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Heart Reflections: Full of Weeds
The best part about having a garden is the produce! Whether you have a bountiful vegetable garden or a garden full of beautiful flowers we all know that weeds are eventually going to start poking through the surface! While the fresh veggies, fruit, and flowers provide many benefits they will only continue to thrive if they taken care of which includes pulling a few weeds.As I was weeding our vegetable garden earlier this week I started thinking about all the delicious food we get to enjoy because we have taken the time to pull weeds. If we were to allow the weeds to take over the garden the precious vegetable plants would eventually stop producing. Weeding the garden is not in my top 10 list of fun things to do with my time, however, for the delicious food it is worth the extra time it takes to weed and maintain it. I am grateful for a garden that we can enjoy and for the abundance that we can share with others!
Later that day while I was working on other tasks my mind drifted back to the time spent weeding in the garden.
- How often does my own life and heart get full of “weeds” (distractions, stuff, schedules, shopping, work, etc…)? It is important that I have some quiet time every day to evaluate my life and refocus on what’s truly important. The time spent “weeding” my heart is valuable and essential. When I don’t take the time to weed through the issues in my heart life tends to weigh me down and fruit becomes less visible, much like in our vegetable garden.
- Does my day go any better when I have a heart that is overgrown with weeds? No, usually I am more stressed because I am trying to do it on my own strength when in reality I have no control over anything. Just having my mind and heart focused on what really matters makes the days more enjoyable. A vegetable garden cannot go days without water during a drought or the plants will stop producing fruit. My heart is the same, if I don’t take time refresh my heart when the drought comes I won’t be able to withstand the heat and will wither under the pressures life throws my way.
- Is my attitude better with a weedy heart? When my heart is overwhelmed with clutter it is much harder to live a life full of joy. A heart that is weeded will receive a fresh wave of energy and will rejoice in every precious day we are given. A garden flourishes when it is weeded, watered, has good soil, and plenty of sun. When your heart is weeded the positive fruits are allowed to grow giving you more opportunities to make a positive impact on the lives of others.
The weeds (busy agendas, work, distractions) are waging a constant battle against your heart much like they are doing in the garden. Take time daily to be still and focus on what’s really important. What is in our hearts will eventually become known. Our actions on the weedy days are not as kind or considerate to the people around us. Do you have weeds that pop up in your garden and heart?
Fresh & Healthy: Our Garden – Fresh Lettuce, Spinach, Dill, Broccoli, Radishes….Oh MY!
We are enjoying our garden!
Here are some of the fresh veggies we were able to eat and share this week:

Fresh Leafy Garden Lettuce and Spinach, first pick of the week! 
Fresh Garden Dill 
Fresh Garden Broccoli and Radishes 
Another day of picking fresh veggies in the garden. Sink full of fresh garden Veggies - Lettuce, Spinach, Radishes, Broccoli! 
Another batch of Fresh Vegetables from our Garden! Love eating fresh salads! And MORE Coming Soon…..

3 Baby Summer Squash Growing on one of the plants in the Garden! 
Beautiful Flowers Blooming on the Beans! We will miss the pretty flowers but are looking forward to the yummy beans! 
Two Big Tomatoes begging for the sun to shine this week so they can ripen! Hopefully next week you’ll see the ripened version of some of the produce.
Looking forward to seeing what we’ll be picking from the garden in the next few days to eat and share!
Mom’s BIG Mess!
Yes, Mom makes messes too. Last Wednesday while I was cooking dinner for our church Community Group I made the biggest mess my kitchen’s ever seen. I couldn’t blame anyone else either (Jake and the girls were innocent), it was completely my fault. I decided as I was cooking my lasagna sauce to make a quick trip out to the garden and pull a few more pieces of lettuce for dinner that night. While outside I got distracted and did a few “extra” small chores before heading back into the house.

Lasagna Sauce EVERYWHERE! As soon as I stepped into the house I could see the RED in the kitchen! Instead of turning the burner down I turned it up and the sauce exploded everywhere! I had sauce from the floor to ceiling, stove to refrigerator, and on the walls, cabinets, and counter tops. Of course the counter was loaded with stuff, including Wednesday’s mail (some bills will be sent with extra “color” this month). I spent the next hour scrubbing up the red splattered kitchen. Before the mess I was ahead of schedule, we made it to the event just a few minutes late. For a few days I was still finding random spots of red splatter marks. Oh well……guess it was great lesson learned and my kitchen got some good scrubbing in the process.
Save A Lot: Deals for the week of May 18 – 24, 2011
The Save A Lot weekly ad deals are listed below for your convenience. There are a lot of great deals for grilling out, here is a great Blessings Multiplied BBQ Brisket recipe, you could also do this recipe with the spare ribs that are on sale at Save A Lot this week! Sign up for the Smart Shopper Club, by doing so you will get a $5.00 off of $25.00 coupon!
Meats and Seafood
Beef Spare Ribs – $1.99 per lb
Holten Beef Patties (24 oz, 6 patties) – $1.99
Fairgrounds Hot Dogs (12 oz) – $0.69
Hillshire Farms Smoked Sausage (14 oz) – $1.99
Use $1/1 coupon from Hillshire Farms
$0.99 each after couponOcean Market (Flounder, Tilapia, Lemon Herb Tilapia, Pollock) (4 oz) – $1.00
Pick 5 for $19.99 promo on going: Pick any 5 specially marked packages of your favorite cuts of fresh, frozen or smoked meats and pay just $19.99 (about $2 per pound).
Fridge and Freezer
Libby’s Steam Bag Vegetables (12 oz) – $0.69
Coburn Farms Dozen Large Eggs – $0.99
Sunny D (48 oz) – $0.99
Use $0.25/1 coupon insert from 5/15 Smart Source (Expires 8/31/11)
$0.74 each with couponReser’s Potato and Macaroni Salads – $2.99
Use $1/1 printable coupon from Coupon Web
$1.99 each with couponFudgsicles or Popsicles – $1.00
Borden Singles or Grilled Cheese Melts (12 oz) – $1.50
McClary’s American Singles – $0.99
World’s Fair Junior Pops – $0.99
Coburn Farms Sour Cream (16 oz) – $1.29
Coburn Farms Dip (16 oz) – $1.39
Coburn Farms Yogurt – $0.50
Household
Wrightware Foam Plates (100 count) – $2.00
Pert Paper Towels – $0.69
First Force Pine Cleaner – $1.00
Produce
Idaho Potatoes (5 lbs) – $1.49
Jumbo Vine Ripe Tomatoes – $0.99 per lb
Jumbo Vidalio Onions – $0.59 per lb
Grocery
Summerset Tagless Ice Tea Bags (100 Count) – $1.19
Kool-Aide (assorted variety) – $0.20 each
Cowboy Billy’s Baked Beans (16 oz) – $0.79
Cowboy Billy’s Pork & Beans (16 oz) – $0.50
Kurtz Dill Pickles (32 oz) – $1.59
Kurtz Yellow Mustard – $0.69
Kurtz Ketchup – $0.89
J Higg’s Butter Round Crackers – $1.69
Port Side Chunk Light Tuna – $0.53
Del Pino’s Canned Pasta – $0.69
Hargis House Beans & Franks – $0.69
O Days Mac & Cheese – $0.39
Maruchan Ramon Noodles – $0.89
Portmann’s Salad Dressing – $1.29
Save-A-Lot Brand Soda – $0.69
Crisp Lemonade – $0.99
Thirst Quench’r Drink Sticks – $1.19
J. Higg’s Cornies Corn Chips – $1.29
J Higg’s Potato Chips – $1.19
J Higg’s Cheezie Puffs – $1.29
Gourmet Onion Rings – $0.99
CK Cheese Balls – $1.29
Remember you can use the $5/$25 printable coupon to sweeten these deals! Plus you can earn up to 5 additional $5 off $25 coupons for sharing the coupon with your friends.
For more information about Save A Lot’s coupon policies go here. If you find additional deals or savings please let me know and I will add them to the list.
Father’s Day Gifts: $25 Off Bosch Cordless Tools (Amazon)
Amazon is offering $25 Off Bosch Cordless Tools now through June 20, 2011. Are you looking for the perfect Father’s Day gift? Many of the Bosch tools are on sale plus you can add the additional $25 savings at checkout. Some items are more than 60% off prior to applying the additional $25! Pictured above is the Bosch PS20-2A 12-Volt Max Lithium-Ion Pocket Driver with 2 Batteries it is normally marked down to 66% off plus take an additional $25 off!
I have “secretly” been looking for a new tool set for Jake, maybe he’ll get one for Father’s Day this year! Shhhhh……don’t tell him! To see the other Bosch tools that qualify for the $25 and more information on the Terms & Conditions please visit the $25 Off Bosch Cordless Tools page on Amazon!
For additional savings use your Amazon Gift Certificates from Swagbucks to get this gift at a lower price or even free!!!
Teaching Our Children: Joy Of Sharing

Jars of fresh Strawberry Jam / Jelly! One of the best parts about being a parent is teaching our children. When you have opportunities to show them how them demonstrate positive characteristics it helps teach them valuable lessons plus it brings great joy seeing them get excited about sharing with others. The best part is when they initiate the action on their own, that’s when you know they are “getting it”. We have been teaching new words that go along with positive qualities as a family. One of the words we recently discussed with our girls was generosity. The old saying “it is better to give then to receive” is true, but unless it is put into action in your life and with the kids will they truly believe it. Part of our discussion involved finding ways to put the words, like generosity, into practical use. Here are some of the activities we did with the girls to help them understand the Joy of Sharing:
- Picking and giving away produce from our garden to every person on our street. The majority of the families on our street are retired, but they are unable to do a garden of their own this year. Being generous with the neighbors and those in close proximity allowed the girls the opportunity to share and learn more about those who live on our street. They had a lot of fun and told me that they were going to pray for the garden to grow really big so we can do it again. Loved seeing their excitement!
- Stamp Out Hunger Food Drive. We had the girls pick out some of their favorite non-perishable food items to put in a bag and had them help carry the items out to our mailbox. These activity provided us an opportunity to explain why we were giving the food away, who the food was going to, and to give praise that we had the extra blessings to share with those in our local community.
- Sharing with Siblings & Friends – as a child (and sometimes as an adult) it can be hard to share. Whether it is a toy, book, food, house or really anything. We have been encouraging the girls to share with each other and friends. For example, many times our neighbors grandkids will come over to our house to play after school. One of the first things I do when the girls get home from school is give them a snack because they each lunch at school at 10:30 in the morning. When their friends come over from the school bus they are hungry too and it is not polite to eat / drink in front of them. Sharing their snacks and giving their friends drinks when they come to play is part of being generous.
- Picking Strawberries & giving away Fresh Strawberry Jam – our family went strawberry picking one weekend. The following week I made jam while the girls were at school. They had a lot of fun giving the jars full of fresh strawberry jam to friends.
One important lesson to be taught is to be generous with the best. Do we hand our friends the half eaten loaf of bread or give them the freshly baked whole loaf? Give them the fresh whole loaf.
CVS: Spent $11 and Got $23 ECB’s Back!
CVS has a few good deals this week. I was happy to stock up on some items including paper towels and sunscreen this week while utilizing a few of my coupons. This week I was able to get the items for $9.90 plus tax ($1.24) making my out of pocket cost $11.14 and received $23 ECB’s to use on my next CVS purchase. Here is what I purchased this week.
- 1 – Finesse Moisturizing Shampoo for $2.50
- 2 – Scott Mega Paper Towels (6 count) for $5.00 each
- 1 – Dial Soap for $1.88
- 1 – Speedstick Stainguard Deodorant for $2.99
- 2 – CVS Vitamins Super B (100 Count) for $7.49 each (on sale for B1G1F)
- 1 – Neutrogena Sun Care Ultra for $9.79
- 1 – Neutrogena Sun Care Spray 30 SPF for $10.79
- 1 – Trident Citrus Twist Gum – $1.29
- 1 – John Frieda Precision Foam Color – $11.99
Here are the coupons I used on the items.
- Used $11.99 John Frieda Precision Foam Color (Free Product Coupon)
- Used $1.00 Scott Paper Towel Manufacturer Coupon
- Used $1.00 Scott Paper Towel Manufacturer Coupon
- Used $1.00 Finesse Manufacturer Coupon
- Used $0.50 Speedstick Manufacturer Coupon
- Used $3.00 off Healthcare Purchase from CVS Kiosk
- Used $3.00 off Beauty Purchase from CVS Kiosk
- Used $1.00 off Trident Gum from CVS Kiosk
- Used $24.77 ECB coupons from prior purchases
I received $23 ECB’s back today:
- $10.00 ECB’s for Neutrogena Sun Care Products
- $5.00 ECB’s for Beauty Club Reward (every $50 you spend you get a $5 ECB)
- $2.00 ECB’s for Scott Paper Towel Products
- $2.00 ECB’s for John Frieda Products
- $2.00 ECB’s for Speed Stick Products
- $1.00 ECB’s for Dial Products
- $1.00 ECB’s for Green Tag Reward (every 4th visit you use your Green Tag you get a $1 ECB)
This week I was able to save over $78 at CVS by purchasing these items and using coupons.
When you shop the CVS sales regularly and have ECB’s that you can roll over toward future purchases the bonus ECB’s start adding up (Green Bag Tags and Beauty Club). As you can see from my shopping trip today you don’t have to purchase a lot to save money when shopping at CVS. Plus you can use the additional ECB’s you receive towards your next purchase. You can pick and chose what is best for your family.
I would love to hear your CVS shopping story for this week! For those of you who shop regularly at CVS please share how you were able to save this week! Although the weekly ad sales are similar every family and situation is different so you may have found items better suited to your household. In your comment please feel free to share a link to your blog article showing us how you were able to save shopping at CVS.
Mailbox Goodies: Mobile Headset, Suave, John Frieda, Shampoo, Magazines & More!

Mailbox Goodies One of the best parts about getting the mail is when the mailbox full of goodies, especially when they are free! We got some great coupons for free items, free Mobile Headset, magazines and more stuff in the mail. Most of these deals are no longer available but I will try to keep you posted of some of the new ones coming up.
Here are some items we received in the mail:
- 2 – Free Suave Professionals Dry Shampoo or Styling Product Coupon (up to $3.00 each) – Suave Professionals Quiz (still available)
- Free John Frieda Precision Foam Colour Coupon (up to $12.99) – John Frieda Facebook Page
- Free Mobile Headset (pictured below, had to snatch it back from my husband to take a picture) – 1 Sale A Day
- Free Tampax Products – Being Girl
- Free Head & Shoulders Shampoo Sample – View Points (still available)
- $1.00 Off Cheer Coupon
- $5.00 & $1.00 Zantac Coupons – Zantac (still available)
- Free Zantac 150 Sample – Zantac (still available)
- Free Always Feminine Products plus Coupons – Being Girl
- Free Parent’s Choice Formula – (not sure how we got this one, but occasionally we get baby items in the mail) Although I checked and you can get this one through Parent’s Choice (still available)
- Free Thriving Family Magazine – been receiving for several months
- Free Newsweek Magazine – Rewards Gold (still available)
- Free Forbes Magazine – Rewards Gold (still available)
- Free Forbes Life Travel Magazine – Rewards Gold
- Free Plane & Pilot Magazine – been receiving for several months
- Free Tech Briefs Magazine – been receiving for several years
- Free Landscape Magazine – been receiving for several months
- And more free magazines and local coupons!

Free Mobile Headset! If you are like me it is nice when you get a mailbox with free coupons and samples in it. The bills will come as well but when you get a mailbox full of free items it helps make the day a little more enjoyable. Plus the coupons and samples are a great way to stretch your budget and share with others!
Fresh & Healthy: Community Supported Agriculture (Week 1)
I was super excited to start our CSA Program (Community Supported Agriculture) this week! Our family purchased a half of share and will be receiving fresh produce, local honey and more for 20 weeks. I plan to give an update on the items I receive from week to week. Jake picked up this weeks goodies since I was tied up with a project, thanks babe!!! It was hard for me to wait until he got home, I was so excited to see what we got!
Week 1

Fresh Goodies from our CSA!
- Two Bundles of Lettuce
- Radishes – Purple, White, and Red & White
- Bundle of Broccoli
- Half a Dozen of Fresh Eggs
- Local Honey
- 2 Bars of Homemade Soap
- Collard Greens
Looking forward to eating these goodies and using the soap! I didn’t grow up with Collard Greens so it is new food for our family. Do you have any good collard green recipes?
Living on a Budget: Groceries $40 for 4
Another week of doing Groceries $40 for 4. It was a busy week but I was able to stock up on some items for our pantry. I mainly stocked up on non-perishable products this week. Below are my grocery shopping adventures for the week!

Sav-Mor Sidewalk Box Sale! Groceries from Sav-Mor’s Sidewalk Box Sale:
- $14.00 at Sav-Mor for the following items
- 4 – Rustic Crust Thin Pizza Crusts
- 3 – Maxwell House Coffees (11 oz each)
- 2 – General Mills Whole Grain Total Cranberry Crunch Cereal (15 oz each)
- 4 – Organic Seeds of Change Rice
- 3 – General Mills Yogurt Burst Whole Grain Strawberry Cheerios Cereal (12.2 oz each)
- 1 – Kelloggs Fruit Loops Cereal (8.7 oz)
- 2 – Post Cupcake Pebbles Cereal (11 oz each)
- 4 – Lipton Soup Secrets – Chicken Noodle Soup
- 2 – Malt O Meal Cereals (18 oz) Frosted Mini Spooners
- 1 – Vanilla Almond Flax Plus Granola Cereal (11.5 oz)
- 1 – Philsbury Sugar Free Vanilla Frosting (15 oz)
- 2 – Philsbury Sugar Free Chocolate Frosting (15 oz each)
- 2 – Enjoy Life Double Chocolate Brownie Cookies
- 1 – Kraft Macroni & Chesse Homestyle
- 1 – Philsbury Easy Frosting (13.5 oz) Velvety Cream Cheese
- 1 – Laura Lynn Strawberry Syrup
- 1 – Playtex Coolster Kids Cup
- 1 – Grey Poupon Mustard
- 1 – Vegetarian Chili
- 1 – French’s Honey Mustard Dipping Sauce
- 2 – Sugar Free Peep Packs (3 Peeps per pack)
- 1 – A1 Marinade New Orleans Cajon (16 oz)
- 3 – Reese Sour Cocktail Onions (8 oz each)
- 3 – Paas Easter Egg Decorating Kits
- 17 – Easter Window Clings (14 to 29 pieces each)
- 1 – General Mills Fiber One Frosted Shredded Wheat (15.1 oz)
- 1 – Barbara’s Puffins Cereal (10 oz)
- 1 – Kellogg’s Special K Blueberry (11.4 oz)
- 1 – General Mills Total Blueberry Pomegranate (15 oz)
- 2 – Kellog’s Whole Grain Strawberry Poptarts (14.1 oz / 8 count each)
- 2 – Woven Wheats (9.5 oz)
- 5 – Lindsay Black Olives (6.5 oz each)
- 3 – Nestle Nesquick Chocolate Milk (4 count each)
- 1 – Vivarin
- 3 – DeBoles Rice Spaghetti Pasta
- 2 – Smuckers Toppings – Caramel
- 2 – Smuckers Toppings – Hot Fudge
- 1 – Smuckers Toppings – Apple Cinnamon
- 1 – Smuckers Mix Fruit Jelly
- 3 – Enjoy Life Cocoa Chewy Bars (5 count each)
- 1 – Cascadian Farms Organic Chocolate Chip Granola Bars (6 count each)
- 2 – Cascadian Farms Organic Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip Granola Bars (6 count each)
- 1 – Tabasco Habanero Hot Sauce
- 2 – David’s Sunflower Seeds (6 count each)
- 1 – David’s Sunflower Seeds (14.5 oz)
- 1 – David’s Sunflower Seeds (5.25 oz)
- 6 – Easy Kraft Mac n Cheese
- 1 – Zatarain’s Horse Radish (5.25 oz)
- 5 – Atkins Smores Bars
- 2 – Zone Perfect Dark Chocolate Cookies n Cream Bars
- 1 – Luna Nutz Over Chocolate Bar
- 1 – Ortega Taco Seasoning Mix
- 2 – Old Bay Crab Cake Mix
- 1 – Lemon Pepper Seafood Mix
- 1 – Grilling Seasons Mesquite Barbecue Marinade
- 4 – Grilling Seasons Stead Marinade
- 7 – Mayacamas Skillet Toss Miss
- 1 – Knorr Roasted Pork Gravy
- 1 – Knorr Cream of Spinach Mix
At Sav-Mor I spent $14.00 for 133 items making the cost 10 cents per item. Considering only a few of these items put together are worth $14 I am excited to get some of these to help restock our pantry. The Sav-Mor sale is an adventure but you can really get your money’s worth in a matter of minutes. You can learn more information about this sale at Living on a Budget: Sav-Mor Sidewalk Box Sale. It really does help stretch your budget when you have a store in the area that does great sales.

Publix Groceries Groceries from Publix:
- $19.08 at Publix for 6 ears of Fresh Corn, 1 Fresh Cantelope, Hotdog Buns, Hamburger Buns, Teddy Grahams, 2 containers of Cottage Cheese, 4 sets of Idaho Potatoes, Lasagne Noodles, Planters Nut Mix, 2 packs of McCormick Enchilada Mix, Publix Ice Cream, Nabisco Snack Pack, and Zesty Herb Marinade. Plus since I spent $25 in groceries (it was $27 before using coupons and taking discounts) I was able to get a $50 Shell Gas Card for $40, saving me $10 the next time I fill up the van.

Walmart Groceries Groceries from WalMart:
- $11.41 at WalMart for Fresh Tomatoes, Fresh Cucumber, Ground Hamburger (1 lb), Fresh Mushrooms, Asiago Cheese Bread, Whole Wheat French Bread, and Italian Sesame Bread (all the breads were on clearance).
I am excited to be back doing our Groceries $40 for 4 budget again. This week I spent $44.49 on groceries. Even though I went over the budget by $4.49 I was still able to stock up on several items. Thankfully I had a little bit left over from previous weeks to cover the extra amount. The box sale helped us restock our pantry plus we had several extra meals we were doing this week which resulted in some more food. Hopefully next week I will do better and keep it under $40.
It is my goal to give you regular updates on this budget section so you can celebrate the good weeks with me and thump me on the bad weeks! As always you are welcomed to join the journey with me. I would love to hear your story and how you are doing too. The purpose of our family doing this it to watch our grocery spending while allowing us to feed our family, enjoy life, share with others, and yet stay on track with our budget.
Living on a Budget is a series of ways our family uses a budget to help keep us accountable with our finances. Life doesn’t always go as planned. We have used some of the ideas I will be sharing for years while others are ones we are just starting to implement as we continue finding ways to be creative and have fun with what we have been given. Having a plan in place allows us the freedom to be smart with what we have been given, get more creative when it is a tight (week, month, year or a season) and when necessary live a much more simplified life. A budget helps us stay on track so we have more opportunities to enjoy the many blessings we have been given as well as share what we have with others. There is so much more to life than having all the stuff. We may not have the newest or greatest items in our house, we drive used cars, and wear hand-me-down clothing…..however, if our family is taken care of and have love for each other and others we have more than all the riches in the world.


