• Relationships: Characteristics of a Friend

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    What Is a Friend?

    • A friend is one of the nicest things you can have, and one of the best things you can be.
    • A friend is a living treasure, and if you have one, you have one of the most valuable gifts in life.
    • A friend is one who will always be beside you, through all the laughter, and through each and every tear.
    • A friend is the one thing you can always rely on; the someone you can always open up to; the one person who always believes in you in a way that no one else seems to.
    • A friend is a sanctuary.
    • A friend is a smile.
    • A friend is a hand that is always holding yours, no matter where you are, no matter how close or far apart you may be.
    • A friend is someone who is always there and will always-always-care.
    • A friend is a feeling of forever in the heart.
    • A friend is the one door that is always open.
    • A friend is the one to whom you can give your key.
    • A friend is one of the nicest things you can have, and one of the best things you can be.

    – Collin McCarty

    There are certain qualities in friends that truly stand out more than others.  Some of those characteristics are hard to find while others are more common.  What type of friend are you to others?  Do you stand out and have all or at least some of these characteristics above?

    We are not called to be perfect every moment of each day, however, we should be reflecting qualities of positive characteristics in our lives.  We should be walking life with others.  Be real and sharing.  Let’s make sure we are investing in developing good character in ourselves and lasting friendships in our lives.

  • Relationships: What Type of Friend Am I?

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    Sometimes we are lucky enough to meet a person who stands out among all other people as being extremely special who knows what we are thinking about.  Who is happy for us at all times.  Who is always there to talk.  Who cares about us selflessly.  Who is always truthful with us.  Sometimes we are lucky enough to meet someone who is extremely wonderful and for me that person is you my dear friend.  – Susan Polis Schutz

    We’ve all heard the saying that “friends are worth their weight in gold”.  Absolutely!  I agree friends are priceless and a great blessing in our lives.  There are people who have a multitude of friends while others have a handful of really close friends.

    If you had only a few seconds to think of your list of friends.  Who would stand out?  Who would come to your mind first?  We can easily point out who those true blue and deep friends are pretty quickly.

    Are you this type of friend to others?  Who have we taken the time to invest in lately?  Do we stand out?  Are we the person our friends call on when they are excited and want to celebrate or when they hit a rough patch?