Giveaway: Book “Speaking Mom-ese” by Lisa Whelchel
I will be doing a giveaway for the month of April! The winner will receive the hardcover book called “Speaking Mom-ese: Moments of Peace & Inspiration in the Mother Tongue” by Lisa Whelchel! As Moms it is difficult finding a moment of “quiet” in our days and I liked how each chapter was short so I could fit it into even a busy day. A friend gave me the book when I was pregnant with the girls and I have read through at least it twice. Lisa shares insights and stories about her children as well as encourages you as a Mom. I think it is important even on the busy days to have even a few moments to relax.
All you have to do to enter this giveaway is sign up to follow my blog (if you haven’t done so already) and leave a comment below by 10 PM EST on April 30th telling us how you follow Blessings Multiplied. You can get a BONUS entry into the drawing if you leave a separate comment below telling us one of your tips for squeezing in a few moments of peace and quiet into your already busy day! We love our family but they have a way of keeping us running all day! On April 30th I will randomly draw a winner from those who have entered the giveaway.
Living on a Budget – Groceries $40 for 4
I made it through my second week of doing my new cash budget system – Groceries $40 for 4 and I have to be honest with you, it didn’t go well at ALL. It was a super busy week and I decided at the beginning of the week to totally revamped my menu for this week. The good news is the menu included a bunch of new healthy recipes, however, since we have been cutting back on our grocery shopping the last few weeks we had to rebuild our fresh fruit and veggie stockpile. Although I was able to get a lot of great deals on veggies (Thank You Aldi’s) it still added up quickly. My grocery store shopping this week was spread out and sandwiched in between appointments which made it even more hurried and less organized. I am still learning how to operate on the cash grocery system (even though I blew it this week). Hopefully, we can continue trying to utilize the food we already have in our pantry and freezer along with adding in extra fresh fruits and veggies. I did learn a lot about the mistakes I made this week (hopefully I can refrain from repeating them). What I learned this week from some of my grocery shopping mistakes:
- It is important to make the time to go shopping and not try to squeeze it in between appointments (rushing through doesn’t always work well even with a list).
- Forgetting some of my coupons made a huge difference ( I didn’t have the time or desire to use extra gas to go back for them)
- Shopping early morning is much better than in the middle of the day (not as many markdown items)
- Fresh items are more expensive (it is okay to substitute in some frozen ones too).
- Completely altering your menu once the week has already started causes unnecessary stress
- There are certain times of day it is not smart to take the whole crew with you to the store (right after school when they are restless and very HUNGRY)
- It is very difficult sticking to a $40 grocery budget when I had numerous hiccups in my process
Pictured above is my Walgreens and SaveALot | Rite Aid trip. Sorry I was not able to get a picture of my Aldi’s and BiLo trips it took everything in me just to put the stuff away (actually, I still have a few cans sitting on the counter still waiting for me to put them in the pantry). I didn’t separate out my household and grocery items at Aldi or BiLo either so I don’t have the exact totals but to be completely honest I more than double my grocery budget for this week. Here is what I spent at the two stores pictured above and what we bought:
- $5.05 at Walgreens for 2 cans of Cashews
- $19.23 at SaveALot | RiteAid for Milk, Parmesan Grated Cheese, Yogurt, Carrots, Cheese, Mushrooms, Stew Meat, Hamburger Helper
Life was spread out and busy this week. My grocery shopping and house shows the ripple effect of it too. It was our second week of the challenge – Groceries $40 for 4 and we more than doubled our grocery budget of $40. I was disappointed in myself for making so many silly mistakes (and I knew better too) in my rush to pick up groceries and feed the family. I did get to use some coupons, bought clearance items, and utilized weekly ad discounts to help save us a little extra on our grocery budget even though the savings wasn’t enough. I really hope to be more organized and do better next week. We’ll see how I do!
I hope to give you regular updates on this budget section so you can celebrate the good weeks with me and thump me on the bad weeks! As always you are welcomed to join the journey with me. I would love to hear your story and how you are doing too. I hope by taking the extra time to watch my grocery spending it will allow us to feed our family, enjoy life, and yet stay on track with our budget.
Living on a Budget is a series of ways our family uses a budget to help keep us accountable with our finances. Life doesn’t always go as planned. We have used some of the ideas I will be sharing for years while others are ones we are just starting to implement as we continue finding ways to be creative and have fun with what we have been given. Having a plan in place allows us the freedom to be smart with what we have been given, get more creative when it is a tight (week, month, year or a season) and when necessary live a much more simplified life. A budget helps us stay on track so we have more opportunities to enjoy the many blessings we have been given as well as share what we have with others. There is so much more to life than having all the stuff. We may not have the newest or greatest items in our house, we drive used cars, and wear hand-me-down clothing…..however, if our family is taken care of and have love for each other and others we have more than all the riches in the world.
Getting My Attention
Do you ever have those wild stressful days? Recently I had one of those days when I had a lot going on and the girls were trying to help but they were slowing down the process. Since we had to get going soon I told them to relax quietly together so I could finish up the last few items then we could leave. It was one of those rushed days that are more stressful than usual and I had over committed myself.
After completing the necessary tasks I went to find the girls, they had been quiet the past fifteen minutes so I was interested in finding out what had captivated their attention. My heart about burst when I went into the dining room. They were standing at the table taking turns reading The Big Picture Story Bible by David Helm together. As I stood there listening to them share story after story and point out the pictures on the pages I was so happy that they were sharing this time together. It was amazing how much they remembered from going through the book with them even though it was several devotional books ago.
However, at the same time I was convicted because it was a fast paced day and I hadn’t taken the time that morning to do my devotions. God used my sweet girls to grab my attention and gently remind me of the importance of having quiet time each day. How I chose to live my life has a ripple effect on my family and the people around me. I am thankful for these quiet reminders. I trust that God will continue to do a work in my life.
We do devotions with the girls in the evenings before bed (most nights). They always look forward to reading together. Typically, Jake will read them a chapter from a book we are going through together then I will do the devotional book with them. If time is tight we just do the devotional book. During the Holidays we were staying up too late so we would just pray with them before tucking them into bed at night. We are excited to get back into the routine and see all the neat things that they will learn this year.
Take a Nap
As a kid I resisted taking naps. It was about the worst thing my parents could ask me to do. I did everything I could think of to get out of napping or to convince my parents I had slept even though I hadn’t. I am pretty sure they realized it but napping did not appeal to me at all!
Now as an adult, when I cannot take naps on a regular basis, it sounds awesome! Isn’t that ironic…. During the busy Holiday Season we get so worn out with the celebrations that people tend to get sick. Now that the schedule is getting back to “normal” try resting a little more. Take a cat nap when you can even if it is only once or twice a week. If you still have kids at home that nap take advantage of that quiet time when they are resting. A 20 minute power nap can give you the extra boost you need to get through the day. On certain days when we know the family will be up late we try to have the girls rest for at least 30 minutes (like on Sundays and Wednesdays).
I have a nap on my schedule in the near future. Do you? You have my permission to take a nap today!