Game: “Carcassonne” by Rio Grande Games
Our family loves playing games! Whether it is a card, board or video game we always look forward to having a chance to sit down with family and friends. Carcassonne by Rio Grande Games is a fun board game that we enjoy playing. We found this board game after spending a lot of time playing Settlers of Catan, it looked similar so we decided to try it out.
Carcassonne is based on the famous French city of Carcassonne that is well known for its roman and medieval fortifications. The game is for between 2 to 5 players ages 8 and up. Each player gets a tile on his turn and can lay it down to build roads, cities, and more. The tiles are chosen at random, however, the player can choose where to place the tile and what to play on it. The game is fascinating for younger kids to watch too because it starts with 1 piece and grows bigger as people build the cities and surrounding areas until everything is linked together like one big interactive puzzle.
If you are a fan of Settlers of Catan or another similar game I highly recommend that you check out Carcassonne for your next game night or get it as a gift for the game lover on your list.
Gift Giving: 12 Days of Christmas
This year we decided to spread the Holiday Cheer out at our house this year by doing the 12 Days of Christmas again. I did this last year and it was a huge hit. Christmas morning can be so busy and this allows an opportunity to spread the fun over 12 days instead of packing everything into one day. Starting December 13th the girls will be able to open one a day until Christmas. The cost was less than $20 total, including boxes and wrapping paper. Most of the gifts were bought on clearance over the past year. We did a joint stack for both of our girls, however, you can choose to do a stack for each person.
Here is what our 12 Days of Christmas includes:
- Day 1: Christmas Ornament for each girl (purchased last year after Christmas on clearance with rewards).
- Day 2: Two Music CD’s by Suzi Shelton (received CD’s from doing a review and giveaway)
- Day 3: DVD Veggie Tales (DVD was free, but paid a small fee for shipping)
- Day 4: Two Giant Candy Canes, one Princess and 1 Cars (purchased with rewards)
- Day 5: Two Christmas Coloring Books (purchased on clearance with rewards)
- Day 6: Christmas Craft, painting ornaments (purchased with rewards on clearance)
- Day 7: Christmas Flower and Snowman (purchased with rewards on clearance)
- Day 8: Christmas Book God Gave Us Christmas by Lisa Tawn Bergren (purchased when it was on sale with Swagbucks gift card)
- Day 9: Two Christmas Headbands (purchased with rewards on clearance)
- Day 10: Game (found on clearance at Kmart and used gift card)
- Day 11: Two Hooded Bath Towels (used a coupon and picked them up on Black Friday)
- Day 12: PJs for each to wear Christmas Eve (picked up on sale and used a coupon)
Other Ideas for 12 Days of Christmas:
- Hair Accessories
- Facial Cleansers or Make Up – if you have a teenager just starting to wear makeup or want to update your collection my Mary Kay contact is doing a 12 Day of Christmas set! If your husband is looking for something awesome to get you he may want to contact Ann too.
- Socks or Tights
- Chapstick
- Socks
- Gloves or Scarf
- Card Game
- Construction Paper
- Markers or Crayons
- Matchbox cars
- Small Toys
- Baby Doll Clothes
- Christmas Underwear
- The ideas are endless!
Karlie & Brina excited about their 12 Days of Christmas
I wrapped them in the original boxes or found ones around the house to put the items into. The Christmas paper was purchased on clearance and I used a coupon. Many of the items we purchased on clearance throughout the year and / or used CVS – ECBs and Walgreens – Register Rewards, Swagbucks Gift Cards or Coupons. I cannot remember the price for all the items but with the rewards it may have been under $10 out of pocket for the entire set of 12 gifts and some days had multiple items in them. We did a joint stack for our girls to save money, however, the items we picked match their individual interests (for example the craft with one being princess and the other being cars). When the girls walked into the room and saw the stack of gifts they were super excited.
Tips on Flying with Kids
I have the opportunity to travel with our girls over Spring Break. Thankfully they are wonderful in the car and LOVE to fly in the airplane. A couple months ago we told the girls that we would be visiting family over Spring Break and they have been looking forward to this week every since that day. After we first told them about our little trip almost every day they would ask me how many days until Spring. It wasn’t until a couple weeks later that I realized that they thought that as soon as Spring arrived they would get a break (aka “Spring Break”) and we could go on our road / flying trip. I had to explain to them that their School Spring Break did not always start on the first day of Spring. They have been counting down the days and have been encouraging me to pack our suitcases. Last week we were coming home from Church and Karlie told me to drive faster, when I asked why she said “we need to get home so we can start packing for our trip.” Even though we were not leaving for several days I let the girls get started. I had them find their travel backpacks and to start laying out a few items that they want to pack in their backpacks. After only a few minutes they had a whole pile of items and they felt better about getting started.
Traveling with kids can be a wonderful and fun adventure. Adding special activities while traveling can make the trip even more exciting and memorable for the kids. When the kids are happy it makes the whole trip go more smoothly. Here are a few items we have used on our trips with the kids:
- Special Backpack – whenever we travel, fly or spend the night somewhere the girls pack their travel backpack full of goodies just for them. They have had the same backpacks for the last 3 to 4 years. It has been a great investment and each girl is thrilled to pack items they enjoy in their own backpack. Plus they proudly carry their treasures through the airport themselves.
- Books – our girls love books so they pick out a couple small books to take in their backpacks. We read the books as we are waiting to board the plane, quietly on the plane or whenever we have some downtime.
- Educational Items – in the backpack we pack a pencil and crayons along with a small notebook, coloring book, and workbooks for them to do on the trip. They enjoy doing “school” work for fun and it makes me feel good about them practicing their writing, numbers or other practical skills.
- Snacks – before a big trip we will take the kids to the grocery store and have them pick out one special treat to take with them as a snack on the plane. For this trip Brina picked out Blueberry Muffins and Karlie picked out 100 Calorie Snack Cookies, makes me laugh and proud to see what they chose this time around!
- Creative Games – on the trip we come up with games to play with the girls
- What shapes / animals / objects do you see in the clouds?
- Name everything you see that is ___________ (red, a circle, silly, etc…)
- Find every word that contains a ____________ in it (a letter or set of letters like any word that contains a “b” in it or “th”)
- Count the number of steps it takes to get to the _______________? (to the terminal, bathroom, seat, baggage claim, etc…)
- What is your favorite __________? (memory, food, color, place to visit, etc…..)
- Card Games – “Go Fish”, “Old Maid”, “Uno”, and more!
- Surprise Gifts – inside the girls backpacks we wrap small gifts for them to open up at random times throughout the trip. Most of the time they are so involved and excited about the adventure that they don’t even open the gifts or only get to 1 or 2. Although, they are quick to remind us once we have arrived at our destination and have fun opening them while we are visiting or vacationing.
- Postcards – are fairly inexpensive souvenirs and the girls enjoy picking out and receiving postcards. They will put them in their special drawer and keep it for many months. They will pull them out and go through them to remember the special trips together.
- Mind Your Manners – discuss appropriate manners, rules and guidelines for traveling (especially in a busy airport). This is important to do at the beginning of the trip. You can even make a game out of it.
- Bright Matching Outfits – dress the kids in bright matching outfits so it is easy to see them in the airport. Even if they are right next to you they are easier to see.
- Gum – when the plane is ascending or descending it is smart to have your kids chew on some gum to help relieve any of the pressure especially if they have a cold or stuffy nose. If you have an infant it would be a good time to give them their pacifier. For a toddler a lollipop or a crunchy snack works well.
- Rest – Allow the kids to sleep on the plane if they want to rest. The girls have taken several naps on airplanes. It gives them an extra boost of energy and helps them relax. One time all three of us took a snooze on the flight, we were exhausted!
Keeping the kids entertained is a great way to make the trip enjoyable. For the parents I have a few more ideas of what to do during the flight to help it go by quickly and smoothly. The girls are excited, however, we are traveling after a full day of school and we’ll us arriving at our destination the early part of the next day. I am looking forward to creating more positive traveling moments with the girls and praying that the trip is smooth for everyone driving, flying, and traveling with us. Do you have any tips for flying with kids?
Life Simplified: Hosting in Our Home
One of my goals in 2011 is to simplify my life more by enjoying the blessings and not wasting what God has given us. I have been sharing with you the successes and challenges on those specific areas in my life as I go through them. One of the areas I am working on is making the best use of my time. While spending time hosting family and friends in our home is important to me I must also make sure there is time on the schedule to spend with my immediate family. The girls are growing up fast and the times we have together are precious. In order to make sure I don’t go overboard I am setting a goal for myself and asking for your help to keep me in line.
Here are the current challenges I am working on:
- First Life Simplified Goal: No Grocery Shopping
- Second Life Simplified Goal: Meal Delivery
- Third Life Simplified Goal: Organize & De-Clutter our Home
- Fourth Life Simplified Goal: Hosting in our Home
Explanation of the Goal: As a family of four we LOVE hosting people in our home! We are blessed to have a home to share with family and friends whether it is for a party, game night or just to hang out together. I would probably host a get together several times a week if we had the time, money, and energy to do it. Part of learning how to simplify my life is making decisions on what to do with my time. Hosting typically requires time for cleaning, cooking, prepping, and/or decorating for guests. It is my goal to host at least one other family in our home once a month but no more than four. When I spend time hosting that means I must give up some for something else. Having up to 4 hosting events in our home means that there will be time to spend together as a family of four. I want my girls to have the experience of hosting even at a young age. Sharing our home and their toys is a valuable skill they can learn at an early age, but they like anyone, need a time to relax and refresh.
We have already started working on this goal. We had 3 families of three over in the month of January. February is a busier month in our household not because of Valentine’s day but because we will be hosting the girls birthday party. One of the many benefits to having twins or higher multiples is their birthday parties hit at the same time. Brina and Karlie’s birthday party will be our major event this month and we have at least one other hosting event already on the schedule.
I will share with you the challenges, successes, and updates as I go through this journey so you can keep me accountable or even go through it with me by participating and sharing your story. Taking the extra time to invest in the lives of others is important to our family. I hope that we have been able to host many people in our home without going over board. It is important to me to make time for my family on the weekends as well as the people around us!
Life Simplified is a series on getting rid of the extras in our life while learning how to enjoy what God has given us so we can continue to be a blessing to others. Our homes can quickly start are bursting with “stuff” and if you are like us we just have too much. I am doing a series on ways we are learning to simplifying our food, homes, and lives. When our hearts, lives, and homes get too cluttered we may start missing out on opportunities to serve and bless the people around us.
Photo by MaryTClark
Fun in Flight
On Saturday morning we flew out of Altanta to San Juan, Puerto Rico on AirTran. It was wonderful having direct flights! Flying is a little more intense than it use to be especially with all the extra fees to pick your seat, luggage, etc… plus the additional security procedures you go through prior to arriving at the terminal. We both arrived safe and early for our flight. We met up with my brother Lee and his wife Becky who were coming from Baltimore, thankfully their flight ended up being ahead of schedule so everyone made it.
Overall the check in and flight was smooth and enjoyable. Since it was almost a 4 hour flight we found ways to occupy our time. Jake and I played our first rounds of SORRY! Revenge Card Game which is a card version of “Sorry” the board game. It was a quick game and fun. The following are ways that help us make the time on the airplane “fly”:
- Sleep – it is a great time to catch a few winks of rest while in flight.
- Play a Game – usually we stick to card games like “SORRY Revenge”, “Five Crowns”, “Quiddler”, or other card games if we are playing with 2 or more people. There are plenty of games to play if you are the only one wanting to participate as well such as “Sudoku,” “Mad Libs,” crossword puzzle and more.
- Read or Listen to a Book – catch up on a book you’ve been wanting to read. If you forgot to bring a headset usually the flight attendant can get you a set.
- Listen to Music – it is a relaxing way to pass the time in the air plus it tunes out crying children or snoring adults. If you didn’t bring an MP3 player or something to listen to many of the airplanes have built in channels on the armrest and you can listen to while traveling.
- Watch a Show or Movie – we watched a short show on Jake’s phone (both of us brought headphones but many airplanes will give you one for free). That 40 minutes was fun and went by quickly for us.
- Leisurely Eat your Snack – you are in no rush so take your time savoring the pretzels, cookies or snack and sipping on your beverage. If you want more ask, they are more than happy to serve you. We have even made a game out of the snacks….for example count how many pretzels are in each bag, you would be amazed at the difference between bags!
- Write Your Blog Posts – on the way out I wrote a list of blog topic ideas that I wanted to write about and on the way back I started writing out a couple of the articles I wanted to post soon. It gives you a head start on the topics you are wanting to discuss especially after being gone for a week, the schedule tends to be packed already.
- Update Your Journal or Pictures – if you write in a journal update regarding the adventures you are having. If you are not into journals but have a lot of pictures you took during your time away go through the pictures (I have been known to take some strange pictures) during the flight and delete the ones you know you will never print and do not want.
- Work on a Craft – many crafts are small and can be done in a relatively short amount of time. Have you tried drawing, cross stitching, or other small crafts that you can do while flying.
- Write Notes – write your postcards that you were unable to finish or thank you notes to those who made the trip enjoyable. Everyone loves receiving a hand written note of “thanks” or appreciation! Thankfully I had all my postcards done by this time, however, I had plenty of thank you notes to write! Write the notes, address them (if you know the addresses) and when you get home all you have to do is put a stamp on them and stick them in the mail!
- Read a Magazine – airlines always have a couple to look at and there are many months I don’t have the time to enjoy reading through one of our magazines so flying gives me a good excuse to read a magazine I enjoy from cover to cover if I want!
For those who struggle with the pressure when descending the best item I have ever purchased for airplane trips is ear planes. I had one really bad flight and was in so much pain with all the pressure that I never leave home without my ear planes if I am flying. They really do make the trip so much more pleasant for everyone on your flight! You can purchase them at most pharmacies.
We enjoy time in the air because it gives us an extra opportunity to relax and do some fun activities we normally don’t have time to do at home. So next time you fly sit back, relax, and enjoy those extra few moments of leisure. Who knows when you’ll be able to read several chapters of a book or play a game with your spouse. Our time in flight always goes by quickly, hope yours does too.
We arrived in San Juan, Puerto Rico early that afternoon and found a Wendy’s across from the airport where we grabbed a bite for lunch and waited for the rest of our crew to arrive. A couple hours later Dad, Mom, Josh, Jeremy and Amber arrived. Thankfully all the luggage arrived with everyone. The next step was finding a taxi to get us to our boat!
A Vacation To Remember series is a reflection on our recent trip and ways we relaxed. Life is short and we were thrilled to have the opportunity to build memories with family and explore of of the most amazing places during our time away. Go with a good attitude and looking for fun and it will be an awesome trip jammed packed with positive memories. It is refreshing having some time away from the regular routine. Make it a once in a lifetime opportunity to meet new people and learn. You just might see or try something new that takes your breath away!
Book: “My Good Night Devotions” by Susan Lingo
We purchased “My Good Night Devotions” by Susan Lingo at Goodwill for $0.25 after reading through a couple stories, our copy has a couple markings in it but otherwise in great condition. It has 45 devotional stories for kids. The girls LOVE it! Each lesson has a short scripture verse, a story, thinking time (with a 1 to 3 questions), prayer and sleeping time game or activity for them to go to bed thinking about. Brina and Karlie’s favorite character is “Night Light” a little firefly that is hidden in each picture and throughout the devotional. If you are looking for a neat devotional that shows how God’s Word works in everyday situations for your young kids check out this book.
Gift Giving: 12 Days of Christmas
This year we decided to spread the Holiday Cheer out at our house this year by doing the 12 Days of Christmas. Christmas morning can be so busy and this allows an opportunity to spread the fun over 12 days instead of packing everything into one day. Starting December 13th the girls will be able to open one a day until Christmas. The cost was less than $20 total, including boxes and wrapping paper. Most of the gifts were bought on clearance over the past year. We did a joint stack for both of our girls, however, you can choose to do a stack for each person.
Here is what our 12 Days of Christmas includes:
- Day 1: A Labrador Puppy Christmas Ornament for each (purchased with rewards last year after Christmas on clearance).
- Day 2: A CD with Songs and Stories – 1 on Traveling and 1 on Classical Stories and Songs (purchased with rewards in $1 section)
- Day 3: Travel Game for 2 – Connect 4 (found on clearance at Bi-Lo for 49 cents)
- Day 4: 4 Plastic Christmas Cups – Red with Snowmen (purchased with rewards on clearance last year)
- Day 5: Books – 1 on “Helping Others” and 1 on “Forgiving” (purchased at Dollar Tree)
- Day 6: Christmas Craft with Stickers (purchased with rewards on clearance)
- Day 7: 2 Mini Mouse Candy Canes filled with Christmas Tree Candy (purchased with rewards on clearance)
- Day 8: 2 Snowman Coloring Books and 1 Princess & 1 Cars Coloring Craft Ornaments (purchased with rewards on clearance)
- Day 9: 2 Snowman Headbands (purchased with rewards on clearance)
- Day 10: Rub on Color Pattern Craft (received free with a Buy 1 Get 1 Free Deal)
- Day 11: A pair of Fuzzy Slippers for each – 1 Pink Set and 1 Purple Set. (Picked Up on Black Friday)
- Day 12: PJs for each to wear Christmas Eve – 1 with Owls and 1 with Rockets (Picked Up on Sale and used a Coupon)
Other Ideas for 12 Days of Christmas:
- Hair Accessories
- Facial Cleansers or Make Up – if you have a teenager just starting to wear makeup or want to update your collection my Mary Kay contact is doing a 12 Day of Christmas set! If your husband is looking for something awesome to get you he may want to contact Ann too.
- Socks or Tights
- Chapstick
- Socks
- Gloves or Scarf
- Card Game
- Construction Paper
- Markers or Crayons
- Matchbox cars
- Small Toys
- Baby Doll Clothes
- Christmas Underwear
- The ideas are endless!
I wrapped them in the original boxes or found ones around the house to put the items into. The Christmas paper was purchased on clearance last year with rewards. Many of the items we purchased on clearance throughout the year and / or used CVS – ECBs and Walgreens – Register Rewards. I cannot remember the price for all the items but with the rewards it may have been under $10 out of pocket for the entire set of 12 gifts and some days had multiple items in them. We did a joint stack for our girls to save money, however, the items we picked match their individual interests (for example the craft with one being princess and the other being cars). When the girls walked into the room and saw the stack of gifts they were super excited. Now they are counting down the days to Monday, December 13th to start the 12 Days of Christmas celebration.
Ouchy Toy Box
As our kids got bigger we began to notice a trend pop up. Their toys began to break, batteries died, books got torn and so forth. Almost daily (or at least it seemed) our girls were bringing “broken” toys to have us fix for them whether it was gluing a broken toy, taping a book, sewing, or replacing batteries it took time to get fix them. The girls would often hover around during the fix up process causing more delays in getting them fixed or shedding in tears when the toy truly was broken beyond repair.
In our effort to streamline the toy repair in our house we created an “Ouchy Toy Box”. When a toy, book, or game broke, required repair, or was due for new batteries they would bring it to us like in the past but instead of fixing it on the spot or having it sit on our desk for days we would put the toy in the Ouchy Toy Box. Once a month or when the box was full we would set aside time to fix the toys in the Ouchy Toy Box. The best sight to see is an empty Ouchy Toy Box!
To create an Ouchy Toy Box find a cardboard box, crate, or any container that will hold a dozen or so toys. We use a small cardboard box with the words Ouchy Toy Box written on the outside. When a toy is broken the girls ask to put it in the box. Our box is up high on a shelf in the office so they cannot look into or dig through the box. The saying “Out of Sight Out of Mind” works well in this situation.
Here are our steps to repairing the toys (once a month or when the box was full):
- The night before, after the kids are in bed, we go through the Ouchy Toy Box and clean out all the toys that were broken beyond repair and throw them away. Many times they have been in the toy box for at least a couple weeks and the girls no longer remember them or ask about them. This helps us clean out the broken ones without the trauma and tears over the broken toy.
- The next day we set aside time in the evening to fix the broken ouchy toys, usually after dinner and baths. We begin the process while the girls are awake so they can see what we do to fix the toys. It gives us the opportunity to talk about why the toys are broken and how to take care of the things God gives us.
- We lay the toys out on the table or desk with a combination of tools such as glue, batteries, screwdrivers, tape, needles, thread, scissors, and anything else that we may need so we are ready to fix the toys. (This allows us to get all the repair tools out only once a month instead of getting them out and putting them away every day).
- We begin fixing the toys. As they are fixed the girls have an opportunity to play with them and then put them away in the toy box or book shelf. Depending how many toys you have to fix and the extent of the repairs we do several while they are watching us. We often start on the minor repairs first in case not all of them are fixable. (ie. taping a page in a book, sewing a button back on a stuffed animal, etc…)
- We tuck the girls in bed before finishing all of the toys. Typically, it is much quicker to repair once they are in bed especially if you need a steady hand, are using a drill or other sharp tools.
- Once the toys have been repaired we line them up on the table or fireplace for them to enjoy in the morning. It spreads the excitement and they have fun reunited with their toys. It helps teach them that it takes time to repair the toys, to trust us to fix their toys, and an appreciation for what they have.
- They will often play with the toys for hours after being fixed Which is another added bonus. Rarely do we have to fix the same toy multiple times.
One of the most interesting effects of this system, which we didn’t anticipate happening when we first started doing it, was that they have fewer and fewer toys that need to go into the Ouchy Toy Box. It could be that they have learned to take better care of their toys (turn them off after using so the batteries don’t wear down, be gentle with their books, pick up the toys so they are not stepped on), maybe they don’t like going without them for several weeks, or it could be something entirely different. Whatever the reason, it is has worked at extremely well with our kids.
Doing this monthly or regularly once the box is full streamlines the process especially if you have all the tools ready to complete the task at hand. It prevents the tear shed of toys that have to be thrown away and it allows an opportunity to teach a lesson about taking care of the toys. You are not pressured to fix it now since you have a system in place. Many people that have come into our home office have laughed initially at seeing a box labeled Ouchy Toy Box, however, several of them have since adopted the system for their own families. It works, try it!