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Flashback Friday: Naps with Tigger
Brina sleeping soundly on her boppy with Tigger!
Today’s Flashback Friday takes us back 10 years ago. The girls were only a couple months old. They were great nappers and would sleep pretty much anywhere (from their cribs, swings, boppies, pack-n-plays, and other random locations). We usually rotated them to different spots to take naps so they got used to sleeping anywhere in the house. At night we would always put them to bed in their cribs, but were more flexible with their napping locations. Looking back on it they were awesome travelers because of this too. They could sleep at anyone’s house or a hotel and it never bothered them the least bit. Probably their favorite place to sleep was their swings, they LOVED their swings!!!
There is something so peaceful about a little one that is sleeping. So thankful for these two little ones. It doesn’t seem like that long ago they were rolling around on the floor, taking naps throughout the day, and playing with the little Tigger toys. The years have went by quickly, but I am grateful for these precious moments.
Karlie on her boppy with Tigger on her tummy and her foot sticking out of her clothes. She had a way of wiggling her toes out of the closed-toed outfits!I Love You Too!
“I Love U” spelled out with their Magformers Set
It is always a pleasant surprise when you walk into a room and find a nice saying or artwork waiting for you. The other day I walked into the dining room and this is what was on the kitchen table. An “I Love You” message and smiley face.
Thankful for my kids. Their creativeness and their little ways of reminding us that they truly do appreciate and love us as well. They requested that I take a picture of their artwork so they could send a message to some people and let them know that they were thinking of them on this particular day.
It’s the little things like this that make me smile. Parenting can be tough some days, but it is also very rewarding too. Grateful for these special moments when they demonstrate love, happiness, and the desire to brighten the days of others.
Counting My Blessings: Week In Review

Last week was crazy busy with everything going on with school. Extra projects, Science Fair, teachers trying to get the kids ready for all the state testing we have this year (which seems like it’s a lot). Not to mention Jake was traveling and a mirad of appointments that I had to go to throughout the week. I am thankful for some time we got to spend together over the weekend even if it was still pretty packed full. There was so much to be thankful for last week.
I want to be accountable to you so the following are snip-its of some of the things I am thankful for this past week. Counting My Blessings – Week In Review:
Monday – Thankful for a library that waives late fees periodically. I needed this grace extended on my account. One of the kids books got misplaced and I hadn’t checked my account for awhile so a small amount accumulated on my account during that week.
Tuesday – Thankful for a husband who works hard to provide for our family.
Wednesday – Thankful for an orthodontist who is helping with kids teeth.
Thursday – Thankful to have Jake back home again. When he travels we all miss him very much.
Friday – Thankful for an opportunity to make some progress on the girls Science Fair Projects and especially thankful that Jake is willing to pitch in and help too. With two kids doing completely different projects it can get quite crazy at times with everything spread out!
What are you thankful for today? I encourage you to take the time to write down a few blessings that you have in your life today. It will help cheer you up and turn your focus on the amazing blessings you encounter each day!
Intentional Living: Weekly Goals

This past week went by in a whirlwind. Jake was traveling for work, the girls have been working diligently every day on their Science Fair Project which is due pretty soon, and there were a lot of extra activities and appointments going on. We made it through the week in one piece, but hoping it slows down soon. I was not aware of how time consuming the Science Fair projects would be. Not sure if this week is much quieter, but I am hoping to make some more progress in the right direction. Due to the many activities going on this week several items are going to be the same again because I was unable to get to them. Here are my goals for this week:
Last week’s goals
Family Goals
- Finish reading Samantha’s Pride (Thoroughbred Series #7) by Joanna Campbell to the kids – we haven’t had as much time to read for fun with all the extra work on the Science Fair Projects, hoping to get to this more soon
Plan one special activity with the familyPlay a Game with the Kids– Played the Destination USA Board Game with themPrepare for Upcoming Spring EventsSpend time Monday –Friday helping the kids with HomeworkAttend After School ActivitiesLunch Boxes & Book Bags packed the night before- Prep for upcoming Family Adventure – are brainstorming and trying to work out the details (and scheduling)
- Finish the kids Science Fair Projects – almost done!!!!!!!
- Prep for upcoming Summer Break – starting to fill in the schedule
Personal Goals
Drink 8 glasses of water each day- Continue my YouVersion plan(s) – I am about 3 days behind, need to catch up this week
Keep up with my FitBit Goals– I did it!!!!Go to my Doctor Appointments Scheduled this week- Update Counting My Blessings and Other journal entries daily – this one didn’t get updated daily with everything going on
Home (Yard & Pets) Management Goals
All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one dayWeekly Dinner Menu planned out for the week- Clean House (Focus – All Winter Clothes Pulled out of Closets & Dressers and Put into the Attic) – other items took priority and with the cold rainy days one of my daughters wore her jeans and long shirts all week!
- Organize Chaos (Focus – All pictures downloaded & organized from FL, STEM, and Atlanta trips) – got all the Florida and STEM ones completed, just need to tackle the Atlanta trip
- Yard / Garage Cleanup (Focus – Clean Off the Deck) – it rained the entire week here in SC
- Pet Care (Focus – Get Another Water Bucket set Out for the Goats) – have one that will be repositioning soon
Business Goals
Work on ideas for upcoming blog posts- Respond to Inquiry – Business Relation Emails – need to catch up
- Keep up with the day to day items that need my attention – I did the high priority or hot items
- Work completed for clients – have a few projects to complete soon
Ministry Goals
Meet a friend or family member for Breakfast or Lunch
Financial Goals
- Payoff the Car – working on it
- Payoff Medical Bills- working on it (paid off a couple this week, YAY!)
- Payoff Other Outstanding Debt – (replacement microwave, refrigerator, hot water heater, bed, and other debt)- working on it
Pay Bills & File PaperworkGo grocery shopping one time to one store this week and stay within budget
My goals for the upcoming week
Family Goals
- Finish reading Samantha’s Pride (Thoroughbred Series #7) by Joanna Campbell to the kids
- Plan one special activity with the family
- Play a Game with the Kids
- Prepare for Upcoming Spring Events
- Spend time Monday –Friday helping the kids with Homework
- Attend After School Activities
- Lunch Boxes & Book Bags packed the night before
- Prep for upcoming Family Adventure
- Finish and turn in the kids Science Fair Projects
- Prep for upcoming Summer Break
Personal Goals
- Drink 8 glasses of water each day
- Continue my YouVersion plan(s)
- Keep up with my FitBit Goals
- Go to my Doctor Appointments Scheduled this week
- Update Counting My Blessings and Other journal entries daily
Home (Yard & Pets) Management Goals
- All laundry for the week washed, folded, and put away in one day
- Weekly Dinner Menu planned out for the week
- Clean House (Focus – All Winter Clothes Pulled out of Closets & Dressers and Put into the Attic)
- Organize Chaos (Focus – All pictures downloaded & organized from Atlanta trip)
- Yard / Garage Cleanup (Focus – Clean Off the Deck)
- Pet Care (Focus – Get Another Water Bucket set Out for the Goats)
Business Goals
- Work on ideas for upcoming blog posts
- Respond to Inquiry – Business Relation Emails
- Keep up with the day to day items that need my attention
- Work completed for clients
Ministry Goals
- Meet a friend or family member for Breakfast or Lunch
Financial Goals
- Payoff the Car
- Payoff Medical Bills
- Payoff Other Outstanding Debt – (replacement microwave, refrigerator, hot water heater, bed, and other debt)
- Pay Bills & File Paperwork
- Go grocery shopping one time to one store this week and stay within budget
I think it is important to share and encourage each other as we seek to improve our lives and the lives of those around us. I want to live intentionally not just hope all my dreams and goals come true. When I focus on small steps of improvement I am able to see results as I get closer to my goals. Some weeks I get closer to the goals I have in my life and other weeks a take a few steps back (life happens, emergencies occur, people get sick). Once the goals are written down and shared it provides a guideline for what I aim to accomplish this week.
Why Share My Goals?
- To keep me accountable
- To share a piece of my life with you as I strive to be a better Child of God, Wife, Mom, Friend, Homemaker, Entrepreneur and the many other roles I have each week
- To have my goals consistently written down so I can gauge progress more accurately
- Create healthy habits in my life
- To encourage you to share your goals with me as you continue to grown and learn
How did you do this week on your goals? Feel free to share or link to your list of weekly goals.
The picture above is one that I created for my own purposes, however, The “SMART” acronym was originally coined 30 years ago by Peter Drucker in his classic work, Management by Results.
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Travel & Vacation: Walt Disney World’s Trading Pins
Ready to trade!
When we went to Disney recently we decided to add a fun event to the girls days while in the parks. I was looking online for neat activities and inexpensive souvenirs when I discovered the Disney Trading Pin idea. None of us had ever done this before, but it intrigue me so I researched it more.
Get a Disney Trading Pin Starter Pack. We decided to buy a starter pack of Walt Disney World Trading Pins for the girls and see how it goes. You can find a lot of sets for sell on Amazon or EBay. If you do purchase from Amazon OR EBay, please check the seller’s feedback and verify that the trading pins you are purchasing are truly official Disney Trading Pins. The official Disney Trading Pins will all be made of metal and contain the mickey mouse head printed on the the backs. If they are not “official Disney Trading Pins” you will not be able to trade them at the parks. We purchased a set of 50 Disney Trading Pins for less than $0.50 per pin including shipping. The only catch with the pins we got was that we couldn’t “pick” which pins came in our package. We really didn’t have any preference on the pins we wanted to get starting and didn’t have any specific sets we were trying to collect any way so it made sense to get started with a decent number of pins by getting them online prior to going to Disney. You can also pick up various themed starter packs at any of the Disney stores.
Make it a game and prepare the kids before leaving home. A couple days before we left for Disney we put all the trading pins into a bowl and had the girls choose one out at a time so it was random. We explained what the pins were for, how to use them, and that they were theirs to keep, trade, and do as they please with them. They were really excited by this new fun game! After they drew all the trading pins that we had been sent they practiced their trading abilities by trading a couple among themselves.
Decide which ones you want to keep and which ones to trade. They sorted them by categories – ones they wanted to keep, ones they wanted to trade with others because they didn’t want them, and ones that they hadn’t decided whether or not they wanted to keep into their “maybe” stack. We used 4 lanyards that Jake had collected through the various conferences he has attended to attached their pins.
Make sure to get a lanyard or hat to store them on. Separate out the ones you want to keep from the ones you want to trade. They had one lanyard that they wore or kept readily available so they could trade with any cast member or other guest while at the Disney parks, on the transportation systems, hotel, standing in line, and various other places throughout our travels. The other lanyard they kept separate and that contained all the trading pins they really wanted to keep or try to collect. We kept the lanyard with the pieces they wanted to save in their back packs so they didn’t accidentally trade the wrong ones. Also, we discovered that occasionally the back would come off of a trading pin and at times the pin itself would fall off. If they lost one they were already trading it would not be as disappointing as losing one that they really wanted to keep.
Meet a lot of neat people and enjoy a variety of fun conversations. We weren’t entirely sure how well it would work, if the kids would like it, or if it would be fun for them, but we gave it a try. They LOVED it!!! It was so neat to see them talking, interacting, and trading not only with various cast members, but other guests as well. They had to be okay if someone didn’t want to trade and learn how to interact politely with both kids and adults. It was a great learning experience for both of the kids. They had a grand time and had so many interesting conversations with people we met throughout the week that we probably would have never talked with had they not been trading.
Educational souvenir and perfect for older kids. Let the kids handle as much as the interaction on their own. It was educational, fun, and for the most part inexpensive souvenir. The new trading pins in the stores sell for $6 and more per trading pin! This activity is particularly good for older children, probably 6 and up. The younger ones can do it too, but it takes more parent supervision. Most of the time I would step back and let the kids do all the conversations and interactions on their own. They got really good at it and had a blast at the same time. If your looking for a fun activities that can be done no matter where you are at in the Disney vicinity this is a wonderful activity. Once the girls knew what they wanted to collect it became like a scavenger hunt game for them.
Manners Matter. It is probably obvious, but like anything else in life it is important to be polite and use your manners when you are interacting with cast members and other guests. There are some people that absolutely do not want to trade and you have to be okay with that too! The girls ended up getting some pretty neat pins and even a couple extra ones when trading. I believe a large part of them getting a few extra pins was that they were polite and respectful when interacting with people during the trading process (plus wearing their birthday celebration buttons helped with that as well).
How to trade pins with cast members and guests. Any cast member will trade up to 2 pins with you as long as you do not give them one that they already have. Other guests do not have to trade with you, but there is no limit on the number of trades you can do with other guests. We had many opportunities to trade throughout the entire week! The kids were very excited by the pins they were able to collect during the week. They even collected a full set or two. They can back with only a handful of the 25 pins they began the week with before heading to Disney It was interesting to see how they choose to handle their sets and how their different personalities shown through in this activity.
Brina’s starter set. The top row was her want to keep and “maybe” sets.
At the end of the week Brina’s “keep” set on the left and “trade later” set on the right.
Brina made up her mind almost immediately what she wanted to collect, never changed her mind, and consistently only looked for those specific items. She managed to complete one full set and is only 1 away from completing her 2nd set. Brina especially enjoyed talking and trading with the kids (both the little ones and older ones). She would trade any of her stash of trading buttons with them just for fun even if they didn’t have something she wanted in return. It was a great social activity and she really enjoyed it!
Karlie’s Disney Trading Pins starter set. She separated hers out into to save, trade, and “maybe” trade categories.
Karlie’s two sets by the end of the week. On the left are her “keep” pins and on the right are her “still can be traded at a later day” pins. As you can see she has some of the same pins and a variety of new ones.
Karlie was fun to watch trade. She would trade with anyone and everyone. It was a great adventure for her to go up to workers, other guests, and just start up a conversation. She was always excited about a variety of pins. Although she originally only had one or two sets she was collecting by the end of the week she had several different sets she was collecting because she kept adding more ones she wanted to keep. She didn’t complete any of her sets, but she did get some very “Karlie” type pins which was cool!
If you want some more information about how to get started with the Disney Trading Pins you can go to Disney or Disney Blog or other individuals who have shared great advice with a lot of information for those who are looking at beginning to trade the Disney pins:
These should help you get off to a great start in your Disney Trading Pin adventure! Happy Trading!!!
Flashback Friday: Exhausting Day
Must have been an exhausting day!
Our Flashback Friday goes back to April 2005 when the girls were almost 2 months old. Jake and the girls were playing while I was making dinner. When I came back to check on them this is what I discovered. Everyone was napping peacefully. Must have been a busy day for the crew. Maybe it is all those middle of the night feedings interrupting our sleep.
Thankful for my family and the blessings in my life. They look so peaceful when they are sleeping. Those first few months were especially tiring for Jake and I. I am not sure how he did everything. He got up every night to help me with feeding the girls and then go work a full day. There weren’t a lot of parties and late night fun activities other than taking care of babies during this season of our life.


































