are some of the most courageous and extraordinary persons I have ever met.  Many have overcome immense odds to succeed in life.  Others were not so fortunate.  But each of them taught me about life and made me grateful for the simple blessings to be found in each day.

    Our street was as big as the universe to me…..when it started getting dark, the other kids’ moms would lean out the windows and start calling to their kids – it’s time to come home.  I would stay out there and keep playing until I was alone. I was always the last one to come home.  I always had to decide when to go in. There was never anyone to call me in – to call me home.

    Our kids have so few of the simple family experiences that most kids have growing up, it nearly boggles the mind.  I’m not talking about ritzy family vacations and Christmas Eve around the fireplace.  I’m talking about food in the refrigerator and the same bed every night.

    If all you’ve known is disappointment, if all you’ve been told is what a loser you are, if all you’ve seen is poverty and life on the other side of the law – it is hard to believe things can ever change for someone like you.

    I’m a strong believer in the power of prayer combined with effort and love

    They are just kids.  They need a place to live and someone to love them unconditionally.

  • Heart Reflections: Full of Weeds

    The best part about having a garden is the produce!  Whether you have a bountiful vegetable garden or a garden full of beautiful flowers we all know that weeds are eventually going to start poking through the surface!  While the fresh veggies, fruit, and flowers provide many benefits they will only continue to thrive if they taken care of which includes pulling a few weeds.

    As I was weeding our vegetable garden earlier this week I started thinking about all the delicious food we get to enjoy because we have taken the time to pull weeds.  If we were to allow the weeds to take over the garden the precious vegetable plants would eventually stop producing.  Weeding the garden is not in my top 10 list of fun things to do with my time, however, for the delicious food it is worth the extra time it takes to weed and maintain it.  I am grateful for a garden that we can enjoy and for the abundance that we can share with others!

    Later that day while I was working on other tasks my mind drifted back to the time spent weeding in the garden.

    • How often does my own life and heart get full of “weeds” (distractions, stuff, schedules, shopping,  work, etc…)?   It is important that I have some quiet time every day to evaluate my life and refocus on what’s truly important.  The time spent “weeding” my heart is valuable and essential.  When I don’t take the time to weed through the issues in my heart life tends to weigh me down and fruit becomes less visible, much like in our vegetable garden.
    • Does my day go any better when I have a heart that is overgrown with weeds? No, usually I am more stressed because I am trying to do it on my own strength when in reality I have no control over anything.  Just having my mind and heart focused on what really matters makes the days more enjoyable.   A vegetable garden cannot go days without water during a drought or the plants will stop producing fruit.  My heart is the same, if I don’t take time refresh my heart when the drought comes I won’t be able to withstand the heat and will wither under the pressures life throws my way.
    • Is my attitude better with a weedy heart? When my heart is overwhelmed with clutter it is much harder to live a life full of joy.  A heart that is weeded will receive a fresh wave of energy and will rejoice in every precious day we are given.   A garden flourishes when it is weeded, watered, has good soil, and plenty of sun.  When your heart is weeded the positive fruits are allowed to grow giving you more opportunities to make a positive impact on the lives of others.

    The weeds (busy agendas, work, distractions) are waging a constant battle against your heart much like they are doing in the garden.  Take time daily to be still and focus on what’s really important.  What is in our hearts will eventually become known.  Our actions on the weedy days are not as kind or considerate to the people around us.  Do you have weeds that pop up in your garden and heart?